Disappointments are mild temporary form of regrets * [for what is not there BUT is/was desired highly that] that we have almost every day in some form of other. We feel disappointed when we 1.Don't get what we want 2.When we get what we want – this happens when we have certain hopes about how a certain outcome would feel like AND it does not 3.When...
Your degree of comfort with being-yourself decides how free you would be communicating with others AND the Quality of your relationship, success and popularity. If you want to become a Master-Communicator – then you have to constantly work on sharpening the finer aspects of communication like – 1.Asking-questions 2.Empathy 3.Listening [...
All of us can easily recall numerous incidences - where others have manipulated us or taken us for a ride or have taken advantage of us unfairly or have emotionally blackmailed us. Sometimes, we too might have intentionally used the trust and faith of others - to hustled them for our advantage. We might sometimes feel helpless – when it is d...
In this article we will learn - Basics about irritations and irritants - 37 Everyday Major and Minor Irritants - 26 reasons Why we get irritated - 36 Ways on How to work on Handling Irritants in Our Life Most of our life's pleasures comes from the collection of memories - of our numerous day to day - small-small joys . Similarly, most of our stress...
It seems all of us wants to settled down in life – at least most of us or - many of us– RIGHT? This mindset is the root-cause most of our woes, miseries, anguishes, distresses, despairs etc. etc. in our lives – and creates many negativities. Because it works on the exact opposite principal of the Laws of nature . The Nature is about continuous evol...
I am a genius – when it comes to screwing-up my life – Again and again and then again AND that too in every aspect as well as in every respect Big-time . You would think– that – after making mistakes after mistakes after mistakes I should be a Zen-master-wiser . Yes, I do learn And I do recall my resolve of never to making that mistake again...
Dealing with Your Emotional Insecurities In this article you will learn - 27 Signs of How to spot an insecure person [Outwardly Observable Signs] - You can also identify – whether you have insecurities – the more yeses – the bigger insecurities and hence the greater need for treatment/therapy] - 34 Signs to find How Insecure You are – please unders...
When your computer/laptop/mobile stops responding and hangs – what do we do – we press the Ctrl+Alt+Del buttons together to restart afresh. Have you ever wished – if you could do the same with your own life – that is to restart afresh after a massive setback or failure. Having faced multiple unprecedented crises of mammoth nature in my life [all th...
All business fail – time to time. Some businesses fall into a downward mode and never recover and are forced to close themselves-down or become bankrupt. Some businesses fail in their existing fields - yet manage to pivot into totally new products, services or offerings and scale heights again [these are the rare ones]. Some businesses lose their e...
Almost every organization [ whether it is business, political or governments ] works on the principal of concealing mistakes and highlighting only the accomplishments - As a result – improvement becomes impossible as we don't know/hide/ignore the mistakes. Big breakthroughs happens when - what was hitherto-impossible meets with - what is desperat...
Today irrespective of their genre - Almost all the businesses [ be it manufacturing, trading, service or concepts] are susceptible to ultra-fast changes in the technologies and the markets – which can make them obsolete overnight . 18 competencies needed for the Disruptive Leadership and 27 ways on How to Leap into Disruptive-uncertainty with...
In this article we will learn - - 15 causes - why we feel the regrets, the guilt, the shames, the embarrassments - 26 profound reasons which generate guilt and regret AND also are the basics of happiness, success, accomplishments and relationships - 31 tips on how you can overcome your guilt How to stop feeling guilty and ashamed and how not to giv...
118 ways to lead your business and team during tough times. Challenging times, crises, disruptive changes, uncertainties – are the only constant that we can expect in our entire life and in almost all the important areas of life – professional, business, relationships, financial, physical etc. Etc. When we are formally in a Leadership role a...
Do you ever wonder Why so many of us Don't Do those things which we know are absolutely essential for accomplishing all our big aspirations, dreams and passions And are of immense benefits to us in long-term. Sometimes We don't do these in spite of being aware of the detrimental impact of not doing these. Knowing something and actually doing it are...
In this article you will learn - 12 Questions to Clarify – if we really need to prove ourselves – please answer honestly and sincerely - 14 Benefits I experienced AND you too can – when you your life without trying to prove to others of your worth - 20 ways how can you create meaning in your life – it is my list – you can use it and add yours - 20 ...
Being messy [by nature and not through deliberate intentions] – is in many cases linked with geniuses and creative personalities. Here in this article – we shall explore – what type of mess can propels our creative and innovative brain to a level to make these soft-skills Our Key Differentiators . There are messy people – who are messy because they...
Even though you may not be depressed – this article is for you – for you to heal yourself AND help someone – who may not realize it. You could be a person who is living a life fully engaged in various pursuits in their professional, family, parental, social arenas are considered fairly successful – YET – might be slightly stressed [as popula...
All of us have numerous significant relationships in our life – in all the different areas of our lives [Personal, family, professional, business, social etc] . Our degree of stress and quality of life and level of happiness and success – comes from having great relationships with all the people in our lives, who have the power to affect these [ of...
Being ultra-high achiever is not everyone's cup of tea – maybe less than 1% fall under that category. Check whether you have the 12 basics pre-requisites and 110+ qualities to be a Great Achiever – AND – whether you are qualified enough to belong to this elitist-club . 1.You need to be prepared for Major Failures, Upsets, Disappointments etc. [me...
81+ Self-Sabotaging Habits and Thought Patterns and 50+ Tips on how not to be your own worst enemy. Understand and accept that No one can be more effective at screwing-up your life better than yourself. Agreed that You might be going through most harrowing times – but, MANY TIMES, the way we perceive, think and deal with what has already happened –...
How to be in demand and sought-after in your job, business, profession, relationship, society. Have you ever wondered WHY some people for the same position get enviable high remuneration packages than their peers [who may have similar qualifications and experience]. OR some products, brands, organizations command premium prices, awareness and deman...
Routine and monotony are our everyday and the most common elements of our current existence. The above is in addition to our lives being full of tough times, challenges and being filled with moments where we just want to run away. If we record the daily activities of most of the working people - we would find that – most of us - wake up at the same...
In today's complex and fast-changing economic, political, market, blink-of-eye-Technologies and consumer-preferences-and-habits => to say "that being the top boss is demanding would be the biggest understatement of our times ". Whether you are a CEO of the world's largest organization or a one-person start-up OR even someone looking for a job – ...
Many of us confuse feeling good and momentary pleasure with happiness. Happiness is something we all seemingly desire [at least believe that we are looking for] – but most of us don't even know what real-true-meaningful happiness is – and – very rarely we focus on being happy in our every day life. Many of us also believe that Happiness is s...
What is a sacred space ?is it a physical space? Why do We need a Sacred Space? And how do we create our own sacred space? A sacred space is our very-own Personal and Secret sanctum-sanctorum to recharge our mental, emotional, spiritual and physical energies and to rejuvenate us . This is the space where we find ourselves and get in touch with our...
Don't We all want to live a life full of meaning, joy, and fulfillment – does this happen and is it easy. It could be the most difficult thing to identify THAT ONE THING – which is THE PURPOSE of your Life and which MAKES You COME ALIVE and which GIVES A SENSE OF FULFILLMENT and Meaning in our lives. There is no fixed solution, process or answer ...
If you are person who is not satisfied with mere survival BUT wants to thrive in life BIG-WAY – then this article is for you. Most of our Limitations are Self-Created, Self-Imposed and Self-Geared and Self-Powered -and – they block us from accomplishing great-feats that we are capable of. Otherwise there would not be people – who Triumph in Doing ...
In this article we will learn the following -19 pre-requisite mental-emotional frames and mindset - we need to develop so that we can take care of ourselves in most powerful and rejuvenating ways plus What self-care is not -75 Tips on How to take care of Yourself through Pampering and Indulging Yourself in such a ways that it brings out the best in...
Don't Stop Complaining – Learn to Complain Effectively to Get What You want. In this article we will focus on the 43 Tips Art of Complaining Effectively and its interdependent 39 ways of Art of Negotiating * for successful outcomes. Most of us accept this wisdom about complaining that - Complaining is bad . This is both TRUE as well as False . Th...
In this article we will learn -Why we feel irritated - and how constant irritation can lead to frustrations - 7 ways How to deal with irritating behavior in the workplace - 15 examples of irritating behaviors of others - which bothers us and drains our energy and morale - 10 basic reasons why we can get irritated which later leads to frustration - ...
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