<p><span>In this article you will learn about the following</span><br></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">35+ reasons Why We Fall for Con Artists and when you get conned</b> </p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">30 subtle and open Tricks, gestures and cues Con-Artists and Tricksters uses to Gain Your Trust to cheat you</b></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">30 signs that tells you that you are in relationship with a wrong man or woman [I have used He/His/man but it is meant for both men and women]</b></p><p><span data-redactor-tag="b">-60 </span><b data-redactor-tag="b">Most common everyday cons, scams, frauds and cheating</b><b data-redactor-tag="b"></b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b"><br></b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Many of us believe that we are too smart to EVER fall victim to scams and get cheated</b> AND <b data-redactor-tag="b">that those people who become victims are foolish, ignorant, greedy and all of these.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">We may also believe that if and when it is happening to us - we will be able to spot such manipulations a mile away. </b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">But contrary to your beliefs perceptions and this self-image</b> - you may discover [if you can look objectively] <b data-redactor-tag="b">that most of you had gone for a nice little-ride in one way or another - could be in a small con</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">If you have ever been scammed - it doesn't prove that you are stupid—it only means you were vulnerable at that time. </b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Scam artists play with your emotions and catch those who are going through</b> times of extreme life change <b data-redactor-tag="b">and emotional turbulence</b>. </p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Our ability and capacity to trust not only make us successful but it also makes us</b> vulnerable to negativities - <b data-redactor-tag="b">simply Because it overrides our natural 6<sup data-redactor-tag="sup">th</sup> sense to dangers and our subconscious bullshit detector</b>.</p><p>In last few years - <b data-redactor-tag="b">It was shocking to see - very senior authority figures [in the administration, judiciary and executive etc</b>.] and people with qualifications <b data-redactor-tag="b">from IITs and IIMs [along with few celebrities like famous authors and sport and film personalities and businessmen</b>] toeing the lines of criminal political manipulating master-minds.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">It was very difficult to digest that these so called supposedly very intelligent and most powerful influencers</b> - <b data-redactor-tag="b">accepting and promoting - what is not only unscientific and moronic</b> but is <b data-redactor-tag="b">destructive and damaging to the wellbeing, health, safety, security and the economy of the people and the country</b>.</p><p>Then I learned - <b data-redactor-tag="b">that many of these people are honey-trapped and are blackmailed through various powerful coercing, suppressing and pressurizing techniques and forced to do what their masters wishes them to do</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">This is another way exploitation happens to the powerful people.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">No one is immune to falling prey to some of these brilliant schemers</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Off-course many of these powerful-people - are naturally vile-people - who are doing this cheerfully.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">This article is about - how the con-artists, scammers and fraudsters - cheat many gullible and honest people</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">35+ reasons Why We Fall for Con Artists and when you get conned</b></p> <ul><li><b data-redactor-tag="b">1.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">You have the following greed</b></li> <li>I.You want to get rich quick</li> <li>II.You want your investment to get quadrupled in 6 months </li> <li>III.You want to get that qualification or degree without studying</li> <li>IV.You want to look like that movie star</li> <li>V.You want to have a body like that famous personality</li> <li>VI.You want to go from 110 kgs to 60 kgs instantly </li> <li>VII.You want to have fair skin</li> <li>2.You are emotionally-mentally-physically-financially insecure</li> <li>3.You are submissive</li> <li>4.You can't say No</li> <li>5.You are lazy and only day-dream sitting on couch</li> <li>6.You get attracted to anything glamourous </li> <li>7.You lose your resolve in front of anyone looking authoritative, strikingly-beautiful or have any celebrity status</li> <li>8.You have lost your job</li> <li>9.You are very-vey stressed and can't think straight and evaluate the pros and cons of any offer or suggestions</li> <li>10. You have lost your loved ones</li> <li>11. You have blown-up your financial nest</li> <li>12. You have gone through a trauma</li> <li>13. You are lonely</li> <li>14. You are elder living alone depending on others</li> <li>15. Or even when you are feeling at the top of the world </li> <li>16. You have don't care about money honey attitude</li> <li>17. You have had a nasty breakup and you are on rebound You are living in a state of fear</li> <li>18. You are in a exuberating happy mood</li> <li>19. You are in the transition phase after an intense period of </li> <li>20. You think of yourself as extraordinary bright intelligent and smart</li> <li>21. You are a believer of miracle </li> <li>22. You are going through very bad phase in life</li> <li>23. You have just been diagnosed with a serious illness</li> <li>24. You think there are Godmen - who can change your life</li> <li>25. You are a sucker for flashy things</li> <li>26. When you don't want to go through the long-route of basic fundamental laws of success, happiness, wealth and health</li> <li>27. When you are separated from reality and have wild-fairytale dreams - which never happens</li> <li>28. When you believe in the advertisements and what politicians and what the religious celebrities say</li> <li>29. You have fantasies which does not have basis</li> <li>30. When you accept too good to be true schemes at their face value without questioning or seeking other knowledgeable and practical people's opinion </li> <li>31. You take fast decisions and actions on things your inner-voice is cautioning you about</li> <li>32. You go with your heart and ignore using your brain</li> <li>33. You want to believe their lies</li> <li>34. You want whatever they are claiming to be true</li> <li>35. You want to believe in irrational and ridiculous and abnormal </li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">30 subtle and open Tricks gestures and cues Con-Artists and Tricksters uses to Gain Your Trust to cheat you</b></p> <ul><li>1.They start knowing your vulnerabilities, weaknesses and sore-points </li> <li><a name="card-2/"></a>2.They connect with your unrealistic wants </li> <li>3.Your mental-emotional equilibrium is disturbed and because you are not grounded</li> <li>4.They learn out about your explicit and implicit desires</li> <li>5.They appeal to your irrational dreams-fantasies-desires </li> <li>6.They make you tell everything but don't answer your questions</li> <li>7.They answer your questions with questions of their own which again taps into your core desires and greed</li> <li>8.They are great listeners - they listen to understand you better than you yourself do</li> <li>9.They also can read your mind and emotions very quickly</li> <li>10. They make you feel good to hook you and sink their fangs in you deeper and deeper</li> <li>11. They use familiarity by using your name frequently and past incident or an event [which you don't remember] BUT which you find hard to question or challenge</li> <li>12. They mirror your tone and posture and use other body-language cues to make you feel comfortable and drop your guard </li> <li>13. To gain your trust they show their own [manufactured] - vulnerabilities, weaknesses, fears, anxieties and flaws - to come out as a normal person</li> <li>14. They are great story-tellers </li> <li>15. They can fabricating newer stories instantly - when they see you getting sucked</li> <li>16. They also weave their web around your social contacts - so as to make you feel that this person is known to other people known to you</li> <li>17. They drop names of influential person's subtly - which you can't verify - to create their credibility</li> <li>18. They let you win by making you taste the reward that you may receive</li> <li>19. They drop information they know you can't verify</li> <li>20. They try to get you taste the glamour and the riches</li> <li>21. They create urgency so as to make you take action on your impulses</li> <li>22. They make this urgency sound so exciting or so unpassable to you</li> <li>23. They ensure that they are groomed, dressed and have all the essential goodies - to project the image that they want you to see</li> <li>24. Their biggest weapon in case you have caught their cheating - is your embarrassment of being known as a victim of a fraud</li> <li>25. They tell you that they are giving you the chance - this should the red-alert - and actually people should question why he is not giving this to his own friends and relatives</li> <li>26. They practice and practice to become so good - so as to make you doubt yourself - in case you start questioning their motives and honesty and sincerity </li> <li>27. They are very patience - especially if you are a big catch</li> <li>28. They have perfected the most powerful tactics on making friend and influencing people</li> <li>29. They create the impression of being very nice person who is only trying to help you</li> <li>30. Contrary to popular beliefs Pathological liars are not generally good con artists - as their lies get detected easily</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b"><b data-redactor-tag="b">30 signs that tells you that you are in relationship with a wrong man or woman [I have used He/His/man but it is meant for both men and women]</b></b></p> <ul><li>1.When your instincts are telling you something is not right - although you can't put a finger to the right reason</li> <li>2.If you pay attention - you may discover series of Conflicting answers and stories that they have shared with you</li> <li>3.You hear them brag about money that you never see and they make you spend</li> <li>4.If you hear a man talking about how he went to the expensive places - but he makes you spend all the time- he is exploiting you</li> <li>5.If you are a sucker for flashy things -he may even rent a luxury car or borrow one from his friends to deceive you</li> <li>6.They like to blow their trumpet on a regular basis - even when you have already fallen for them and they don't have a need to impress you using tis tool</li> <li>7.You know very little about him and You won't be able to verify his affiliations, his credentials or his connections and heritage</li> <li>8.They may disappear claiming that they were on a very important business trip </li> <li>9.You may get the feeling of his being a gold-digger</li> <li>10. He may call, email and text you throughout the day and night.</li> <li>11. He may send you cards and flowers and trinkets.</li> <li>12. He talks about love, intimacy and commitment early on.</li> <li>13. He asks you questions about your financial status subtly</li> <li>14. His answers to your questions are evasive and sketchy and he constantly has excuses for everything.</li> <li>15. He is hard to reach by phone when he makes disappearing act</li> <li>16. He tells you that he is planning to relocate to an area near you.</li> <li>17. He's arrogant, unpredictable and unreliable</li> <li>18. He exaggerates by twisting the truth even when he doesn't need to</li> <li>19. You feel that He's emotionally unavailable</li> <li>20. Your conversations with him are superficial and disheartening</li> <li>21. When you try to have a meaningful conversation with him - you may find him aloof</li> <li>22. He's indifferent to your needs -He doesn't show an interest in your activities or ask you for your opinion. </li> <li>23. He's sexually motivated. Your relationship with him is driven by hot sex. </li> <li>24. You feel like something is going on in the background but you're afraid to question him as it may push him away. </li> <li>25. He controls your time together. He chooses when and where you will see each other.</li> <li>26. He openly flirts with women - He makes sexual remarks about other women </li> <li>27. He's noncommittal. </li> <li>28. He's shuns responsibility - Nothing is ever his fault. He blames his exes for his failed relationships. </li> <li>29. He blames everyone and everything for his misfortunes and problems in life. He blames you for his hurtful behavior. </li> <li>30. He's handsome, charming and a smooth talker</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">60+ most common everyday cons, scams, frauds and cheating </b></p> <ul><li>1.When you see ridiculous amount of advertisement - which is not verifiable - every day </li> <li>2.Is they are trying to sell you something that you don't need or it cannot or doesn't do what it says - it is a con </li> <li>3.Political conning <b data-redactor-tag="b">- this is by far the biggest in India - you advertisement of such accomplishments in the newspapers and billboards</b> - when nothing is true on the ground level - but still majority buys these cons </li> <li>4.The lottery scammers</li> <li>5.The marriage scammers</li> <li>6.The job scammers</li> <li>7.The beauty scammers</li> <li>8.The health scammers</li> <li>9.The relief to all your problems overnight scammers</li> <li>10. The future predictors & correctors</li> <li>11. The latest bitcoin scammers</li> <li>12. The get rich quick scammers</li> <li>13. The internet work 2 hours using this formula & earn life-long scams - like content writing </li> <li>14. Making any one fall in love with you technique sellers</li> <li>15. Real-estate scams</li> <li>16. Psychic scam</li> <li>17. Astrology-numerology-future scams</li> <li>18. Education - Degree awarding scams</li> <li>19. Spiritual scams</li> <li>20. Religion cult scams</li> <li>21. Guru-Baba scams</li> <li>22. Debt collection , Debt settlement and debt relief scams</li> <li>23. Foreclosure relief or mortgage loan modification scams</li> <li>24. Mortgage closing scams</li> <li>25. Census-Related Frauds</li> <li>26. Government Grant Scams</li> <li>27. Ponzi Schemes</li> <li>28. Charity and Disaster Fraud Scammers impersonate genuine charities and ask for donations</li> <li>29. Counterfeit Prescription Drugs</li> <li>30. Credit Card Fraud</li> <li>31. Fraudulent Cosmetics and "Anti-Aging" Products</li> <li>32. Health Care Fraud</li> <li>33. Holiday Scams</li> <li>34. Identity Theft</li> <li>35. Ransomware</li> <li>36. Threats & extortion </li> <li>37. Stealing your identity</li> <li>38. Unexpected money</li> <li>39. Unexpected winnings</li> <li>40. Arranging COVID vaccine or fake face masks, supplements, anti-virus kits and sanitizers bogus healthcare workers to offer RT-PCR testing </li> <li>41. Investment scams</li> <li>42. Pension scams</li> <li>43. Scammers may contact you saying that they're calling from your bank or the police</li> <li>44. Fraudulent payment has been spotted on your card warnings</li> <li>45. Asking for your PIN number or ask you to key it into your phone.</li> <li>46. Fake computer support calls</li> <li>47. Lotteries / prize draws - especially if you haven't participated in the contest</li> <li>48. Psychics and clairvoyants</li> <li>49. Pyramid schemes</li> <li>50. Phishing emails that try to trick you into revealing your bank details - they may direct you to copycat websites that look like your bank's website</li> <li>51. Emails supposedly from a friend (whose email account has probably been hacked) who says they've been robbed abroad and asks you to send them money</li> <li>52. inheritance – someone has left you money in a will and you have to send an administration fee to get the money</li> <li>53. Miracle cures and medications from online pharmacies.</li> <li>54. Doorstep scams - Bogus callers - strangers who say they need to use your phone because of an emergency</li> <li>55. Fraudulent officials, such as gas or electricity meter readers – they may have fake uniforms and ID</li> <li>56. Charity collectors</li> <li>57. People doing market research.</li> <li>58. Relationship scams</li> <li>59. Finding out who's looked at your profile warnings</li> <li>60. Messages from Mark Zuckerberg - man you would be the person if you really receive this type of email straight from him</li> <li>61. The threat to delete your account warnings</li></ul><div><br></div><p> #whywegetcheated, #whywefallpreytoconartists, #how<b data-redactor-tag="b">Tricksterscheatsus, #howcheaterscheat, #signsthatyouareinrelationwithconartists, #howpeoplegetdefrauded, #howscamshappens, #identifyandreventgettingconned, #commoneverydayconsscamsfrauds&cheating, #Psychologyofconartists, #howpeoplemanipulatesus, #frauds, #scams, #cheating, #howtoavoidgettingduped, #typesoffraudandconhappeningtoday, #tricksusedbycheats, #howtostopgettingexploited, #preventinggettingexploited </b> </p>