How to accept your flaws and imperfections

In this article you will learn the following

-14 reasons Why it's important to embrace your flaws-weaknesses-imperfections

-40+ tips on how to accept and live with all your imperfections, weaknesses, limitations, faults and your past regrets-mistakes-guilt

How to accept and live with your flaws and imperfections

Are you imperfectly-perfect or perfectly-imperfect?

Does not matter - because whoever you are - you are one unique person - there was never anyone like you nor there going to be one in time to come.

BUT If you always think and feel that you are perfectly-perfect - it should be a serious-cause of concern for people who are very deeply connected with you.

Stop wasting your life trying to create a façade of perfection or living a life trying to become someone else - believe me it is just not worth it.

Please commit and choose - to let others - see your unique real-self.

All of us are unique - and can never be the perfect- everyone has flaws, weaknesses and limitations.

Only when we embrace our flaws and accept ourselves just the way we are - we can start having a more-meaningful and less-stressful life.

Many of us may understand the aforesaid statement theoretically - yet still we try to mimic others and try be like them.

Many of us feel there are few people who are perfect - especially those we consider role-models and who put us in awe.

Many of us also compare ourselves with others - and because the parameters of comparisons are mismatched - we invite misery and discontent and frustrations in our life.

When we start comparing with other - it is usually - comparing our flaws with other's strengths - which is already tilted in favor of creating he disappointments, negativities and depression.

The moment you compare yourself to others - you are demeaning yourself - and making yourself blind to all your inherent strengths and strong qualities.

Some of us might feel that we are inadequate - and it usually comes from our deep-rooted emotional insecurities.

Please understand that all of us are adequate with our very own unique characteristics - neither better than others - nor inferiors to others - but different in our own ways.

Because everyone in this world are different - these differences creates opportunities for all of us to enjoy the diversity and avoid monotony and boredom of everyone being perfectly-same.

It may seems ridiculously simple advice - to be yourself - but in can be a hell of a lot tough to emulate in your own life - especially if you have always been seeking approval, recognition, validation and appreciation from others and your constant focus is always to try to please and satisfy others.

The biggest challenge in being ourselves is that - we don't know and understand ourselves - as we have never tried to get in touch with our real-self.

When you are try to impress others and make them like you - it invariably proves disastrous for yourself - because no one can impress others all the time.

Trying to be everything to everyone is one of the most exhausting, stressful and is bound to make you fail.

You need to realize that it is perfectly okay - if some people happen to dislike you.

Or that people laugh at you or that you don't have all those things which others have or that you are unable to do many things now that some people can do.

Even if you have all these [supposed/perceived] lacunas - it still can't make you less worthy or less valuable person.

Trying to fit yourself into the society's perception of normal - is a harmful malady - immensely harmful only to yourself and for your loved ones.

Only when you stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you and start living your life the way gives you most fulfillment and joy - then you will actually become a gift to the world - at least your world.

14 reasons Why it's important to embrace your flaws-weaknesses-imperfections

• 1.You can start pursuing your own dreams, goals and passions
• 2.You would feel lighter without any unnecessary-pressures - when you let go of perfectionism.
• 3.You will know what you want and can go for creating the life that makes you feel fulfilled
• 4.You will be able meet understand and accomplish your deepest needs
• 5.You will be able to bounce back more easily
• 6.You would become comfortable in balancing your perspectives of your life's positives and negatives
• 7.Because of being yourself - you will be more flexible while accepting of other people's flaws and imperfections as well
• 8.You will have the mindset of high productivity of - it is always better to do something imperfectly than to do nothing flawlessly
• 9.You would not get derailed from your true purpose
• 10.Your focus would be on who you are - and not on who you think you are
• 11.You will stop being a slave of your ego's whims
• 12.You will be clear as to what is within your capabilities and you will stop holding yourselves to impossibly high standards
• 13.You will stop downplaying your accomplishments and neither you will berate yourself for not doing more in less time
• 14.You will also stop underselling and undervaluing yourself

40+ tips on how to accept and live with all your imperfections, weaknesses, limitations, faults and your past regrets-mistakes-guilt - GIVEN RANDOMLY - FIND YOUR OWN ORDER

• 1.Make peace with your imperfections - if you could not achieve your goals - instead of beating yourself
• I.Explore what you can learn from it
• II.Understand that our imperfections reveals - what improvements we need to make and our areas of development
• III.Accept that It is good to have challenging goals - but once in a while - when you don't achieve them - you are at peace - because you did your best
• IV.Accept that imperfections are as natural in you - as in anyone else - be it human, any living-being, societies and even organizations
• V.Understand and accept that we have our limitations to what we can and what we can't control
• VI.To keep real good people in your life - stop freaking out over little imperfections of theirs
• VII.Revisit, review and rest your standards and expectations - from others as well as yourself - stop setting impossible standards
• VIII.There is nothing which can be perfect - it is only excellence - and excellence is doing your best and giving your 100% to whatever you are doing and then next time learning and improving it further
• IX.Understand that perfectionism is only going to make to average and mediocre with limited productivity and accomplishments - simply because perfection is an unattainable ambition
• 2.Identify and note-down all your mistakes, all your fears, all your anxieties, all your weaknesses, all your past-mistakes, all your regrets
• 3.Understand that it is pointless and valueless and meaningless - to striving to become someone else - yes - all of us can and should imbibe positive qualities of others
• 4.Don't make yourself feel terrible -when the inner critic judges your imperfections. See it as an opportunity to love and accept the disapproving part of you - you are born to be real not perfect
• 5.Now work on accepting yourself completely and unconditionally - keeping these imperfections and flaws of yourself in mind
• 6.See your perceived flaws in a whole new light - identify and feel grateful for your flaws through reframing
• 7.Develop courage to be vulnerable
• 8.Make self-care your top priority
• 9.Make a list of all your strengths and abilities
• 10.List things you are proud of
• 11.Reframe your thoughts to challenge the basic assumptions underlying the beliefs you have about yourself and the world
• 12.Learn to accept praise from others
• 13.Identify and recognize your unrealistic and the standards you're trying to live up to
• 14.Identify and acknowledge what's bothering you
• 15.Use your flaws to guide self-improvement
• 16.Stop comparing yourself with anyone - Be kind to yourself
• 17.Focus on forgiveness - Learn to laugh at yourself
• 18.Consciously stop yourself when you are trying to satisfy, impress and please others - instead do things try to please and pamper yourself
• 19.Follow simple rules - face it, accept it, deal with it, then let it go
• 20.Accept that while you may not have achieved every goal you have set for myself quite yet, you can still enjoy where you are now.
• 21.Surround yourself with positive motivated and inspiring people
• 22.Find unconventional role models
• 23.Try to work with what you have - find the positive in your negative - use them as tools to help others
• 24.Use your strengths whenever you can - without overusing them
• 25.Learn to turn your imperfections into strengths
• 26.Use your flaws to guide you towards your self-improvement and self-development
• 27.Notice all the things you are insecure about - Understand that acting like you don't care what other people think about you - is a symptom of caring way too much
• 28.Instead start to listen to criticism and feedback - then investigate objectively - which ones are true and useful and which ones you can ignore
• 29.Become more aware of your bad social habits - these have to go - make a plan and act on it
• 30.Listen to your emotions - whatever makes you emotionally reactive is a sign for area of personal growth - check when any interaction makes you angry, anxious, jealous, etc.
• 31.Understand and tell yourself all the time - that it is okay to be less than perfect - but no ok to not to give your best and 100%
• 32.Share your stories of both failures and triumph of your flaws.
• 33.Find ways to be comfortable with yourself - especially when people laugh at you - learn to laugh with them at your own mistakes
• 34.Accept that your self-image isn't your public-image
• 35.Do you have the compelling need to be perfect - ask yourself these questions
• I.Do you have impossibly high standards for yourself—and maybe for others
• II.Do you beat yourself up when you make even a small mistake
• III.Do you find it hard to relax and do things just for fun
• IV.How do you get out of tough problems and situations
• V.What triggers incidents of behavior you aren't proud of
• VI.Which problems you have learned to avoid
• VII.Do you avoid trying new things because you feel you might get embarrassed in front of others
• VIII.Do you feel your worth is based on what others think of you or how much you accomplish
• 36.Understand that your desire to be perfect may be hurting you more than it is helping.
• 37.Recognize the difference between a problem and a quirk - check if any of your behavior is harming you or anyone else - if it is then you need to work on it - otherwise this can be ignore
• 38.Try to eliminate toxic people from your life or spend minimum time with them 

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