Living The Life You Want and Living Your Life Full 100%
How many of you think about, believe and wish for
1.A life that some people you see living, and envy about
2.A passion or dream you want to achieve, yet unable to
3.An outcome that you want but not getting
4.The success you deserve but which eludes you
5.A contended life
6.Have regrets about what you could have/should have done
It simply means that, there are reasons [mostly within your area of control], which are holding you back in life from getting
1.Success
2.Happiness
3.Love
4.Health
5.Great relationships
6.Feeling of Bliss
Given below are few Simple mantras to live your life fully NOW, while enjoying the journey and later to look back with satisfaction. These are given randomly not in any particular order.
The * marked ones along with many others are the articles which will give you DIY tips in my other blogs
1.Focus on today and how you can do your best to live it to the fullest
2.Participate in life instead of just watching it pass you by*
3.Stop comparing yourself with anyone, you do not know their real story, as they might be looking for something that you have
4.Don't attach to yourself with results, instead only focus on the immediate action steps that would take them towards these objectives
5.Create a meaningful and compelling purpose in your life that wakes you up with energy and enthusiasm* and also that may make you keep awake with excitement of planning
6.Stop wasting your time living as per other's, especially people who have not contributed at all in your life, nobody gives a damn about you as they are concerned with their own lives too much to worry about yours
7.Try to relish your fears, do something that scares you, your dreams are on the other side of your fears
8.Learn something that you wish you could, and envy who do it easily. Like learning to play musical instrument or how to dance
9.Stop Working Hard, learn to balance between working hard and working smart
10.Work is important, but it does not have to be your whole life
11.Stop Holding onto Old Grudges, forgive others for your own well being
12.Spend time with the People You Love, Call them, Meet them, Hug them, Listen to them and help them. Reach out to that friend you haven't talked to in ages
13.Take risks, small ones as well as big ones, a lot of them, you will be glad later
14.Tell people you love them now, don't wait for the right moment
15.Ignore, avoid, get rid of the naysayers, haters, control freaks
16.Live as your per core values, do not let anyone make you compromise with them
17.Do random acts of kindness for people who are helpless, suffering, unable to seek help
18.Observe the beauty around you, Keep your mind open, learn about nature, people and the world
19.Be an action man, not a hollow talker like politicians
20.Recognize that life is a journey, not a destination, so create memories on the way
21.Be honest with yourself and others, accept yourself fully with your drawbacks and strength
22.Love yourself unconditionally*
23.Seek help if you need, cultivate a support relationship around yourself*
24.Be pro-actively looking for change, Embrace flexibility*
25.Care for your emotions, mind, soul and body, nurture it with right moments, right food, right thoughts, right people
26.Get rid of people who pull you down or make you feel bad about yourself or always try to control you, Now
27.Challenge yourself in the area of your interest and do things that you love but are not able to do because of constraints
28.Try competing with yourself and beating yourself everyday by becoming better
29.Don't be scared to accept your mistakes or ignorance
30.Simplify your life*
31.Forgive yourself and others*
32.Live every day on a fresh new start
33.Take ownership for your life and actions, Quit complaining
34.Create your own opportunities*
35.Fall in love
36.Get out there and make new friends
37.Keep developing yourself and Keep upgrading yourself constantly*
38.Experiment, Try new things
39.Set your role models in life, Get mentors*, help others
40.Learn about your negative and your blind spots, from other's criticism and suggestions
41.Live your life as per 80/20 rule, do all those 20% things that gives you happiness, peace, satisfaction and success, dump the rest
42.Learn to create memories from little-little things
43.Go for vacations, Take a break
44.Stop judging others
45.Respect yourself and others
46.Express gratitude, admiration and appreciation
47.Understand that all your negative feelings are signals for change so rather than looking for quick-fixes, go for the deeper meanings and rediscover yourself
48.Even if you fail towards your journey living your passions, learn to learn and enjoy your failures, because they are actually leading you towards your dreams.
49.Ignore the things those are beyond your area of control, and influence, rather focus on what you can do right now
50.Focus on end values don't sacrifice long term happiness for small short-term Pleasures
51.Stop chasing money for the sake of money, only use it to create the meaningful life that you want
52.Surround yourself with the type of people you'd want to be and who are more mature, smarter, more intelligent and are supportive
53.Stop looking for perfection, instead look for excellence*
54.Read a book, even if just one page at a time
55.Unease you potential and power within*
56.Sleep well, balance between eating heathy and eating junk
57.Create technology free days in every week
58.Use technology to make your life meaningfully focused on what you want to do
59.Learn to say "No.", be assertive*
60.Be your authentic, genuine self
61.Understand that those things which annoys you about others is a reflection of you, and telling you to make corrections
62.And also, that What you admire about others is a quality you need to imbibe in yourself
63.Understand You matter immensely, for you and those who love you
64.Avoid arguing on politics and religion, they are the cause of most of ills, and by arguing you don't gain anything at all, even if you win the argument