If I ask you - Do you lose your calm, YOUR answer would only differ FROM OTHER'S ONLY in terms of frequency with which you lose your calm, composer and control. All of us loses our calm, now and there . Very few of lose our calm because of the events [although the events/situations/difficult and toxic people do play their part] – MOST OF US LOSE OU...

Your being funny or wanting to be funny is dependent on how often you try to make people laugh – off-course by doing so, you would fail more but you will also succeed more. If want to laugh away your blues or break out of your shackles - humor is a great way. Having a good sense of humor makes you more enjoyable to be around . This article is about...

​ How to be consistent Your biggest power in any thing meaningful and worthwhile comes from Power of Consistency. Having been with some awesomely successful people and having had opportunities to observe them in very close proximity taught me exactly the same, what the original story of Tortoise and Rabbit is telling us from the time immortal. Most...

​ Innovation helps us create a new dimension of performance, future, benchmarks, standards, directions and improvements. In this article we have highlighted 78 ways to enhance creativity and innovation in organizations and also in your own personal, professional, social life. In the organizations, nations and communities - Sustained innovation come...

​ Real-life heroes and off-course the Real-life heroines are seldom those well-known and recognizable celebrities who are revered by the masses. [I will be using this word Hero as gender-neutral - to refer to both male and females' genders but also to other genders as well]. In my opinion there is clear distinction between celebrities and real-life...

​How to be lazy Why being lazy is good and benefits of laziness. Whenever in my workshop, counseling or coaching session I ask the participants to list their top strengths and qualities , hardworking is always there. How many of you reading this article have at least one of the following 1.Have stressors and stresses in life 2.Are pressed for time ...

​Improve your memory How to make your focus razor sharp Why at times we lose our concentration and why we are at our sharpest best at other times. How we cannot remember few things in-spite of trying very hard and why we can remember many things without any conscious efforts. Many times, we may feel restless and find our mind just wandering, unclea...

​ Welcome to the world of Rapid, Unpredictable, Chaotic, Inconsistent, Oxymoronic, and Badly-Tangled, Volatile, Complex, Hazy-Picture, Continuously-Changing, Overwhelming & Unstable Atmosphere [ you are welcome to add words that I might have missed in this series ]. Today's Leaders as well as the most common man need to learn the skills to cope...

​ Life is so simple yet complex - depending on - whether you are focused on meaningful worthwhile living or chasing the glamour. In this article I will try to give clarity on 1.When winning is really a long-term and actual loss AND 2.When losing makes us a real-winner Many-times choosing to lose is essential to makes us the real winner – in the lon...

​Harnessing the Power Networking for Business, Professional, Social & Personal Triumph and success, Professional networking tips It is a no brainer, if you want to be, have and do the following 1.Hugely successful 2.Accomplish large Dream 3.Start your own successful start-up 4.Get promoted & rise fast in your profession 5.Get a fantastic li...

All of us can win in life Big-Time. If only we are able to push past our struggles, our conflicts and our demons [ those are sitting in our way ] and move forwards towards the success, growth, prosperity, happiness and relationships that we deserve and desire. Look at your life as it is right now and check what fits with your life 1.Are you struggl...

​How do we learn a new skill quickly and effectively . How do we master any skill . Many of what we have learned are helpful skills, traits, attitudes, behaviors, beliefs [positive skills] on the other hand there are those which are detrimental to us [negative skills]. All our actions, thoughts, reactions and behaviors whether automatic or as an af...

​ Reasons why leadership fails A.Why Businesses and organizations fails B.Why nations fails C.Why religions fails D.Why societies and communities fails E.Why families fails F.Why individuals fails Behind almost all the failures, lies the failure of leadership. The leadership fails primarily because the leadership positions are occupied by people, w...

​Have you ever been in situations – where all the available-options either have similar powerfully negative outcomes Or all of them are irresistibly desirable and needed BUT YOU must CHOSE ONE - BECAUSE not choosing is not even a choice. These are called Catch-22 situations – in these there are catches and riders and conditions that makes us comple...

Why Some People Get Promoted And Others Don't To Understand How To Get Promoted In Your Job , We First Need To Understand Why You Are Not Getting Promoted Especially If You Are Performing Well In Their Current Roles, As Per Your Seniors Opinion. There Are Also The Cases Where A Star Performer Got Promoted To Next Level And Was A Complete Disaster A...

​ And How to become an entrepreneur without money & How to become serial entrepreneur. Instead of starting with why the businesses succeed , I would start with the most important factors which makes almost 90%+ businesses fail initially or later. As per my research, exposure & learnings, people who start and run commercial enterprises can b...

​How to create differentiation through being competitive & Competitive Leadership advantage A competitive advantage it is what distinguishes you from the competition in ALMOST EVERYTHING whether you are seeking a soul-mate, a customer or a job. It is applicable to individuals, corporations, businesses and countries. Few Basics about Distinction...

​Is Complaining Good or Bad. Complaining is Good when 1.When you find yourself complaining about something that does not have any solution & then go on to find how many people have similar needs & complaints. Then you create a start-up serving those unmet needs. 2.You use your complaints to negotiate better solutions for all stakeholders af...

100+ Practical and Do-It-Yourself tips to gain control of your mind, emotions, thoughts ad life. Do you sometimes find that situations and people are in control and driving your emotions, your feelings and even your mind . OR do you frequently experience the feeling of not being in control of your life . OR Do you get agitated very fast [this for m...

​Life is a passage through a wilderness which constantly throws many small, huge, unexpected and sometimes totally disrupting - challenges, difficulties, obstacles, problems, situations . Each person whether a new born or a veteran faces numerous setbacks, failures, mistakes, crises – on an on-going basis throughout their life. Although in many ins...

Why managing energy is more important than managing time​ How many of you feel tired because of constantly being on your toes and yet do not get significant & meaningful return on your efforts. For how many of you it would a deja-vu situation, that in-spite of having very important work on hand we just crash on the couch watching bad TV or doin...

​ Don't Stop Complaining – Learn to Complain Effectively to Get What You want. In this article we will focus on the 43 Tips Art of Complaining Effectively and its interdependent 39 ways of Art of Negotiating * for successful outcomes. Most of us accept this wisdom about complaining that - Complaining is bad . This is both TRUE as well as False . Th...

​Like Legendary Tennis Player Arthur Ashe said, we ask God "Why Me" only when we are in trouble. BUT We never ask God "Why Me" when we have great time. Therefore here it is to wish you the following in this New Year 2018 and beyond for-ever so that you can always say "Why Me" in happier times 1.May you discover the strengths that are uniquely yours...

​If you are person who is not satisfied with mere survival BUT wants to thrive in life BIG-WAY – then this article is for you. Most of our Limitations are Self-Created, Self-Imposed and Self-Geared and Self-Powered -and – they block us from accomplishing great-feats that we are capable of. Otherwise there would not be people – who Triumph in Doing ...

​ Don't We all want to live a life full of meaning, joy, and fulfillment – does this happen and is it easy. It could be the most difficult thing to identify THAT ONE THING – which is THE PURPOSE of your Life and which MAKES You COME ALIVE and which GIVES A SENSE OF FULFILLMENT and Meaning in our lives. There is no fixed solution, process or answer ...

​ Intelligence types and its impact on relationships & human life as a Whole This article is far-far beyond the scope of IQ & EQ. Elements of Entrepreneurship & Business Intelligence 1. Learning the art of reading the emerging trends 2. Predicting the trend 3. Understanding the difference between past its age, on the peak & future w...

Good personality traits, The essentials for our Success, Health, Happiness, Relationship, Bliss & Contentedness - Our positive & Negative habits/qualities/strengths/weaknesses -The enablers & the blockers. Most of the times Our success & Happiness is a matter of reduction, deletion & subtractions & not addition. It is more i...

Problematic Relationship Patterns & Personalities of People which Creates Problems in Our Relationships Continuing from PROBLEMATIC RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS http://relationshipandhappiness.com/relationship/marriage-issues/relationship-patterns.html Now this is about you, how you might be making others miserable [especially those who are closest to...

​How to set healthy boundaries in all your all your relationships. Setting Healthy Boundaries in Your All Relationships is important for your happiness, success, peace, prosperity, health, relationship & growth. All of us have following relationships & more. If we do not set healthy boundaries, we cannot have healthy , meaningful & blis...

HOW to BE A GREAT BOSS And How to HANDLE A Bad Boss​ Being a Great BOSS It is easier to be a Great Boss than handling bad bosses. I am listing the qualities that are majorly implementable & self-explanatory. You may add others that I have missed 1. Great bosses are full of passionate energy, enthusiasm & contagious positivity 2.They believe...