<p><span>In this article you will learn the following</span><br></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">21 Qualities & Traits of Badass </b></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">90 Tips on How to Be a genuine Badass </b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">-9+42 most important skills to Learn</b></p><p>How to be a Badass</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">There is a dream-word</b> – <b data-redactor-tag="b">even if you have never heard of this word OR do not know what it means</b> – <b data-redactor-tag="b">I can Guarantee that most of you want to be one.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">This word is Badass.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">21 Qualities & Traits of Badass </b></p> <ul><li>I.Being mental and emotionally resilient </li> <li>II.Being emotionally and socially intelligent</li> <li>III.Are a great learner</li> <li>IV.Smart because what actions-decision-targets he/she takes</li> <li>V.Stretches himself/herself constantly by raising bar on his/her own</li> <li>VI.Lives his/her life his/her own ways</li> <li>VII.Makes mistakes because takes actions - but corrects them</li> <li>VIII.Fails and bounces back</li> <li>IX.Does not bother about what others say or think about him/her</li> <li>X.Is fully self-aware of his own triggers, weaknesses, strengths </li> <li>XI.Is fully comfortable with himself/herself </li> <li>XII.Is not afraid to show his/her vulnerabilities </li> <li>XIII.Respects himself/herself and because of this respects others</li> <li>XIV.Enjoys and feels genuinely happy for others' success and accomplishments</li> <li>XV.Helps others </li> <li>XVI.Does not try to fit-in BUT creates his own path and directions</li> <li>XVII.Brings out his/her uniqueness</li> <li>XVIII.They earn respect and admiration of others because of what they do, and what they accomplish and who they become ultimately</li> <li>XIX.They know what they want and are focused towards their big picture in life</li> <li>XX.They make big moves, take big decision and actions - and they help others become the best version </li> <li>XXI.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Many of them might not had privileged childhood and beginning</b> – and <b data-redactor-tag="b">in spite of severe handicaps they manage to raise themselves</b> to the levels the world starts to notice them and become in awe of them</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">So if these are few of the Badass qualities - do you want to be</b> – <b data-redactor-tag="b">smarter, brilliant, successful and healthy with awesome quality of relationships in most areas of your life</b>.</p><p>First of all you have to understand that – <b data-redactor-tag="b">being Badass is all about building and growing your muscles by doing things in real-time.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Being Badass is definitely not about</b> – driving flashy cars or bikes recklessly, wearing branded designer wear, <b data-redactor-tag="b">being an arrogant assh*ole and show-off jerk.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Can you learn how to be a badass – absolutely? </b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Is it going to be easy becoming a Badass – NO not all</b> – in truth -it is going to be very-very tough, highly uncomfortable and full of failures and mistakes and unprecedented challenges, setbacks and crises.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">90 Tips on How to Be a genuine Badass </b></p> <ul><li><b data-redactor-tag="b">1.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Develop the attitude of seeing</b> – obstacles, challenges, failures, mistakes, rejections, criticisms, losses and bad-phases - <b data-redactor-tag="b">as opportunities to learn and grow.</b></li> <li>2.Identify your own larger than life big-picture</li> <li>3.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Identify what skills, knowledge, habits, thinking-pattern and expertise</b> – you need to acquire to move towards your dreams and aspirations</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">4.</b>Divide the entire target into – <b data-redactor-tag="b">very small YET stretch action steps</b></li> <li>5.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Ensure that you are taking action every-day</b> – which makes you move forward</li> <li>6.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Identify and get rid of or learn to manage </b>– your negative habits of mind and routine – which are preventing from moving forward</li> <li>7.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Develop the habit of finishing your actions</b> – if are not able to one day – do it next day</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">8.</b>If do not succeed – <b data-redactor-tag="b">improvise and learn and then take action again – till you succeed</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">9.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Use the new technologies – like Google-Bard and ChatGPT and AI – to do the essential but mundane chores and tasks</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">10.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to be authentically and genuinely You </b></li> <li>11.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Develop thick-skin</b> – so that criticism does not bother you</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">12.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn when to give your full and when to give-up</b></li> <li>13.Learn to express yourself</li> <li>14.Stop trying to impress others</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">15.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Make sure that you feel proud of yourself justly </b></li> <li>16.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to handle the giddy-feeling of your EGO getting bloated</b> – when you are getting big success</li> <li>17.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to acknowledge the contribution of your closed and loved ones –</b> in your life</li> <li>18.Learn to notice and appreciate others</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">19.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to be respectable and don't try become liakble</b></li> <li>20.Develop the art of ignoring – people and things that does not add value</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">21.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to face the truth – however painful or uncomfortable they are</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">22.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to manage your feelings and emotions effectively</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">23.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Be sincere and honest with yourself</b></li> <li>24.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Develop the belief and determination in yourself – which you would do what you set out about</b> – whatever it takes</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">25.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Develop discipline of mind, emotion and physical – follow-through mindset</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">26.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Create power by becoming an expert and master in the things that interest you</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">27.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Know your most important priorities and align your day with the actions on the most important ones</b></li> <li>28.Know your true values and never compromise with them</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">29.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Stop try to seek approval, limelight and appreciation from others</b></li> <li>30.Stop complaining – <b data-redactor-tag="b">instead negotiate solutions</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">31.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">9+42 most important skills to Learn</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">I.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Emotional intelligence & Social intelligence – in fact learn about 42 types of intelligence and work on them from my article in this website</b></li> <li>II.Problem solving & Decision making</li> <li>III.How to negotiate</li> <li>IV.How to sell</li> <li>V.How to convince others</li> <li>VI.Master the Art of assertiveness</li> <li>VII.Etiquette and manner to come out as sophisticated, classy and sassy</li> <li>VIII.Master the art of story-telling presentation</li> <li>IX.Master the fineries of communication</li> <li>32.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to take actions towards what makes you scared BUT will</b> open newer avenues of growth for you</li> <li>33.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Identify what makes you feel come alive and uplifted</b> – do these regularly</li> <li>34.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Surround yourself with people – who make you challenge</b> yourself by becoming better and better</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">35.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to deal effectively with – difficult, arrogant, toxic and dominant people</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">36.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Understand that being Badass does not mean that you have to be a man or superwoman </b></li> <li>37.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Stop comparing yourself with other – instead if you come across people who make you wonder how they do</b> it because of their mastery of any skill – learn that from them</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">38.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn from the best masters</b></li> <li>39.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Focus on excelling instead</b> of doing a mediocre job</li> <li>40.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Pro-actively identify what newer changes and trends are emerging</b> – prepare yourself for the future by acquiring the newer skills</li> <li>41.Teach others what you are good at</li> <li>42.Help others – who need it</li> <li>43.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to Outsource or delegate -something which can be done by others</b> – better faster and at lessor cost</li> <li>44.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Use the power of multiple mind – by crowdsourcing any difficult problems and challenge</b> you are struggling with</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">45.</b>Never make excuse or blame others – <b data-redactor-tag="b">instead find out what you can do differently</b></li> <li>46.Build on your strengths and successes</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">47.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Stop trying to control people and situations</b></li> <li>48.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Work within your area of control and strength</b> – and slowly develop your capabilities</li> <li>49.Develop and practice the killer instinct</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">50.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Stop aiming for perfection – instead focus on continuous improvement</b></li> <li>51.Ensure that you enjoy the process of growth and your journey in the pursuit of your badass vision.</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">52.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Dress to favor your best features and wear what makes you feel good – not to impress others certainly</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">53.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to Ask yourself the hard questions – to challenge your assumptions and your beliefs</b></li> <li>54.Stand-up, Support and fight for causes you believe in</li> <li>55.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Become organized - Get your every aspect of your life in order - focus on your biggest priorities</b> -Focus on ONE important thing at a time</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">56.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn how to refocus and bounce back when life pulls you in different directions </b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">57.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Keep going -even when it seems impossible</b></li> <li>58.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Don't stop when you are in momentum</b> and accomplishing things faster</li> <li>59.Stop being a people pleaser</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">60.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Develop great body language – of – challenging others by looking in their eyes, making statements with confident smile – handling difficult situation with your body relaxed</b></li> <li>61.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn to speak meaningfully in a slightly slower speed by giving each important word</b> – a special power</li> <li>62.Learn to use I statement to express your dissatisfaction and displeasure</li> <li>63.D<b data-redactor-tag="b">on't feel bad letting people go of your life</b> – who cause unnecessary issues in your life</li> <li>64.Push yourself to the limit – develop self-resilience </li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">65.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Speak up for what you believe in </b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">66.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Follow your passions</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">67.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Read a lot – be aware about what is happening in the world</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">68.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Kick ass - kick ass at everything you do</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">69.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Right your wrongs immediately</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">70.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Always be learning</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">71.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Take bold action yet remain unattached to the outcome</b></li> <li>72.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Realize life is about relationships with other people</b> – put efforts to build great relationship with people who are important to you</li> <li>73.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Ensure to have good people in your life -Cherish and nurture the relationships</b> you have with the ones you like and love</li> <li>74.Make the world a better place</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">75.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Do a lot of the right small-small things -Constantly strive to make small improvements</b></li> <li>76.Learn from your mistakes and move on</li> <li>77.<b data-redactor-tag="b">When you don't have much information – YET you must take a decision or action - Go with your gut </b>– for this strengthen your intuition by using it on daily basis</li> <li>78.Learn the art of making others laugh – intelligently</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">79.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Enjoy the ride called life – have fun – learn to find joy and pleasure in small things</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">80.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Drive for results-Do hard things because they need to be done</b></li> <li>81.Set and enforce healthy Boundaries</li> <li>82.Take Care of yourself – make it a priority and in every-day schedule</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">83.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Practice this concept that -Confidence comes from knowledge, and doing something well and that Doing something well takes practice</b></li> <li>84.Learn to have a Game Face, a Poker Face, and a Brave Face. And never cut off your nose to spite it.</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">85.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Unblock your natural curiosity -Developing Your Inner Badass –as becoming Badass is a state of mind</b></li> <li>86.Let your actions and results speak for you</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">87.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Get mysterious -Don't tell people where you're going unless it's absolutely necessary</b></li> <li>88.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Break the rules in small but meaningful ways – which creates powerful impact</b> – but ensure that it does not go against the rule of law</li> <li><a name="step_2_5"></a>89.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Develop physical stamina and endurance along with your mental resilience</b> – learn martial-art to additional confidence boosting</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">90.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Take initiatives – take risk – take responsibility and ownership for your own action, decision and life and consequences</b></li></ul><div><b>#badass, #qualitiesandtraitsofabadass, #howtobeagenuinebadass, #whytobeBadassman, #Badassery, #beabadasswoman, #beabadassman, #whytobeBadasswoman<span class="redactor-invisible-space"></span><br></b></div>