The Enigma of Power: How Cultivating Mystery Can Make You Unbeatable

 Build Power And Become Powerful Through Creating Mystery Around You

The Art of Mystery and the art of being mysterious

In this article you will learn the following

100+ Immutable Tips on How to Acquire Power by Creating Aura of Mystery Around You

12 Traits of A Mysterious Person – Traits That Can Trigger Mystery Around You -Check How Many You Have

Examples of Negative and positive types of Power acquired through building mystery

Your POWER - to influence, to impress, to convince, of authority and power of being perceived as powerful and knowledgeable – GETS WEAKENED significantly - When people believe that they know all about you.

You could be the best expert in your domain - still people may take you lightly – in case you happen to be a doctor you can experience this phenomenon even in your family.

On the other hand – people with less knowledge and expertise – who are able to create an aura of mystery around them – acquire power much beyond their legitimate deserving levels.

The Psychology behind this is that – most people desire and want the qualities and things - that they don't have AND those possessing these desirables -acquire a mystical figure like status in their mind and perceptions – which has nothing to do with truth.

You can get plenty of examples confirming the above paragraph - you only have to look at politicians, bureaucrats, celebrity movie stars and celebrity Godmen/Godwomen, Religious Cult creators - as well as normal religious priests, etc.

Unfortunately, in India some of these - famous current politicians, celebrity Gurus/Babas/ Godmen/Godwomen, as well as a few bureaucrats - are revered by women and public and have acquired Demigods status.

Despite their having shady background and questionable past – including many convicted rapists, mass-murders and people with heinous criminal past – still they are at exalted pedestals– such a disgusting, shameful, pathetic moral values].

All the above examples are given to highlight the scenarios when unscrupulous elements acquire a mystical status.

In this article, you will learn - how you can acquire – positive, resourceful, empowering and role-model like powerful mystical aura.

The Art of Mystery and the art of being mysterious has nothing to do with external show-off trappings – although a few of these people try to project an image through materialistic ways – by their expensive cars, dresses, accessories and other materialistic possessions.

The art of being mysterious has in fact, has nothing to do with how rich, or beautiful or well-dressed you are – although these certainly helps at times.

Then what creates an aura of mystery around people & What is it about them that appeals to us so much – is it a talent or gift you are born with – or a skill that can be learned – or is it a strategic game plan.

Talking about romantic relationships - Men don't cultivate enough of this skill, competence and expertise How to Be Mysterious While Dating a Woman they Like.

Let us understand what exactly defines mystery, and how can you cultivate it in yourself an aura to captivate others, to elevate your gravitas & presence [also read my blog on leadership presence].

12 Traits of a Mysterious Person – Traits that can trigger mystery around you -check How many you have

1. They are generally unpredictable
2. Others find it difficult to typecast them in certain patterned characters
3. They show Flashes and Glimpses of great potential and promises
4. They display Calm Self-assured confidence – irrespective what is happening around them
5. They have Completely non-reactionary attitude
6. They project full Self-control in face of provocations, temptations and impulsive moments
7. They do not bother about what others say
8.They are fully comfortable with who they are
9. They never try to show off and never try to project something that they are not
10. They are Person of few words -when they speak – convey very meaningful, powerful and relevant perspectives
11. They are very good observers and wonderful listeners and demonstrate high levels of empathy
12. They demonstrate their understanding of - what is not spoken, what is not shown, and what is hinted AND what is most important

100+ Immutable Tips on How to Acquire Power by Creating Aura of Mystery Around You

1. Understand that talking too much – never creates an aura
2. Learn to speak in riddles [which you can explain – if need to in very simple to understand language]
3. Stop trying to give too many explanations - Revealing too much is counterproductive as it diminishes your mysterious aura
4. Give information in bits and pieces AND also on a need-to-know basis
5. Never ever think about gaining approval, acceptance and appreciation – these are the consequences of your doing everything right as explained in this article
6. Stop the urge to talks – share your story only when it is truly necessary
7. Develop this habit of mind to identify - what information to share and when – without being evasive or dishonest
8. Learn the fine art of striking a balance between being open and honest and leaving some things to the imagination of others
9. When you are able to develop an enigmatic nature about you – people are more intrigued and increases your attraction quotient
10. Master the art of using sentences which can be interpreted in multiple ways – which could be downright naughty, playful to very meaningful and value adding – this is one skill that can make people guessing about your intentions and interests – especially women.
11. Human being loves mysteries and women especially find any person desirable who challenges their curiosity with element of surprise and unpredictability
12. You should avoid clichéd lines and predictable behaviors - focus on creating a sense of intrigue by being subtle, holding back on information, and leaving plenty of room for interpretation and increasing your magnetic charm
13. Understand the combination of how to mix facts and fiction to Develop a mysterious yet alluring persona
14. Stand out from the crowd - Learn to think differently from the rest of the world – you need to master this skill to have different yet attractive perspectives which others have not thought about
15. Find creative ways to make even a normal event of your life sound so mystical and charming – without lying or being fake
16. Leave them wanting more after you have created curiosity and trigger wild imaginations
17. Here you have to understand that – you have to find your own style of conversation where you are open and honest about who you are – but leave few details – which can be imagined, interpreted and perceived in multiple opposing ways
18. Develop, practice and master the art of storytelling - Stories are a powerful tool for cultivating enigma – if told in right way [read my blog on this]
19. You can use 80% truth with 20% imagination technique – that make women wanting to know more about you - The allure of a mysterious man can be irresistible to women
20. Ensure that all that can be verified – is truth – so that it does not backfire on you
21. The key to finding the right balance is to be selective about what information you reveal and when emphasize the details that you want to share while leaving out the rest.
22. Develop a relaxed confident body language – master the art of looking in the people's eye, making your eyes stick with a few for little longer
23. Practice having a face with calm smile or a poker face on which the expressions cannot be read
24. You can choose to give a few small pieces of personal information to build trust and create intimacy
25. Learn to speak slowly than you do – pause for the effective and mix it with some pause of silence – to project confidence, thoughtfulness, and intelligence
26. Carefully choose your words and deliver them without rushing to finish
27. Use the technique the great standup comedians use
28. Be comfortable while remaining silent with a smiling calm face – use power of silence [read my blog on how to sue this powerful tool]
29. When you are silent – not only introspect what you are going to say next BUT also look for the impact of your delivery so far – make course correction in case you feel you have slipped on something
30. Give a chance to others and listen more closely to their thoughts and opinions to understand those around you better
31. At the same time - Don't be afraid to speak up when you have something relevant and powerful to say
32. Choose clothes which are comfortable and make you feel good about yourself to showcase your simple yet classy sophistication
33. Show interest through gestures, eye-contact and smile BUT make it look natural – to make the focus of your attention guessing about your intent
34. You have to learn to avoid coming across as overly eager at every cost by balancing showing your interest and also aloofness to cultivate an air of mystery and intrigue
35. Use asking questions that shows the depth of your knowledge and understanding AND also that subtly show your interest [read my blog on this]
36. Be Passionate About Something Develop and pursue your passions to make you more interesting
37. You need to live a life where you spend time in your passions, hobbies and interests – these make you unique – if possible, go for something adventurous or brainy ones and cultivate these to the level of experts - Let your hobbies and interests speak for themselves
38. Practice Refining your nonverbal communication skills and creating a match between your words and subtle signals that you are sending nonverbally
39. Work on yourself to become - trustworthy and dependable - Never gossip and do not reveal private matters or other people's secrets or betray anyone's confidence
40. Be clear about and practice your core values
41. Learn to trust your instincts and make decisions based on your own intuition rather than seeking validation from others
42. Stop being easily Available or being too available – to avoid coming as needy, desperate or overeager – this can be a major turnoff for many women
43. Make yourself valuable – use the economics Law of Supply and Demand – when something is not readily available, the demand for it goes up – if that commodity becomes more available, the demand goes down
44. Use the principle of increasing your respect, worth, power and honor – through strategic absence or not being available – to highlight that you have other interests in your life besides her – most Women value a man who is not readily available
45. Choose when not message between dates – understand that at times going off RADAR is important
46. This is not about giving silent treatment or being unresponsive – just don't be the first to initiate contact all the time
47. Cultivate Unpredictability by mixing up your routine through working on your most important priorities - not revealing too much about yourself too quickly and maintaining a sense of amused detachment – but please remember you are only creating a mystery aura AND you are not using it to manipulate emotional feelings
48. Learn to become interested in who turns the conversations into meaningful discussions from boring ones
49. Expand your awareness about things happening in the world around you – read a lot
50. Be aware of the emerging trends and patterns – including the best practices
51. Master few essential skills -Become at home with the latest technologies and gadgets
52. Work on establishing yourself as the ultimate expert in something - Make Your Accomplishments Seem Effortless
53. Never brag – let your accomplishments and results speak for yourself
54. Mix with people who are smarter and more established than you – impress these people with your expertise
55. Become a thorough professional and always deliver excellence
56. Develop a powerful presence Like a King to Be Treated Like
57. Create a creative idea to make your every meeting a fun, exciting, learning and adventurous event – don't reveal the Entire Plan in advance
58. If you are an introvert do not try to hide this – let others discover your qualities on a slow mode – of course you want her to know what a great catch you are – practice SHOW - don't TELL
59. Cultivate and have some tricks up your sleeve to showcase your Quietly Confident nature
60. Expose a part of your inner self - Be willing to share about yourself – to encourage your partner to open up
61. Speak Minimally About Yourself
62. Do Unpredictable Things - Ditch the schedule from time to time - Do things that Break some rules
63. Conceal Your Emotions Keep your facial expressions as neutral as possible, so people aren't sure what you think or feel Learn to create pleasant Surprise -Become playful.
64. Create a Sense of Intrigue Around You
65. Understand that People do not want to hear that your power comes from years of effort or discipline - They prefer to think that it comes from your personality, your character, something you were born with – if possible, maintain this phenomenon
66. People are hopelessly susceptible to myth, so make yourself the hero of a great drama. And keep your distance— let people identify with you without being able to touch you
67. Develop to wait patiently -Because ambiguity is much more potent - Send Mixed Signals
68. Do not become a leech or a doormat
69. Do not force your morals or views on anyone
70. Make others believe that it is they who are soliciting AND not you - be hard to figure out
71. Master the art of planting ideas in people's minds by dropping elusive hints that take root days later, even appearing to them as their own idea – read my blog on art of suggestions
72. Learn to Create Temptation – by identifying their unrealized fantasy or weakness [Their weakness may be greed, vanity, boredom, some deeply repressed desire, a hunger for forbidden fruit] – then appeal to these
73. Create Pleasure and Confusion through Suspense - Behave in a way that leaves them wondering, what are you up to – be spontaneous
74. Find calculated surprises you can spring on - best surprises that reveal something new about your character
75. Use loaded phrases – to flatter and comfort their insecurities, their vulnerabilities and also to envelop them in their own fantasies – choose to be naughty
76. Pay Attention to Detail – Be the best that you can be as - The only thing that cannot be idealized is mediocrity
77. Separate them from their environment physically, emotionally, and mentally – by exposing them to the possibilities that they have never experienced
78. Prove Yourself Take Bold Actions - Do not worry about looking foolish or making a mistake – make them feel that you are taking them beyond their limits
79. Make them focus on something sublime - Mix Pleasure surprises - change direction
80. Create their curiosity and trigger their imagination by seemingly being interested in someone else
81. Learn the Universal Language of Charmers and identify their language of love, respect, and whatever they value – use this strategically [read my blog on this]
82. Learn to connect emotionally with people – master how to Warm People's Hearts – work on your Emotional, Social and Relationship intelligence
83. Embrace Your Individuality -Show Kindness and Compassion -Be Positive and Uplifting
84. Never Allow Complete Access to Your Mind to anyone
85. Have your quirks without being afraid of them
86. Become self-reliant and independent – stop conforming to general norms
87. Develop original non-conventional ideas – train your mind to think completely differently from others
88.8 Tips to Acquire Power of Attraction in Your Romantic Relations
I.Learn to make Prolonged eye contact without looking like uncultured Romeo
II. Learn to Shift your gaze to their lips
III. Smile slowly with eye contact -Be "innocent"
IV. Bite your lips as you look them up and down
V. Stand with your legs further apart
VI. Learn to give Subtle sincere compliments – never try to flatter or use insincere praise
VII. Ask questions - Make them laugh - Make them feel special
VIII. Stimulate their other senses
IX. Tease them - Don't seek too much attention – instead Make them want you more
89. Never show your need or desperation for others
90. Never be pushy or aggressive
91.Never take anyone for granted and get too comfortable
92.Don't Give away too much too soon
93.Learn not to react strongly when people surprise you or get kind of confrontational.
94.Avoid drama or throwing tantrums
95.Practice become intelligent and Smart – read my 100+ blogs on this among the 900+ article I have written
96.Think outside the box to keep people on their toes BUT -If you're into someone, don't be so mysterious you miss your chance
97.Guard your personal life and its secret consciously

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