How to Be a Badass Men and Women - 90 Hacks for Confidence, Success and Awesome Life

In this article you will learn the following

-21 Qualities & Traits of Badass

-90 Tips on How to Be a genuine Badass

-9+42 most important skills to Learn

How to be a Badass

There is a dream-word – even if you have never heard of this word OR do not know what it means – I can Guarantee that most of you want to be one.

This word is Badass.

21 Qualities & Traits of Badass

• I.Being mental and emotionally resilient
• II.Being emotionally and socially intelligent
• III.Are a great learner
• IV.Smart because what actions-decision-targets he/she takes
• V.Stretches himself/herself constantly by raising bar on his/her own
• VI.Lives his/her life his/her own ways
• VII.Makes mistakes because takes actions - but corrects them
• VIII.Fails and bounces back
• IX.Does not bother about what others say or think about him/her
• X.Is fully self-aware of his own triggers, weaknesses, strengths
• XI.Is fully comfortable with himself/herself
• XII.Is not afraid to show his/her vulnerabilities
• XIII.Respects himself/herself and because of this respects others
• XIV.Enjoys and feels genuinely happy for others' success and accomplishments
• XV.Helps others
• XVI.Does not try to fit-in BUT creates his own path and directions
• XVII.Brings out his/her uniqueness
• XVIII.They earn respect and admiration of others because of what they do, and what they accomplish and who they become ultimately
• XIX.They know what they want and are focused towards their big picture in life
• XX.They make big moves, take big decision and actions - and they help others become the best version
• XXI.Many of them might not had privileged childhood and beginning – and in spite of severe handicaps they manage to raise themselves to the levels the world starts to notice them and become in awe of them

So if these are few of the Badass qualities - do you want to be – smarter, brilliant, successful and healthy with awesome quality of relationships in most areas of your life.

First of all you have to understand that – being Badass is all about building and growing your muscles by doing things in real-time.

Being Badass is definitely not about – driving flashy cars or bikes recklessly, wearing branded designer wear, being an arrogant assh*ole and show-off jerk.

Can you learn how to be a badass – absolutely?

Is it going to be easy becoming a Badass – NO not all – in truth -it is going to be very-very tough, highly uncomfortable and full of failures and mistakes and unprecedented challenges, setbacks and crises.

90 Tips on How to Be a genuine Badass

• 1.Develop the attitude of seeing – obstacles, challenges, failures, mistakes, rejections, criticisms, losses and bad-phases - as opportunities to learn and grow.
• 2.Identify your own larger than life big-picture
• 3.Identify what skills, knowledge, habits, thinking-pattern and expertise – you need to acquire to move towards your dreams and aspirations
• 4.Divide the entire target into – very small YET stretch action steps
• 5.Ensure that you are taking action every-day – which makes you move forward
• 6.Identify and get rid of or learn to manage – your negative habits of mind and routine – which are preventing from moving forward
• 7.Develop the habit of finishing your actions – if are not able to one day – do it next day
• 8.If do not succeed – improvise and learn and then take action again – till you succeed
• 9.Use the new technologies – like Google-Bard and ChatGPT and AI – to do the essential but mundane chores and tasks
• 10.Learn to be authentically and genuinely You
• 11.Develop thick-skin – so that criticism does not bother you
• 12.Learn when to give your full and when to give-up
• 13.Learn to express yourself
• 14.Stop trying to impress others
• 15.Make sure that you feel proud of yourself justly
• 16.Learn to handle the giddy-feeling of your EGO getting bloated – when you are getting big success
• 17.Learn to acknowledge the contribution of your closed and loved ones – in your life
• 18.Learn to notice and appreciate others
• 19.Learn to be respectable and don't try become liakble
• 20.Develop the art of ignoring – people and things that does not add value
• 21.Learn to face the truth – however painful or uncomfortable they are
• 22.Learn to manage your feelings and emotions effectively
• 23.Be sincere and honest with yourself
• 24.Develop the belief and determination in yourself – which you would do what you set out about – whatever it takes
• 25.Develop discipline of mind, emotion and physical – follow-through mindset
• 26.Create power by becoming an expert and master in the things that interest you
• 27.Know your most important priorities and align your day with the actions on the most important ones
• 28.Know your true values and never compromise with them
• 29.Stop try to seek approval, limelight and appreciation from others
• 30.Stop complaining – instead negotiate solutions
• 31.9+42 most important skills to Learn
• I.Emotional intelligence & Social intelligence – in fact learn about 42 types of intelligence and work on them from my article in this website
• II.Problem solving & Decision making
• III.How to negotiate
• IV.How to sell
• V.How to convince others
• VI.Master the Art of assertiveness
• VII.Etiquette and manner to come out as sophisticated, classy and sassy
• VIII.Master the art of story-telling presentation
• IX.Master the fineries of communication
• 32.Learn to take actions towards what makes you scared BUT will open newer avenues of growth for you
• 33.Identify what makes you feel come alive and uplifted – do these regularly
• 34.Surround yourself with people – who make you challenge yourself by becoming better and better
• 35.Learn to deal effectively with – difficult, arrogant, toxic and dominant people
• 36.Understand that being Badass does not mean that you have to be a man or superwoman
• 37.Stop comparing yourself with other – instead if you come across people who make you wonder how they do it because of their mastery of any skill – learn that from them
• 38.Learn from the best masters
• 39.Focus on excelling instead of doing a mediocre job
• 40.Pro-actively identify what newer changes and trends are emerging – prepare yourself for the future by acquiring the newer skills
• 41.Teach others what you are good at
• 42.Help others – who need it
• 43.Learn to Outsource or delegate -something which can be done by others – better faster and at lessor cost
• 44.Use the power of multiple mind – by crowdsourcing any difficult problems and challenge you are struggling with
• 45.Never make excuse or blame others – instead find out what you can do differently
• 46.Build on your strengths and successes
• 47.Stop trying to control people and situations
• 48.Work within your area of control and strength – and slowly develop your capabilities
• 49.Develop and practice the killer instinct
• 50.Stop aiming for perfection – instead focus on continuous improvement
• 51.Ensure that you enjoy the process of growth and your journey in the pursuit of your badass vision.
• 52.Dress to favor your best features and wear what makes you feel good – not to impress others certainly
• 53.Learn to Ask yourself the hard questions – to challenge your assumptions and your beliefs
• 54.Stand-up, Support and fight for causes you believe in
• 55.Become organized - Get your every aspect of your life in order - focus on your biggest priorities -Focus on ONE important thing at a time
• 56.Learn how to refocus and bounce back when life pulls you in different directions
• 57.Keep going -even when it seems impossible
• 58.Don't stop when you are in momentum and accomplishing things faster
• 59.Stop being a people pleaser
• 60.Develop great body language – of – challenging others by looking in their eyes, making statements with confident smile – handling difficult situation with your body relaxed
• 61.Learn to speak meaningfully in a slightly slower speed by giving each important word – a special power
• 62.Learn to use I statement to express your dissatisfaction and displeasure
• 63.Don't feel bad letting people go of your life – who cause unnecessary issues in your life
• 64.Push yourself to the limit – develop self-resilience
• 65.Speak up for what you believe in
• 66.Follow your passions
• 67.Read a lot – be aware about what is happening in the world
• 68.Kick ass - kick ass at everything you do
• 69.Right your wrongs immediately
• 70.Always be learning
• 71.Take bold action yet remain unattached to the outcome
• 72.Realize life is about relationships with other people – put efforts to build great relationship with people who are important to you
• 73.Ensure to have good people in your life -Cherish and nurture the relationships you have with the ones you like and love
• 74.Make the world a better place
• 75.Do a lot of the right small-small things -Constantly strive to make small improvements
• 76.Learn from your mistakes and move on
• 77.When you don't have much information – YET you must take a decision or action - Go with your gut – for this strengthen your intuition by using it on daily basis
• 78.Learn the art of making others laugh – intelligently
• 79.Enjoy the ride called life – have fun – learn to find joy and pleasure in small things
• 80.Drive for results-Do hard things because they need to be done
• 81.Set and enforce healthy Boundaries
• 82.Take Care of yourself – make it a priority and in every-day schedule
• 83.Practice this concept that -Confidence comes from knowledge, and doing something well and that Doing something well takes practice
• 84.Learn to have a Game Face, a Poker Face, and a Brave Face. And never cut off your nose to spite it.
• 85.Unblock your natural curiosity -Developing Your Inner Badass –as becoming Badass is a state of mind
• 86.Let your actions and results speak for you
• 87.Get mysterious -Don't tell people where you're going unless it's absolutely necessary
• 88.Break the rules in small but meaningful ways – which creates powerful impact – but ensure that it does not go against the rule of law
• 89.Develop physical stamina and endurance along with your mental resilience – learn martial-art to additional confidence boosting
• 90.Take initiatives – take risk – take responsibility and ownership for your own action, decision and life and consequences