Why creativity is important & How to Develop Your Creativity
If there is just one skill that can be the biggest differentiator in your life's most crucial aspects, it is APPLIED CREATIVITY.
Just being able to think in a different manner it is not enough, it also has to be able to help you & others grow through its applications in real-life issues.
In this article we would touch upon
1.Creative Leadership for Successful Entrepreneurship
2.Making Creative Curiosity or Creative Inquiry part of your nature
3.How the parents kill the naturally inherent creativity in their children
4.Why the our millennials believe in YOLO & have FOMO and other insecurities
5.How our education systems creating preprogramed robotic people
6.What impact our society have on our life's most important parameters like happiness, peace, security, satisfaction, success & growth
7.The Creativity Process, What we need to do to instigate creativity & master the finesse
8.Shattering few popular myths about creativity
9.Which tools of Neuro Linguistic Programing can make you awesomely creative person
Few Myths of Creativity
1.I learned that for all my problem, only I can find the way, no-one would ever or can really help. This is the first major requisite of creativity, you are stuck and you must find solution yourself, you just cannot ignore or walk-away from this problem.
2.Then I learned creativity can be enhanced through structured approach, most people who think creativity is inborn would laugh – even the artist or any famous creative person recognized hundreds of year after their work, achieved by sheer hard work.
3.Then I also learned that irrespective of the nature of the problem, there would always multiple ways it can be handled, solved or overcome & that none of our major problems can be solved by standard sets of procedures in a mechanical way.
4.Contrary to the most popular myth surrounding creativity, it is hard skill learned with patience, practice & perseverance. "Every child is an artist, the problem is staying an artist when you grow up."-Pablo Picasso.
My journey towards creativity, it may add some value by striking a chord with many of you
1.I was thought of as most structured person with no creativity, around 13-14 years back, by so called famously established creative persons in India I was working with.
2.I used to feel disgusted & ashamed with myself for not having this skills.
3.Then after couple of years I left them [because I was constantly feeling low of their continuous assessment of me and my capabilities this way] and was on my own.
4.For long time their prognosis stayed with me, and because of this acquired mindset, I kept acting in the same manner I never tried to actually think out of the box as the cliché says.
5.In fact I tried to do everything their way, like they would do, go to the conference and workshop totally unprepared, at least they told me[they used to laugh at me because I used to write the flow chart].
6.I failed miserably again and again, and was stuck in this vicious cycle.
7.Out of this misery, came a resolve that I was successful in worldly view earlier, only when I was with them my self-esteem went down and I started failing.
8.Then I came across this beautiful workshop by Edward De Bono. It actually made me think & change the way I operated, thought, reacted & responded.
9.After that I have dribbled into numerous major ventures in totally unknown territories, failed in many, but also created success in few.
10.But I did create few milestones that can be considered unique & I feel this was possible because I went on doing & practicing the very basics of creativity, that is looking for simple solutions when I was stuck & trying to learn when did not know, what I needed to know.
11.Recently I had chance to come across few of them, to my amazement, they are still talking the same way, using the same very words & share almost same anecdotes. And they are doing exactly the same work.
12.But I realize fully, that had I not had the feelings of shame I experience while with them, I could have achieved or even thought about these versatile ventures.
Let us see how we unlearn the natural gift of creativity
Why the our millennials believe in YOLO[You Only Live Once] & have FOMO[Fear of Missing Out] and have deep insecurities
How Parents kill the creativity in their children
1.Excess SCRUTINY & Control
2.Instead of having confidence in their inane abilities & supporting their passion, we either force-feed or dictate their choices & decision making
3.Setting too tight boundaries, which does not let them expand their thinking or give them many options
4.Not thinking through the long term impact of saying, "No" or "Don't" or "You must."
5.Pushing too hard
6.Impatience and fascination with unrealistic results
7.Projecting their own insecurities, fears & doubts on their children
8.Treating all the kids in the same way without recognizing their uniqueness & their need for different environment and approach
9.UNFAIR EXPECTATIONS
10.Comparing with other children like apple & potato
11.Pushing down their throats our own[maybe failed] dreams
12.Making them champion of all by making them learning-weary through too many focuses those which does not take into account of their capabilities, interests & strengths
13.Giving them wrong support
14.Setting bad examples
15.Making kids responds to external rewards
16.Micromanaging them
17.Over protection
18.Not making the learning and curiosity as fun, but make it as a burden to do and get over with
19.Suppressing their natural curiosity by ignoring their questions or suppressing their inquiries
20.Shaming & embarrassing them to create feelings of guilt
21.Expecting perfectionism from them
So what happens to our kids
1.They learn the rules, how to survive and the benefits of following the.
2.Ever-guided by mom and dad, they discover that our career ambitions are best left as a hobby.
How our education systems is jamming the creativity in their students
2.In our current system, making a mistake is stigmatized, even though making mistakes and taking chances is the only way we can come up with new ideas. He says that many people lose the fearlessness of their youth as they get older.
3.Using Our brains as hard-disks instead of as processors
4.Too much focus on getting the right answer right is ignoring the merit in creative attempts to solve a question that might eventually lead to failure.
5.Focusing on teaching them the quickest way to solve a problem
6.Because of examination system preventing & discovering the joy of learning
7.Creating unhealthy completion where none should
8.Students who choose to pursue their dreams fuelled by creativity, do so by running the risk of falling behind in the rat-race and facing the ire from parents, teachers and society.
9.Innovation, daunting though that challenge itself might be, is made even more arduous by societal attitude and the education system.
Student aspirations are simply focused on gaining jobs instead of creating jobs. For every student who is being trained to think of himself as a mere employee, we are possibly losing an entrepreneur or a change-maker
How our society is killing our creativity
1.By telling us to do well in school
2.By telling us to work as hard as we can, and eventually teach our kids to do the same
3.By telling us how to live
4.By telling us what our lives are supposed to look like
5.By telling us what is right and what is wrong
6.By telling us how to conform to the wrong laws established by the politicians, the religions & other elements
Developing Creative Inquiry or Creative Curiosity
Creative Inquiry happens when curiosity crosses the threshold of "Ok I am curious, but why bother" to "I have to find out, I won't be comfortable before finding out"
The best creativity comes from a desire to contribute to the lives of others
The most creative people find ways around obstacles because they see them as opportunities.
Creative Inquiry process elements
Polishing Creative Entrepreneurship Leadership – these can be practiced even by a housewife
1.Creative leadership is the ability to create and realize innovative solutions especially in the face VUCA situations & disruptions by other innovators.
2.We live in a world that is constantly becoming innovated with new concepts, ideas and technology.
3.In evolving work environments, complex business situations and accelerating global markets, people who lead must bring not only imagination to challenges, but also the inspiration and skills to capitalize on opportunities.
4.Leaders have to be able to do both. Responding to shifting and uncertain situations while remaining faithful to your core values and beliefs is no simple task. And no single leadership style, trait or theory can ensure success in today's fast-paced and volatile creative business universe.
Creative Leadership Traits
1. They Shake & brake the status-quo2.They are constantly imagine new possibilities. They instigate change that they envision even when others don't.
3. THEY trust their gut-feelings & INTUITION 4. THEY act with speed5.Best leaders realize that perfection is impossible, and pursuing perfection often stands in the way of what's most important: progress. Leadership requires making consistent strides, no matter how big. And the quicker the stride, the greater the progress.
6.Instead they focus on creating excellence in their next step, every time
7. they persevere in their belief either UNTIL succeed or totally reject 8. They don't have a set way of doing things they constantly create newer ways 9. They focus on enhancing their team's creativity 10. They embrace & encourage Diversity 11. They do not Micro-manage but rather Trust their people to empower them to take actions57.Understand & accept the following
When Creative Leaders face Too big an undertaking or too many overwhelming goals, they break their big picture into every day actionable steps
Process of Development of creativity
It is not enough to just BE creative, it is even more important to develop creativity & use in everyday life.
The following make help you understand the developing process to become creative
4.Change your behavior & removing detrimental beliefs
5. BELIEF CHAINING 6. CALIBRATION7.Collapsing Anchors
8.Conflicting Beliefs Integration
9.Mirroring
10.Modeling: States Of Excellence
11.Non-Verbal Cues Recognition
12.Phobia Cure
13.Rapport: Pacing and Matching
14.Resolving Internal Conflicts
15.Creating Resourceful States
16.Self-Anchoring
17.Reframing
18.Future pacing through timeline imaginary
19. Visual Squash