<p><span>In this article you will read about the following</span><br></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">24 qualities of Self-Assured People</b></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">86 Ways to be Self-assured</b></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">9 Elements of Self-assured people – all of them have very high levels of following – because they work themselves continuously</b></p><p>How to be Self-assured</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">24 qualities of Self-Assured People</b></p> <ul><li>1.<b data-redactor-tag="b">You may feel calm, good and uplifted</b>- just by being around Genuinely self-assured people.</li> <li>2.Self-assured people have <b data-redactor-tag="b">larger than life goals and they are focused on taking actions which stretches</b> their current capabilities enabling them to grow further.</li> <li>3.Self-assured people <b data-redactor-tag="b">also feel uncertainties, confusion, doubts, fears, failures and anxieties time to time</b>.</li> <li>4.Self-assured people may <b data-redactor-tag="b">probably they face more challenging situations as they are focused on long-term growth </b>of themselves as well as others.</li> <li>5.But the self-assured people <b data-redactor-tag="b">take actions to bounce back from any adversities, setbacks, crisis and disruptive changes</b> – they happen to face.</li> <li>6.Self-assured people <b data-redactor-tag="b">are not afraid of making mistakes and failures – as they know nothing worthwhile can ever be achieved without learning</b> - and <b data-redactor-tag="b">they know that the best way to learn is to take actions and experiment</b>.</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">7.</b>They use all <b data-redactor-tag="b">their failures and mistakes as massive learning opportunities.</b></li> <li>8.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Being self-assured is a dynamic process – you may feel on top of the world</b> at during one specific phase and then face failures and challenges, in another project or goal or phase in your life.</li> <li>9.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people remain self-assured – because they are focused on finding and implementing solutions</b> and taking actions after improvising [in case something does not work].</li> <li>10.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people feel delighted with other's success and take inspirations from other's accomplishments</b> - Self-assured people celebrate other people's success.</li> <li>11.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people take risks – after assessing and evaluating the worst case scenarios and create solutions for these</b> – so that they have better coping power if unforeseen situations struck them.</li> <li>12.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Although all the self-assured people have big-dreams and larger than life goals</b> – they are focused on what they must do today.</li> <li>13.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people have clarity of goals and where they want to go – they also are aware where they are right now</b> AND what they need to do to reach their goals.</li> <li>14.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people – accept themselves fully and completely</b> – as they are fully aware about their strengths, their fears and anxieties, their weaknesses.</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">15.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people can let go easily. </b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">16.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people are not afraid to accept their mistakes and show their vulnerabilities.</b></li> <li>17.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people do not compete with others</b> [unless it is worthwhile competition helps the move towards their big dreams] – </li> <li>18.<b data-redactor-tag="b">They choose to compete with themselves to progressively improve</b> and grow.</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">19.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people don't go destroying other people – in fact they grow by helping others grow.</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">20.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people are great observers and they learn with a purpose.</b></li> <li>21.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people take care of themselves fully –by putting efforts in all</b> aspects of life.</li> <li>22.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people work on their habits, attitude and thought-process continuously</b> – in all areas of their life – physical, mental, emotional, financial, social and relationship etc.</li> <li>23.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Self-assured people are flexible and welcome changes and work on making themselves adaptable</b> – as a result they don't mind being out of their comfort zones.</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">24.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">9 Elements of Self-assured people – all of them have very high levels of following – because they work themselves continuously</b></li> <li>I.Self-esteem</li> <li>II.Self-confidence</li> <li>III.Self-aware</li> <li>IV.Self-pride</li> <li>V.Self-belief</li> <li>VI.Self-acceptance</li> <li>VII.Self-Efficacy</li> <li>VIII.Self-image</li> <li>IX.Healthy and Empowering Self-love </li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">81 Ways to be Self-assured</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">All the following tips</b> [unless they are complete in themselves – <b data-redactor-tag="b">have detailed do-it-yourself article and answer among my </b>900+ blogs in my two websites and in my Quora page</p> <ul><li>1.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Train yourself to enjoy discovering and working on all those qualities, traits, habits and skills</b> – <b data-redactor-tag="b">which can make you successful and keep you in-demand irrespective of changes happening</b> in the world – in technology, in consumer needs and expectations, in economy and in your life</li> <li>2.Set Realistic Goals - Create a strategic plan and Commit to Your own Success</li> <li>3.Ignore what is beyond your current capabilities now</li> <li>4.Take action all that are within your area of influence and control</li> <li>5.Learn to respond after calming yourself to the level – when you are not feeling the urge to take reactive actions</li> <li>6.Give space to others to grow – especially your loved ones</li> <li>7.Be ok with things not working out – no one succeed all the time</li> <li>8.When you have got the momentum of positive roll – keep moving till you are accomplishing big</li> <li>9.Sharpen Your Ability to Influence Others</li> <li>10.Learn to identify choices, options and possibilities in both adverse as well as positive situations</li> <li>11.When you succeed – ensure that you identify near-misses</li> <li>12.Stop bothering about and Ignore What Others Think of You</li> <li>13.If you are struggling with something -Talk it out</li> <li>14.Be a responsible in whatever role that you have of a – parent, child, sibling, spouse, citizen, junior, senior etc.</li> <li>15.Create a disciplined self-care plan</li> <li>16.Don't try to fit in –dare to be different – stand out from the crowd</li> <li>17.Face difficulties head on – don't sit on</li> <li>18.Get rid of the urge for other's validation and your being a victim</li> <li>19.Groom yourself , dress in what makes you feel good – maintain personal hygiene</li> <li>20.Learn the art of sophistication and of being sassy and classy by practicing etiquettes and manners and </li> <li>21.Improve your communication skills, presentation skills and public-speaking skills</li> <li>22.Learn the art of asking powerful questions</li> <li>23.Learn the art of listening to learn and understand</li> <li>24.Learn the art of story-telling way of talking to enroll masses</li> <li>25.If you have regrets, shame and hurt – identify and work on them – take help of medical and mental-health experts if you feel that would help</li> <li>26.Identify people who pull you down, are toxic and who makes you feel bad about yourself</li> <li>27.Learn to deal with these people as well as with – difficult, arrogant and controlling people</li> <li>28.Ensure that you have more people – who inspire, uplift, motivate and support you </li> <li>29.Learn from the best in field masters – enroll them for your own growth</li> <li>30.Learn to deal with your rejections, irritations, loneliness etc. </li> <li>31.Identify and challenge the negative beliefs you have about yourself</li> <li>32.Identify and work on your unhealthy and disempowering habits that are making you stuck – find how you can get rid of them</li> <li>33.Identify negative thought patterns – and then learn to manage them or get rid of them</li> <li>34.Identify your weakness that are pulling you down – then work on them to either minimize them or get rid of them</li> <li>35.Identify your fears – that prevents you from taking massive actions towards your dreams – then find ways you can become comfortable in taking actions – in spite of your fears</li> <li>36.Identify what you would do – if you are able to deal with all the challenges – have a free-thinking exercise and after focused deliberations IDENTIFY YOUR BIG GOALs </li> <li>37.Identify your strengths that makes you succeed – work on them to sharpen them further</li> <li>38.Identify what you are good at doing</li> <li>39.Identify what makes you come alive</li> <li>40.Identify what uplifts and inspires you </li> <li>41.Identify what empowering habits you need to cultivate in yourself</li> <li>42.Identify what – skills, knowledge, experience, exposure and expertise – you need to develop in yourself – to reach your larger than life goals – THEN DEVELOP a LEARNING PLAN</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">43.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Identify the important relationships Which are important</b></li> <li>I.In your personal life – parents, children, siblings etc.</li> <li>II.<b data-redactor-tag="b">In your Professional life – Bosses, Seniors, People whom you Respect and want to learn</b> from, Your Role-models PLUS those who can help you in your growth and dream</li> <li>III.In Your Social-life </li> <li>IV.Create plans – how you can add value to these people – in what they want</li> <li>V.Find how many ways and what you can do to building positive and strong relationships with all these people</li> <li>44.Learn to say NO assertively – when you must – Know when to say No</li> <li>45.Set healthy empowering boundaries around you</li> <li>46.Stand-up for causes and people who can't do this themselves</li> <li>47.Master the art of assertiveness</li> <li>48.Learn about the 42 types of intelligence and – find ways you can nurture and strengthen those </li> <li>49.Have realistic expectations from yourself as well as others </li> <li>50.Create and follow – exercise regime as per your age, goals and doctor's advice</li> <li>51.Train yourself to break big-goals into small-small daily actions – as the priorities</li> <li>52.Identify your core-values – find ways to live your values </li> <li>53.Learn to be yourself – express yourself</li> <li>54.Never try live a life to impress others – instead focus on living a life based on your own inspirations, drivers and motivations</li> <li>55.Add value to your loved ones</li> <li>56.Work on creating memorable moments – rather than accumulating physical items which has more role of satisfying your EGO</li> <li>57.Work on your EGO</li> <li>58.Promise less – deliver more</li> <li>59.Stop comparing yourself with anyone</li> <li>60.Yes BUT learn from everyone – whose skills you admire</li> <li>61.Sleep-well, eat-healthy, exercise, relax and take vacations and break</li> <li>62.Spend time doing Things you enjoy doing</li> <li>63.Learn the art of laughing at yourself – especially when you make mistake – without belittling yourself</li> <li>64.Learn the art of dealing with disagreement – by creating humor</li> <li>65.Admit mistakes and take steps to correct them</li> <li>66.Develop the habit of tackling the most difficult yet important task first</li> <li>67.Learn to manage your energy as well as you time better</li> <li>68.Learn to enjoy the company of yourself by Visualizing</li> <li>69.Understand that nothing of worth and importance can be done easily – practice till you get the knack</li> <li>70.Focus on growth and excellence – step by step – get rid of the habit of being a perfectionist</li> <li>71.Before any important event Get prepared thoroughly – practice, learn, practice till you master </li> <li>72.Practice meritocracy</li> <li>73.Get organized</li> <li>74.Learn not to take personally - what others say and do AND also what they don't say and don't do </li> <li>75.Slow down and do nothing – if none of your actions are working – take break and then come back again with new solutions</li> <li>76.Try things that make you uncomfortable and uncertain and scared</li> <li>77.BE THANKFUL FOR WHO YOU ARE – practice GRATITUDE BY identifying what you have that makes your life worthwhile</li> <li>78.ACT POSITIVELY and with compassion towards others -BE GENEROUS AND KIND</li> <li>79.BUILD A POSITIVE SUPPORT NETWORK</li> <li>80.Practice positive and confident BODY LANGUAGE -Learn how to manage your emotions</li> <li>81.CREATE HEALTHY ROUTINES - FEED YOUR MIND</li></ul><div>#howtobeselfassuredperson, #qualitiesandtraitsofselfassuredpeople, #elementsofbeingselfassured, #howtobeselfassured, #selfassured, #howtobecomeaselfassuredperson, #qualitiesofselfassuredpeople<span class="redactor-invisible-space"></span><br></div>