​Language that makes people your fan

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How To Use Language Of Utmost Influence To Make Most Powerful People Your Fan

Making These Centers Of Influence E In Your Circle Pro-Actively Help You Willingly & Subconsciously

You Can Discover The Language Which Will Bring You Closer To People In Their Heart & Give You Immense Power Over Them

Unless You Are A Hermit, A Saint Who Has Renounced The World Of Desires Completely Or A Total Nut Case => Chances Are You Consciously & Unconsciously Seek, Want, Need Admiration, Appreciation, Love, Gratitude, Respect, Care, Apology From Others.

In Case You Are The Rare One Who Is Most Comfortable With Yourself –I Can Still Bet That You Won't Mind, If Other People Give You All These Without Asking & Are Genuine.

There Exist A Language Of Appreciation, Gratitude, Apology, Care & Love Absence/Wrong Inadvertent Use Of Which Can Create Conflict Or It Can Make A Good Relationship Stronger, Vibrant & Intimate – With Anyone You Would Like Get Closer.

I Discovered This At The Cost Of Almost Distancing My Various Relationships, e.g., Family, Parental, Marital, Sibling => All Of These People Thought I Do Not Appreciate, I Do Not Apologize , I Am Not Grateful & I Do Not Recognize Their Achievements

Imagine My This Learning Coming At 54 – Just a Few Months Back, This Late Enlightenment!!! Is Especially Noteworthy – Because I am in This Line of Study, since Quite Sometimes.

It Pained Me To Realize ThatEven Though I Go Out Of The Way For Each Of These People, Yet They Fail To Not Only Realize It But Have Never Considered That I Am The One Person Who Appreciates Them Maximum & I Am The One Who Is Most Grateful For Their Presence In My Life & That I Care For Them Most.

Most Of The Time We Operate Out Of Our Own Dominant Preferential Language Both Verbal & Non-Verbal, Both While Giving as WellAs While Receiving – As Per Our Three Major Senses – Kinesthetic, Auditory & Visual.

We Expect Others To Understand Our Way Of Expressing These Without Realizing That They May Have Different Reception & Way To Recognize The Signals Of Love, Gratitude, Appreciation, Respect, Care

And Then We Are Totally Stunned When They Not Only Do Not Understand It But Sometimes Feel Bad That We Are Not Sensitive Enough

Most Of The Time We Expect Others To Understand Us – Without Telling Them About Your Expectations & The Reverse Is Also True That We Do Not Try To Understand Others By Asking, Observing, Verifying & Correcting.

I Discovered There Are People Of Following Types – If You Understand Them As Per Their Mode Of Recognizing & Registering The Positives Vibes Being Given By You => You Will Be Considered Most Charming, Most Caring, Most Loving, Most Respectful => And You Will Become A Person They Would Love To Delight & Gratify.

Although The Following Types Are Not Exhaustive – It Covers The Individual Elite Ones.

I Have Tried to Bunch with Exact Opposite Types Together by Their Type's Exclusivity


1.Ceremoniously Dominated Personas

A.People Who Would Love You To Express Your Positive Feelings/Apologies In A Public Display Of Affection[PDA]

B.People Who Would Love To Receive PDA But Won't Show It To Others Themselves & Vice Versa

C. Then There Are Those Hate Both Giving & Receiving PDA


2.Materialistically Gratifiable People

A.People Who Want You To Show Your Admiration/ Regret By Gifts[They May Have A Scale – The Bigger The Gesture, The Bigger The Gift]

B.People Who Absolutely Hate The Idea Of Giving & Receiving Gifts

C.People Who May Feel Good Receiving But Do Not Give Gifts & Vice-Versa


3.Word Wise People

A.People Who Would Want You To Constantly State Your Love/Appreciation/Gratefulness/ Admiration/Recognition Of Their Efforts – Through Words, Both Written & Verbal

B.People Who Will Only Tell Verbally You & There Would Be No Other Non-Verbal Gestures – But Their Words Mean The Ultimate As Far As These People Are Concerned

C.There Would Be People Who Would Love You To Tell Them All These Verbally But They Will Never Do The Same + There Would Be People Who Would State These Verbally But Do Not Expect The Same From You

D.People Who Would Expect You To Tell Others Behind Their Back – Your Appreciation/Your Remorse About Them


4.Real Action People

A.People Who Would Want You To Show By Real Actions/Gestures/Acts Of Service Your Love, Care, Appreciation For Them – They Are Not Moved By Words Alone

B.There Are People Who Would Do Their Utmost Silently & Their Gratification Comes From Seeing Their Loved Succeed, Be Happy & Do Well


5.Stroked Pattern People

A.People Who Love To Be Pampered

B.People Who Cringe At The Thought Of Being Pampered [As Per Their Respective Definition Of Pampering- It Could Be Through Combination Of PDA, Gifts, Gestures, Words ]


6.People Who Would Expect You To Persistently Mollify Them While They Are Upset & Sulk


7.People Who Would Expect You Understand Them By Asking Them & They Also May Turn Out The Type Of People Who Would Clarify Your Expectations From Them


8.People Who Would Expect You To Trust Them, Have Faith In Them & Their Intentions Without Being Told- Normally These People Are One Who Trust Others Naturally

9.Kinesthetically Inspired Persons => These Are The People – Who Want & Show Through Physical Touch, Cuddling, Walking Holding Hand, Spending Time Together, Doing Chores Together & Off Course Making Love
  • Now These Are The Normal Standalone 9 Types With Their Subtypes – In maximum Encounters You will Come Across Complex Personalities, Which Would Be The Case In 95%+ People.
  • You May Find Some People Have More Than One Way Of Identifying & Knowing [It Is Their Way – But It The Only Scale You Would Get Measured On By Them => Therefore If You Want To Get Closer To Them Pay Attention To This] & Another Way Of Recognizing/Expressing/ Showing You Their Feeling

These Are Applicable Not Only For Romantic Relationships – But In All Your Relationships, Like Bosses, Business Contacts, Customers Along With Family, Friends & All Near & Dear Ones.

If You Were To Look Back In Your Life, At Relationships That You Cherish, That Matter To You… You Would Begin To Notice The Massive Role That These Languages Of Influences Play In Our Lives.

Which Means You Would Certainly Want To Know The Language Of Influence That Either Inspire Or Despair You & All The People Who Are Important To You.

Of Course It Has To Be Based On A Combination Of Observation, Asking, Hit & Trial Method.

But A Better Way Of Finding This Language – Is To Pay Attention To What Your Most Important Relationships Complain About You

It Is Not What They Have Said Once, But What They Complain About Most Of The Times When It Comes To You And The Relationship.

In Fact If You Were To Pay Close Attention To The Words People Around You Use, You Would Generally Be Able To Figure Out Their Primary Language.

If You Were To Focus On The Words You Speak, You Would Also Be Able To Figure Out Your Own Language – You Also Have To Use Introspection When Someone's Words/Actions/Gestures Makes You Feel Wonderful Or Gloomy.

It Is Incredible How Much We Can Learn About Ourselves And About Others If We Were To Just Learn To Pay Attention To Things That Really Matter.

Some Of The Typical Complain To Pay Attention To Are The Words Including You Never……, You Don't…….., e.g.. You Never Appreciate/Recognize My Efforts….., You Never Hug Me When I Am Down….., You Never Buy… And So On

So Start Now & Discover A World Of Real Happiness, Bliss & Blessing And Make People Wanting To Help You Naturally

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