80 tricks How to deal with extremely smart people

In this article you will learn the following

-80 SMART MENTAL Tricks -How to deal with extremely smart people - by becoming smarter yourself

-21 ways How to Outsmart People - Outsmarting Someone in an Argument or negotiation

How to outsmart people - Why you should not try to outsmart others

Don't try to outsmart anyone because of following 3 basic reasons

• a)You can't beat fools as they are so creative and ingenious in their own turf
• b)You can't beat real-smart people as they won't even engage with you in your this ego-game
• c)If you openly start competition with the types who are also trying to outsmart others - then you may get into lots of unnecessary self-created stress and few temporary-highs - unless you want to be someone who is a little too smart for your own good.

If you want to be smarter and be real-smart - focus on being a life-long learner and admirer of superior qualities in others.

Create opportunities which by design - makes you the least knowledgeable person in any meaningful gathering that you choose to be in.

Throw your EGO out and surrounding yourself with people who are smarter, more intelligent, more powerful, more knowledgeable and master-experts - than you are - can make you feel awful and can increase your emotional-insecurity time to time - UNLESS - you are very comfortable with who you are and really learning for growth.

Accept this - No One Is Smarter Than everyone - ask yourself have you come across people who are individually more intelligent and more capable than an entire team - not possible.

How many times you are with people and know more than each individual person there - very-very rare - unless you happen to be a nursery teacher.

That is the reason why the world's best leaders use the collective-power of their teams through involving them in decision-making and problem-solving by delegating.

This creates for better decisions than if they had made themselves.

But when you approach assuming that you know something no one else knows in given a situation and that you more intelligent than others - you will discover to your horrors [like I have many-many uncountable times] that this might turn-out to be a most stupid, most damaging and dangerous thing for you.

When we try to outsmart others - it becomes a no-win stressful-competition where there is no reason for competition.

And because you have created this competition inside your mind - you need to win by any means - this thought-process itself can be enough of stress.

Trying to outsmart others also have huge cost - you will lose opportunities because of your focus on something that has no value at all.

If you are looking to feel like a victor or champion - pick the competition of beating your yesterday with a superior today and making yourself grow in ever sphere.

Gain a deep understanding of the basics of success, growth, relationships, business, networking and what makes people decide etc. and use these to create long-term strategies to gain business, professional and personal success.

Because then you will master the rules of the game and use it to your advantage and will be the one who is winning where it matters most.

If you apply the above perspective - you will eventually become the smartest in the room - as the person focused on learning will outsmart the competition hands-down.

80 SMART MENTAL Tricks -How to deal with extremely smart people - by becoming smarter yourself - given randomly and all single line advices have detailed do-it-yourself articles in my 900+ blogs in both the websites

• 1.Stop expecting to be the smartest person everywhere you go
• 2.Accept that you cannot always be the smartest person - Get over your need to always be the brightest and best
• 3.Instead identify, Recognize and Acknowledge your strengths - Focus on what you are good at and not what you lack
• 4.Stop comparing yourself with others -it so self-destructive especially if you already have a very low self-esteem or self-confidence
• 5.Smart people are people just like you - only they have spent a great deal of time learning, polishing, practicing and mastering few qualities and skills that you are in awe - in them
• 6.Find out your passions and interests - spend time doing that
• 7.Take hobbies that make you stretch yourself beyond your comfort zones while created great memories and stories to cherish
• 8.Create stories to share from all the points given in this article and from your triumphs and big failures
• 9.Become great in story-telling - smart-people have this knack of telling wonderful mesmerizing stories from their past
• 10.Nurture yourself by doing all that you really enjoy, such as swimming, yoga, reading a book, taking a hot bath or taking a drive through the mountains
• 11.Make self-care your priority
• 12.Meditate, Exercise and do yoga
• 13.Learn to breath and practice different types of breathing everyday while doing your tasks
• 14.Find activities and methods which boost your moods
• 15.Take challenging tasks to boost your self-esteem -
• 16.Identify all your weaknesses as well as all your positive strong qualities - then practice to accept yourself fully
• 17.When you accept yourself fully and when you feel good about yourself - you feel be yourself when you are with much-smarter and very-intelligent and most-powerful people
• 18.Start the practice of - taking actions from your area of influence and control
• 19.You may not be able to control people do or say but you can always control how you react
• 20.Don't try hide your ignorance or run away - in case you find you really don't have any clue - instead accept what you don't know
• 21.Ask when you don't know something
• 22.Ask questions whenever you are confused
• 23.Learn to master the art of asking questions - tough questions, open ended questions difficult questions - from everyone
• 24.Understand that it is in your power to ask question and others may always refuse
• 25.If you are asked questions you can't answer - go find the answers - Take responsibility for figuring out what the correct answer is
• 26.Always Ask smart people for tips - these can boost your perspective big-ways
• 27.Always appreciate and Acknowledge when someone does something in an admirable way you hadn't thought of before
• 28.Learn to recognize positivities and good qualities of others and give sincere appreciations
• 29.Ask for and Accept feedback in right spirits
• 30.Criticism can be rough - learn how you handle criticism and rejections
• 31.Show interest in lives of smart people - Ask about their hobbies, their challenges, their struggle on the way to the fame
• 32.The more you interact with the smart people and the more you learn from each interactions - the more smarter you will become if you start applying these learning in your life as well
• 33.Treat smart people as equals - Be respectful and polite - give the them the same consideration that you as per your values give to others
• 34.Learn to recognize the difference between real-smart and braggers, fakes,
• 35.People who are emotionally-secure will always make you feel better about yourself
• 36.Learn to discern between self-confidence and arrogance. It's ok to take pride in your work or what you are good at.
• 37.Keep practicing what you learn - it takes time and patience with persistent efforts to become great in anything - and Everything gets easier with practice
• 38.Read a lot - Choose diverse material - This is how the experts became experts—by studying, practicing and becoming good at what they do
• 39.When you absorb and retain a lot of useful information - you can easily bounce ideas off of during discussions and meetings
• 40.Focus on quality over quantity and excellence over perfectionism
• 41.Focus on yourself and what you can do to improve
• 42.Try your best and give your 100% efforts all the time - and then ignore the outcomes
• 43.Be alert to learning anything which can make your skills updated with the latest and most needed
• 44.Learn to recognize your routine thinking solutions - instead look for multiple options, possibilities and alternatives
• 45.Learn about the capabilities of your opponent better than you know your own - and brainstorm how you can convert their strengths into their weaknesses - and your strengths stronger
• 46.Have people who are also as keen on creating excellence - avoid mediocre and average
• 47.Don't be in a rush to get short-term gains - for long-term great accomplishments - have a strategy and implement then wait for your plan to take effect
• 48.KNOW THE MEANING OF INTELLIGENCE - read my article about 42 types of intelligence
• 49.Focus less on yourself and more on the people around you
• 50.Consider yourself the least informed in the room.
• 51.Hang out with the smartest people you can comprehend
• 52.They make you talk a lot more about yourself than they do about themselves
• 53.Take every opportunity to save money
• 54.Become self-reliant seek help by all means when stuck
• 55.Become committed to be fully accountable to the consequences of your every decision, your every actions as well as indecision and inactions
• 56.Stop living in the past relieving mistakes you made - instead learn from these mistakes and move on to future
• 57.Never give up on your ideas and dreams just because others laugh at you
• 58.Look for every opportunity to broaden your experience
• 59.Identify your values and stand-up for a good social and personal-cause
• 60.Neither overestimate nor underestimate your abilities
• 61.Don't create enemies because of your ego-trip
• 62.Spread your risks don't put all your eggs in one basket
• 63.Face facts honestly however painful or hurting it might be
• 64.Never take risks where it is not warranted
• 65.Expand your range of skills and enlarge the tools in your bag for handling issues, challenges and problems - not by one method all the time like the person who sees every problem as a nail because his only tool is a hammer
• 66.Whenever you find yourself ruminating (doing negative overthinking) - move yourself physically and mentally to by doing a few minutes of an absorbing activity (such as a puzzle)
• 67.Trust yourself - listen to one's own beliefs - Winners are open to listening to other people's beliefs
• 68.Try not to fit in - Keep reinventing yourself - Work to stand out
• 69.Stop compromising with your values
• 70.Create a standard for yourself and stick with it - keeping raising your standards higher and higher
• 71.Stop feeling guilty - Stop doubting yourself - When it comes to your own career and life - you don't owe anyone anything
• 72.Understand this that You deserve to feel good about yourself and to be proud of your accomplishments
• 73.You can take complete control of your life right now - You can take action to move your career forward whenever you want - Without permission - The choice is yours to make.
• 74.Create a greater sense of purpose
• 75.Take responsibility for yourself - You can't just float through life blaming other people for your problems
• 76.You are responsible for your own successes and failures
• 77.If others outthink or out-strategize you—it's your fault, not theirs - rethink and strategize to come back in the running as per your dreams and goals
• 78.Be accountable - accept and Learn from your mistakes.
• 79.Surround yourself with positive and likeminded people who are not there to take advantage of you or use you.
• 80.Do things that raise your self esteem
• 81. Discover what observable behavior smart people display
• 82. Learn from smart people and eliminate habits that hinder your mental-emotional growth

21 ways How to Outsmart People - Outsmarting Someone in an Argument or negotiation

• 1.Prepare prepare prepare - Plan plan plan - with all that you can - although you may not have all the information and can't be fully prepared for an argument or negation 100% ahead - but keep your brain active will pay lots of dividends -
• 2.Prepare keeping all types of scenarios and your counter measures in mind
• 3.Know as much as you can on all the possible topics and field
• 4.Learn to practice remaining in control and calm - Take deep breaths when you feel your temper or emotions rising
• 5.The person who loses their cool loses - irrespective of how good your facts are
• 6.Listen carefully when the other person is talking and take a moment to consider your response - ask for clarification if you can't think of anything to buy time
• 7.Ask lots of questions to remain in control of an by directing and keeping the pressure on the other person or party
• 8.Ask for proof, or for sources to support the claims that they make.
• 9.Time to time just make a statement confidently and keep quiet like I believe your assumptions are wrong or that you are not able to see the wider picture or with this approach you may lose more if you don't consider what I am saying
• 10.Create emotional appeal and the appeal to their higher values
• 11.Identify and Stick to only a few but very strong points
• 12.Never make any hasty generalizations
• 13.Soften them up. There are very few people who aren't susceptible to a little bit of flattery or appreciation
• 14.Pick the right time - if you can
• 15.Thank them for something
• 16.Compliment them in a way that isn't terribly obvious, or directly related to what you're trying to get them to do
• 17.Give them a reason why something benefits them
• 18.Listen and learn. Have you ever heard the phrase, "Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer
• 19.Set goals - If you clearly define your values and goals in personal, professional, financial, relationship and career etc. - it will be much harder for anyone to manipulate you to their advantage
• 20.Think smart and then speak Select your words carefully
• 21. Use these little 6 tricks

• I.Repeat something until they really understand
• II.Postpone your answer
• III.Question their motivations
• IV.Show disinterest
• V.Keep your self-respect
• VI.Apply fogging