In this article you will learn
How to Be an intelligent person and not an intellectual one.
There are 42 Types of intelligence - at least those I have managed to identify - so far.
Being Intelligent can also be referred as being smart as well as being wise.
We can never acquire most of these intelligences through formal education.
Contrary to the popular belief – these are not what we are born with.
All of us can develop, practice and master these intelligences and apply them in our every day to day work.
To the degree we use these intelligences – our lives would be filled with meaningful accomplishments - like happiness, success, growth, wonderful relationship etc.
1.Happiness-Intelligence – it is about choosing to live a life, which makes you feel good and satisfied about yourself
2.Relationship-Intelligence – it is about connecting and bonding with all our important relations – personal, social, professional
3.Priority/Choices-Intelligence – ability to discern between those that are powerful and those which can be ignored
4.Letting-Go Intelligence – this intelligence is letting go of all the past-regrets, all the toxic people, forgiving people who have hurt you, our feelings of revenge, feelings of guilt, suppressed anger shame etc.
5.Possibilities-Intelligence – this is about identifying through questioning and challenging our assumptions and beliefs and discovering the positives, the options, the choices, the solutions, the advantages in every situation - however bad that may look to us
6.Solution-Intelligence – this about focusing energies on finding/developing/creating simple yet effective solutions- and improvising constantly
7.Learning-Intelligence – this is about constantly updating, upskilling, right-skilling ourselves in all the roles that we play in life
8.Excellence -Intelligence – this about being focused on delivering excellence instead of trying to be perfect
9.DecisionMaking-Intelligence – this is about taking tough-decisions and choices in the time of most baffling, most difficult, terrifying situations
10.OptionsGenerating-intelligence – this is about never settling with one option, but looking for as many options available
11.OpenMind-Intelligence – this is about listening and being at ease with different perspectives, paradoxes and contradictory explanations and choosing which is most appropriate
12.Perception/View-Point-Intelligence – this is the ability to see from different angles and understanding
13.ChangeAdapting-Intelligence – this is about being comfortable with changes and pro-actively looking for change and preparing ourselves to be ready to welcome/face any change
14.Values-Intelligence – this is about having the right values and standing up to them
15.Growth-Intelligence – this about helping others grow to grow yourself faster
16.ProblemSolving-Intelligence – this is about taking-action within your area of control or influence to increase your competence in handling bigger and tougher problems in life – by small-small steps
17.Social Intelligence – to be able to connect and understand people
18.Emotional Intelligence – to be able to understand your own emotions and why people do what they do
19.Common-Sense Intelligence – this is one of the most profound intelligence that we can inculcate
20.Communication Intelligence – this is about mastering the art of making sassy, deeper and powerful conversations
21.Financial Intelligence – ability to create financial independence through creating alternative means – irrespective of the changes taking place in your life and the worlds
22.Mental Intelligence – to be able to understand the deeper meaning and read between the lines
23.Creative-Intelligence – to look beyond the obvious and hidden opportunities
24.Empathic-Intelligence – this is to understand what drives people
25.BouncingBack -Intelligence – ability to get up and start again from failures/setbacks/crises
26.StickingWithBasics-Intelligence – this is another very powerful intelligence – it about being aware and using the natural laws of success, happiness, relationships
27.ChannelizingNegativeEnergy-Intelligence – By directing them to creating something worthwhile, meaningful and powerful
28.Intrapersonal-Intelligence-Learn – ability To Love Yourself Unconditionally
29.Storytelling-Intelligence – ability to share anything in mesmerizing ways
30.UnderstandingOthers-Intelligence – this is developing the introspective power to understand yourself to understand others
31.AskingQuestion-Intelligence - this about the ability of asking direct, straightforward and tough questions from yourself and others
32.CreatingHumor-Intelligence – ability to laugh at your miseries as well as seeing humor in the most stressful situation AND making people laugh
33.TakingRisk-Intelligence – taking calculated risks
34.Persuasion/Convincing-Intelligence – Through identifying the motivators and fears of others
35.Resilince-Intelligence – Ability to not to give-up and keep going-on - when needed
36.SuccessFocus-Intelligence – focusing on taking actions and improvisations – those which take you closer towards your goals
37. Networking Intelligence – ability to connect with the powerful people socially and professionally
38. Trend-Spotting and Trend-Setting Intelligence – before it comes in the news or fashion – ability to see new changes
39. Conflict Resolution Intelligence – by taking pro-active non-offensive ways to resolve
40. Negotiation Intelligence – ability to create win-win solutions for long-term benefits and advantage
41. Creating Great-Impression Intelligence – ability to win solid brownie-points through demonstrating results and expertise
42. Professional Intelligence – ability to come out as real professional
32 Difference between Intelligent-person and Intellectuals
These 14 signs will tell you – if you are dealing with an intellectual person
1.Intellectualism is about knowledge gained through books, theories, classrooms and lectures and memorizing
2. Intellectualism is seldom pragmatic and implementable
3. Intellectualism is almost always bloats our EGO
4. Intellectualism is about the formal qualifications that we have obtained through schools, universities, colleges and institutions
5. Intellectualism is mostly about studying something that has happened – and various interpretations in the realm of What and Why
6. Intellectualism is generally rigid with few defined ways of how something should be done
7. Intellectualism deals with perfection
8.There are different classes, and it is always between them and us [meaning the ones who are knowledgeable and those who are lessor mortals]
9. Intellectualism can be measured by IQ tests and what degrees, certificates, diplomas you have, or how many papers you have written or seminars you have attended
10.Intellectuals are perceived by others as intelligent, which may and may not be the case
11. Intellectuals are not very good learners – as far as life skills are concerned - as they are busy trying to prove their being right
12. They have difficulty in accepting, acknowledging and understanding - radically different points of views, opinions and perspectives
13. They have difficulty in admiring talents which is different than their fields
14. If being challenged and defeated - on their own territories, they normally don't come out as good losers
Intelligence on the other hand can be these 18 things
1. Intelligence is all About real education [opposite to having certificates] – which helps you take actions, solve problems, overcome difficulties
2. Intelligence can be developed - but it takes real-life experiences and introspection and self-corrections and constant improvising
3. Intelligence is about being flexible and adaptable
4. Intelligence is about finding ways that works, not just focusing on defined or acceptable methods
5. Intelligence is about creating excellence and not perfection
6. Intelligence is about constantly evolving self, through learnings
7. Intelligence is focused on the end results, the right values and aspirations
8. Intelligence is about, letting go of what is not within our control and working only on what we can do
9. Intelligence is about having the priorities and living life as per our nature
10.Intelligence can also be substituted for SMART, especially the word street-smart
11. Intelligence focuses on future and creating and recreating it through disruptive thought process
12. Intelligence is about experimenting newer ideas, processes and ways
13. Intelligence is about being open to all view-points and choosing whichever is better suited for the moment
14. Intelligence is about action and results and always asks, how can this be done OR how can we improve this
15.Any person whether the has studied in Harvard or in lives the remotest and in so called undeveloped place and totally without any formal exposure to school/college can be intelligent
16.It is not about having high IQ [which is may not be the right parameter of real intelligence]
17.Intelligence cannot be measured by means and tools available to us in today's, we can only see the impact of the results that take lot of time to become visible to others
18.It is never about comparing with others, it is about feeling worthwhile, good and contended within yourself
39 basic tips on How to be intelligent
1.Ability to Learn from your mistakes
2.Ability to Re-evaluate and challenge your views, opinions, perceptions and assumptions
3. Ability and confidence to Challenge the experts
4. Ability to Push for what you believe in
5. Ability to Rely on actions rather than words
6. Ability to Do Different Things That Stretches You Beyond Your Comfort Zones
7. Ability to Manage Your Time & Energy Wisely
8.Habit of Reading Reading Reading about the best practices, about people who survived and beat the odds and about all that interests you
9.Learn a New Language
10.Play Brain Games
11.Go for daily Exercise
12.Learn to Play a Musical Instrument
13.Eat healthy
14.Indulge in your impulse time to time
15.Try out the weirdest ideas that you have - to fail and to learn and then apply the lesson in any of your on-going projects
16.Become an action-person - Get Going on all your aspirations/ dreams/ passions
17.Always verify before you assume that you know it better
18.Be curious about people, things, nature – ask stupid questions whenever you are in doubt
19.Be a good listener, listen with open-mind
20.Don't discard any idea, however ridiculous it may sound, feel or seem
21.Learn to enjoy your own company
22.Develop your sense of humor
23.Learn to connect seemingly unrelated concepts
24.Contemplate the big questions and create your big larger than life big-picture
25.Know how much they don't know.
26.Surround Yourself with Smarter People
27.Make Lots of Mistakes – not intentionally, but because you try more and newer things
28.Build awareness about many things
29.Work Hard, put real effort
30.Look things up on the internet
31.Develop opposite views on every topic you like and try to prove both side correct
32.Do new things, venture into unknown/uncertain and then Figure things out on your own
33.Ask for help
34.Teach others
35.Find a hobby that challenges you mentally, emotionally and physically
36.Minimize distractions
37.Have a focused day for something you are passionate about and is meaningful
38.Listen Listen Listen
39.Be modest and humble
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