86 Ways to be Self-assured and 24 Traits of Self-Assured Person

In this article you will read about the following

-24 qualities of Self-Assured People

-86 Ways to be Self-assured

-9 Elements of Self-assured people – all of them have very high levels of following – because they work themselves continuously

How to be Self-assured

24 qualities of Self-Assured People

• 1.You may feel calm, good and uplifted- just by being around Genuinely self-assured people.
• 2.Self-assured people have larger than life goals and they are focused on taking actions which stretches their current capabilities enabling them to grow further.
• 3.Self-assured people also feel uncertainties, confusion, doubts, fears, failures and anxieties time to time.
• 4.Self-assured people may probably they face more challenging situations as they are focused on long-term growth of themselves as well as others.
• 5.But the self-assured people take actions to bounce back from any adversities, setbacks, crisis and disruptive changes – they happen to face.
• 6.Self-assured people are not afraid of making mistakes and failures – as they know nothing worthwhile can ever be achieved without learning - and they know that the best way to learn is to take actions and experiment.
• 7.They use all their failures and mistakes as massive learning opportunities.
• 8.Being self-assured is a dynamic process – you may feel on top of the world at during one specific phase and then face failures and challenges, in another project or goal or phase in your life.
• 9.Self-assured people remain self-assured – because they are focused on finding and implementing solutions and taking actions after improvising [in case something does not work].
• 10.Self-assured people feel delighted with other's success and take inspirations from other's accomplishments - Self-assured people celebrate other people's success.
• 11.Self-assured people take risks – after assessing and evaluating the worst case scenarios and create solutions for these – so that they have better coping power if unforeseen situations struck them.
• 12.Although all the self-assured people have big-dreams and larger than life goals – they are focused on what they must do today.
• 13.Self-assured people have clarity of goals and where they want to go – they also are aware where they are right now AND what they need to do to reach their goals.
• 14.Self-assured people – accept themselves fully and completely – as they are fully aware about their strengths, their fears and anxieties, their weaknesses.
• 15.Self-assured people can let go easily.
• 16.Self-assured people are not afraid to accept their mistakes and show their vulnerabilities.
• 17.Self-assured people do not compete with others [unless it is worthwhile competition helps the move towards their big dreams] –
• 18.They choose to compete with themselves to progressively improve and grow.
• 19.Self-assured people don't go destroying other people – in fact they grow by helping others grow.
• 20.Self-assured people are great observers and they learn with a purpose.
• 21.Self-assured people take care of themselves fully –by putting efforts in all aspects of life.
• 22.Self-assured people work on their habits, attitude and thought-process continuously – in all areas of their life – physical, mental, emotional, financial, social and relationship etc.
• 23.Self-assured people are flexible and welcome changes and work on making themselves adaptable – as a result they don't mind being out of their comfort zones.
• 24.9 Elements of Self-assured people – all of them have very high levels of following – because they work themselves continuously
• I.Self-esteem
• II.Self-confidence
• III.Self-aware
• IV.Self-pride
• V.Self-belief
• VI.Self-acceptance
• VII.Self-Efficacy
• VIII.Self-image
• IX.Healthy and Empowering Self-love

81 Ways to be Self-assured

All the following tips [unless they are complete in themselves – have detailed do-it-yourself article and answer among my 900+ blogs in my two websites and in my Quora page

• 1.Train yourself to enjoy discovering and working on all those qualities, traits, habits and skills – which can make you successful and keep you in-demand irrespective of changes happening in the world – in technology, in consumer needs and expectations, in economy and in your life
• 2.Set Realistic Goals - Create a strategic plan and Commit to Your own Success
• 3.Ignore what is beyond your current capabilities now
• 4.Take action all that are within your area of influence and control
• 5.Learn to respond after calming yourself to the level – when you are not feeling the urge to take reactive actions
• 6.Give space to others to grow – especially your loved ones
• 7.Be ok with things not working out – no one succeed all the time
• 8.When you have got the momentum of positive roll – keep moving till you are accomplishing big
• 9.Sharpen Your Ability to Influence Others
• 10.Learn to identify choices, options and possibilities in both adverse as well as positive situations
• 11.When you succeed – ensure that you identify near-misses
• 12.Stop bothering about and Ignore What Others Think of You
• 13.If you are struggling with something -Talk it out
• 14.Be a responsible in whatever role that you have of a – parent, child, sibling, spouse, citizen, junior, senior etc.
• 15.Create a disciplined self-care plan
• 16.Don't try to fit in –dare to be different – stand out from the crowd
• 17.Face difficulties head on – don't sit on
• 18.Get rid of the urge for other's validation and your being a victim
• 19.Groom yourself , dress in what makes you feel good – maintain personal hygiene
• 20.Learn the art of sophistication and of being sassy and classy by practicing etiquettes and manners and
• 21.Improve your communication skills, presentation skills and public-speaking skills
• 22.Learn the art of asking powerful questions
• 23.Learn the art of listening to learn and understand
• 24.Learn the art of story-telling way of talking to enroll masses
• 25.If you have regrets, shame and hurt – identify and work on them – take help of medical and mental-health experts if you feel that would help
• 26.Identify people who pull you down, are toxic and who makes you feel bad about yourself
• 27.Learn to deal with these people as well as with – difficult, arrogant and controlling people
• 28.Ensure that you have more people – who inspire, uplift, motivate and support you
• 29.Learn from the best in field masters – enroll them for your own growth
• 30.Learn to deal with your rejections, irritations, loneliness etc.
• 31.Identify and challenge the negative beliefs you have about yourself
• 32.Identify and work on your unhealthy and disempowering habits that are making you stuck – find how you can get rid of them
• 33.Identify negative thought patterns – and then learn to manage them or get rid of them
• 34.Identify your weakness that are pulling you down – then work on them to either minimize them or get rid of them
• 35.Identify your fears – that prevents you from taking massive actions towards your dreams – then find ways you can become comfortable in taking actions – in spite of your fears
• 36.Identify what you would do – if you are able to deal with all the challenges – have a free-thinking exercise and after focused deliberations IDENTIFY YOUR BIG GOALs
• 37.Identify your strengths that makes you succeed – work on them to sharpen them further
• 38.Identify what you are good at doing
• 39.Identify what makes you come alive
• 40.Identify what uplifts and inspires you
• 41.Identify what empowering habits you need to cultivate in yourself
• 42.Identify what – skills, knowledge, experience, exposure and expertise – you need to develop in yourself – to reach your larger than life goals – THEN DEVELOP a LEARNING PLAN
• 43.Identify the important relationships Which are important
• I.In your personal life – parents, children, siblings etc.
• II.In your Professional life – Bosses, Seniors, People whom you Respect and want to learn from, Your Role-models PLUS those who can help you in your growth and dream
• III.In Your Social-life
• IV.Create plans – how you can add value to these people – in what they want
• V.Find how many ways and what you can do to building positive and strong relationships with all these people
• 44.Learn to say NO assertively – when you must – Know when to say No
• 45.Set healthy empowering boundaries around you
• 46.Stand-up for causes and people who can't do this themselves
• 47.Master the art of assertiveness
• 48.Learn about the 42 types of intelligence and – find ways you can nurture and strengthen those
• 49.Have realistic expectations from yourself as well as others
• 50.Create and follow – exercise regime as per your age, goals and doctor's advice
• 51.Train yourself to break big-goals into small-small daily actions – as the priorities
• 52.Identify your core-values – find ways to live your values
• 53.Learn to be yourself – express yourself
• 54.Never try live a life to impress others – instead focus on living a life based on your own inspirations, drivers and motivations
• 55.Add value to your loved ones
• 56.Work on creating memorable moments – rather than accumulating physical items which has more role of satisfying your EGO
• 57.Work on your EGO
• 58.Promise less – deliver more
• 59.Stop comparing yourself with anyone
• 60.Yes BUT learn from everyone – whose skills you admire
• 61.Sleep-well, eat-healthy, exercise, relax and take vacations and break
• 62.Spend time doing Things you enjoy doing
• 63.Learn the art of laughing at yourself – especially when you make mistake – without belittling yourself
• 64.Learn the art of dealing with disagreement – by creating humor
• 65.Admit mistakes and take steps to correct them
• 66.Develop the habit of tackling the most difficult yet important task first
• 67.Learn to manage your energy as well as you time better
• 68.Learn to enjoy the company of yourself by Visualizing
• 69.Understand that nothing of worth and importance can be done easily – practice till you get the knack
• 70.Focus on growth and excellence – step by step – get rid of the habit of being a perfectionist
• 71.Before any important event Get prepared thoroughly – practice, learn, practice till you master
• 72.Practice meritocracy
• 73.Get organized
• 74.Learn not to take personally - what others say and do AND also what they don't say and don't do
• 75.Slow down and do nothing – if none of your actions are working – take break and then come back again with new solutions
• 76.Try things that make you uncomfortable and uncertain and scared
• 77.BE THANKFUL FOR WHO YOU ARE – practice GRATITUDE BY identifying what you have that makes your life worthwhile
• 78.ACT POSITIVELY and with compassion towards others -BE GENEROUS AND KIND
• 79.BUILD A POSITIVE SUPPORT NETWORK
• 80.Practice positive and confident BODY LANGUAGE -Learn how to manage your emotions
• 81.CREATE HEALTHY ROUTINES - FEED YOUR MIND