Why We Need To Cultivate & Nurture Mentors => The Impact of Powerful Inter-Dependent Relationships In Transforming Every Sphere of Your Life.
Self Made Man/Woman is As – BIG MYTH - As OVERNIGHT SUCCESS. There is A Support/There is A Inspiration/There is A Significant Contribution From Someone.
Even To Do The Simplest Task Which Seems Totally Single Person Dependant => Is Actually a Team-Work With A Leader/Mentor => Say Like Brushing Your Tooth – Which Involves Brain, Hand and So Many Other Part's Co-ordination – Along With Factors Not Noticeable Unless We Search with Focus.
If We Focus On Most of The Things That We Aspire For In Life => Like happiness, Success, Growth, Health, Peace, Relationships, Bliss, Wealth, Power & Whatever You May Think of => None of These Can Be Attained By Any of Us – Just Solely By Our-Selves.
Even The Most Enlightened Masters of This World Had Their Own Mentors.
So How Do We Identify, Enroll, Cultivate & Nurture Inter-Dependant Relationship With Powerful People – From Whom We Can Either Learn Or Who Can Take Us To The Top
Have You Read About Richard Branson & Warren Buffets & Bill Gates & Ratan Tata Helping with Hundreds of Thousands Dollars To Virtual Strangers – There are Numerous Examples.
You Can Actually Create A Very Strong Connection/Bonding/Relationship with Some Of The Most Powerful People Around Yourself – Because Even They Need Some of The Thing That You May Have.
Then How To Go About Enrolling The Mentors – Who Have The Influence & The Power To Add Value To Whatever You Are Looking For.
The Following Pointers May Help =>
1. Identify The Area of Your Life Which Needs Revolution => Although In All The Areas of Our Life, We Can Do With Positive Changes.
2. Identify What Type of Support/Help/Involvement/Knowledge You Need From Your Mentor[s] => To Grow In A Particular Domain – Sometimes In A Single Domain Area of Your Life You May Need More Than One Mentor.
3. Identify Who Could Be Your Mentor/Role Model In This Area – This Person Definitely Should Have Powerful Demonstrable Achievements/Qualities That You Are Looking For.
4. Then You Need To Find Out How To How To Get Directly Connected With This Person => This Step is Not very Easy – But With Creativity & Technology & Your Network You Would Be Able To Do It .
5. Identify What Value Addition You Can Do [Which They Need] – AND - Which Presumably Others Can Not Give Them => Please Remember It Is A Long Term Relationship We Are Talking About & If The Flow of Value Addition is Only From One Side => The Relationship Can Not Be Sustained Longer.
While Identifying – What You Can Do – You Should Focus On Looking For => Non-Materialistic Things in Their Emotional/ Spiritual/ Family/ Mental Areas – Getting The Same From You, Will Make Them Feel Enriched.
6. Find Out The Ways You Can Make Yourself Visible to This Person => In This Internet Technology Age => There Can Be Several Creative Ways – You can Put Yourself in the Limelight of The Intended Mentor.
7. After You Get Connected => You Have To Start Finding Ways In Which You Can Make Meaningful Contribution To This Person's Needs.
But Please Remember => Your Focus While Adding Value Should Only Be Making Positive Difference & Not Your Reason What You Want From This Person - Genuinely.
As in The Wonderful Book "The 48 Laws of Power" – One Of The Laws Says That- Once You Have Impressed Your Mentor With Your Authenticity– They Will Automatically Promote You & Give You What You Want.
8. Acknowledging & Giving Credit to The Mentor => After You Have Achieved Desired Level of Success – You Must Acknowledge & Give Due Recognition to Your Mentors.
9. Once You Have a Team of Mentors Connect Them With Each Other => This Step Can Overwhelmingly Increase Your Level of Success to a Level You Have Never Imagined.
IF YOU CAN CONTRIBUTE POSITIVELY TO ALL YOUR CLOSE & IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIPS => FOR YOUR HAPPINESS & SUCCESS – EVEN SKY WON'T BE A LIMIT