In this article you will learn -
- -The 19 real impossible things in life [you would be surprised how many people seek these things actively - that is why so many businesses exists and flourish] - please add your own for fun as well as finding which of them you are obsessed with
- -15 impossible goals - we should stop going for
- -This article is about two things - About how can each one of us achieve impossible[as per our perception] and do extra-ordinary things - even though our life has been full of challenges PLUS To introduce you with two ordinary people - who have done extra-ordinary things. For this I have started a series on "Impossible-Achiever" and have released two videos on YouTube
- -Please ensure following 9 things - If you are successful
- -103 massive transformations Tips on How to do extra-ordinary things in life - this I wrote from - what I learned from the greatest people I came across
How ordinary people do impossible things
The size and the impossibility of our dreams and our dedicated-consistent actions towards it - ultimately creates the magnitude and quality of our life - which we live.
This also transforms and changes the way we perceive the definition of impossible.
If you go through the lives of all the people - who are acknowledged by the world - as great, extra-ordinary and game-changer - there is not even a single person - who achieved impossible and did extra-ordinary things - because he or she was born with gifted qualities.
Almost all the ordinary people - can do extra-ordinary things - and many of us do that.
Yes we may not feel that our accomplishments are extra-ordinary - for many those would be what they aspire to.
Many extra-ordinary accomplishments happens during excruciating circumstances AND not because of absence of hardships, limitations and setbacks.
If you want to live your life to the fullest - size of your dreams as well as how much efforts you put in ultimately matters.
You need to choose -whether you would like to remain an average ordinary person or become someone who inspires others to challenge the word impossible and changes this word's meaning totally.
When our dreams are small - we miss out living a blissful life - because our limiting beliefs about ourselves - stops us from feeling satisfied, contended and blissful.
We only live once AND our so many years are already over[yes-yes the past and next birth theories do exist - but no-one who has been to all three world - their past-life, their-current life and their future life - is YET available to give us that wisdom or ever was].
Besides dreaming big - it is even more important to dream about which is meaningful and fulfilling and which manages to energize you.
The bestest dreams are based on giving - rather than hoarding - and those which impacts a large mass positively.
The 19 real impossible things in life [you would be surprised how many people seek these things actively - that is why so many businesses exists and flourish] - please add your own for fun as well as finding which of them you are obsessed with
Try doing any of them - if you can achieve any of the following - you will become the richest person on this earth
- 1.Become white-skinned - if you happen to be born - brown, wheatish, bronze or have any other skin pigmentation AND vice-versa
- 2.Have absolutely wrinkle-free body and skin - after say when you are 50+ years of age for the rest of your life
- 3.Attract powerful and smart people - through wearing expensive clothes and wedding level-make-up
- 4.Have muscles and body like you see in advertisements - just by eating that protein
- 5.Freeze your age at say 20 or so and remain young forever
- 6.Live for eternity without aging
- 7.Having full head of naturally growing hairs - if you became completely bald
- 8.Again [it is subjective as there are exceptions] - can become thin and fit IF from being excessively obese
- 9.Have a billionaire falling in love with you - if you happen to be digging trenches and are somehow managing to eat [yes-yes - Indian-movies are full of this type of stories]
- 10. Meet a ghost real time
- 11. Go to heaven and come back share your stories - once you are dead
- 12. Predict - how, when and where - you are going to die
- 13. Ensure - that you will born into a special place in some particular family - if the next birth thing is true
- 14. Find a million dollar lying in a bag or win a lottery without evenpurchasing lottery ticket
- 15. Be totally fit like a navy-seal - if you love sitting on a couch watching TV or playing game in mobile and eating Pizza and potato-chips
- 16. Being happy forever
- 17. People loving you forever
- 18. Settling down and living happily ever after
- 19. Everyone being in awe of you all the time
15 impossible goals - we should stop going for [add yours]
- 1.Aiming to Please Everyone
- 2.Avoiding Conflict
- 3.Avoiding Confronting others when they have harmed you
- 4.Trying to satisfy the toxic people and going out of your way to make them happy
- 5.Avoid making mistakes
- 6.Not taking risks
- 7.Letting your fears rule you
- 8.Playing in comfort zone to avoid facing Failure
- 9.Achieving Success Without Making Any Mistakes
- 10. Being the Best in Every Area of Your Life all the time OR expecting your kid to be one [even if you were mediocre]
- 11. Avoiding Asking for Help
- 12. Expecting to be loved by everyone
- 13. Expecting others to do as you want
- 14. Expecting others to understand you and what you want perfectly - even if you have never told them what you want
- 15. Problems to go away - if you ignore them
This article is about two things
- 1.About how can each one of us achieve impossible[as per our definition] and do extra-ordinary things - even if our life is full of challenges
- 2.AND to introduce you with two ordinary people - who have done extra-ordinary things. For this I have started a series on "Impossible-Achiever" and have released two videos on YouTube. This series is about those people who took on themselves - to accomplish dreams - much larger than life AND about those faced life changing devastating events - yet they achieved such accomplishments - those even people with all facilities & support may not think about doing them or going for those feats - the links Still Running Climbing Diving & Flying at 80 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKCDwP54bC8 and being Visually Impaired to Organizing Two World Cups https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NczVK90yzOc
Because these people achieved what is normally believed IMPOSSIBLE - I call these people IMPOSSIBLE ACHIEVER.
AN APPEAL TO OUR GUESTS - If you know of any such people - who achieved, what CAN BE RECOGNIZED AS EXTRA-ORDINARY by Global Standards - Please connect them with us or tell us about them
Now let us bring our focus on - how to accomplish the impossible or do extra-ordinary as well as be extra-ordinary.
Please ensure following 9 things - If you are successful
- 1.Never-never ever discourage other people - in going about their dreams OR belittle or laugh about or ridicule anyone's dream
- 2.One reason for this is - that in order to accomplish success - you yourself have been encouraged by few AND also mocked by many
- 3.The second reason - is that - you went after your dreams and achieved big AND if you discourage others because they have dreams which creates envy in you [OR do you seriously believe that - if they actually achieve their dreams would impact and reduce the significance of your accomplishments]
- 4.If you want to achieve even bigger success - go and create leaders and entrepreneurs
- 5.PLUS mentor and handhold others to achieve their dreams.
- 6.You can also help others by sharing with them - the mistakes you made and how others can avoid making
- 7.AND show them - how not to waste resources in reinventing the wheel
- 8.Never puncture others dreams by ridiculing and making fun to stop them from pursuing their dreams
- 9.When people actually ask - give objective, constructive and actionable feedback - which helps them overcome their challenges
103 massive transformations Tips on How to do extra-ordinary things in life - this I wrote from - what I learned from the greatest people I came across - and it not in order as it is randomly put as it came to me while writing - Please create the sequential order - which suits you
- 1.First identify what is that you want to accomplish - which is giving you sleepless night with excitement
- 2.Then objectively examine your perceived impossible goal - ask yourself -Is it really impossible - Have any other people achieved this goal - If the answer is yes - then it you - who feels it is impossible for you.
- 3.Set both realistic and unrealistic goals - the unrealistic goals should be those which both thrill and scare you at the same time
- 4.We need both realistic achievable goals as well as big and seemingly insurmountable impossible goals – to move forward
- 5.Because smaller goals builds the momentum to create the velocity and power - for you to take bigger risks and accomplish even larger objectives
- 6.Choose ONE goal you want to accomplish that is currently impossible for you. It can be anything that you truly desire- Take one small action forward at a time. Every action (even if it's a failure) is an action forward
- 7.Define the parameters of your impossible goal - Be specific so you - get clarity to know what specific steps to take
- 8.Create your own path - but don't waste time on recreating the wheel -use the learnings that is already available
- 9.Understand that - we will always have our own set of limitations, constrains, complexities, hurdles, disappointments and ambiguities - but these should be the reasons to propel forward
- 10. Don't rush your results- It's important you build momentum and move forward, slow and steady.
- 11. Track and evaluate your progress
- 12. Think big—act small.
- 13. How you start is very important - How do you climb say mount Everest - one step at a time - That is the only way to achieving something that seems impossible
- 14. Off-course - the mandatory basic preparations, lots of practice and mastering the needed skills, knowledge and creating the right mindset - has to be there - before you attempt to take the first step into the unknown
- 15. There is no right or wrong step - just take the next step - and if it is wrong - improvise and then take the next step - Your first step has to be something that YOU CAN DO yourself
- 16. After this we need to be consistent with your actions to maintain and gain momentum
- 17. Believe In Yourself - Take Massive Amounts Of Action
- 18. Analyze, Analyze, And Analyze Some More - to find how you can improve and create more effective actions and processes
- 19. Take action, improvise and then again take the corrected actions
- 20. Impossible dreams happens - when we do the essential and boring tasks every day
- 21. Meet and learn from other great and successful people- and you will find that - most of them who have made the impossible and unthinkable possible were once just ordinary people like you
- 22. Understand what these great people did, how they overcame the obstacles
- 23. Many of them were rejected again and again - yet they persevered and persistently pursued their dreams
- 24. Challenge the norms and the taken for granted processes
- 25. When you choose a big dream and do something unique - you will have to face your share of criticism and have to fight against the popular beliefs
- 26. All our big dreams have elements of creating big changes - impacting masses - changing and influencing lives of others for better
- 27. For this you need to develop resilience through determined discipline
- 28. Master the basics - If you are not very good at something - but you must do it -Practice till you have mastered that skill to comfort level
- 29. Put an impressive amount of effort AND give your 100%
- 30. Everything you can't do it all by yourself - never feel bad about asking for help
- 31. Understand and use the power of team - inspire others to work with you
- 32. You must follow - the situational leadership principals - that is take the lead when you have the best skills - other-times let the person or the group most capable handle it
- 33. Always assume - that you don't know everything - and that you need to learn
- 34. Never make excuses - always accept complete responsibility for your decisions, actions and life
- 35. Get rid of the urge to blame others - when failures and mistakes happens - as they will
- 36. Get feedback about your strengths and weaknesses and your areas of improvement
- 37. Understand that everyone has strengths - never underestimate anyone
- 38. Empower and help others to succeed
- 39. Have very strong set of personal values - and follow them
- 40. Take risk - by stretching yourself - let yourself fail because you are stepping into the zones of unknown and uncertain
- 41. When you are priming for success - you will make many mistakes and will also fail many-many times
- 42. Don't let your mistakes and failures stick in you - INSTEAD - learn and apply the lessons then move on
- 43. If you are failing while going for something that you are passionate about - never give-up
- 44. It is ok to cry - if after putting mammoth efforts you still fail - but then after sometime get-up and start again
- 45. Become comfortable with being discomfort
- 46. Forego short-time gratifications in favor of long-term gains
- 47. Do amazing things - by breaking and taking actions in bite-sized steps to achieve small-small milestones while moving forward towards your big-picture
- 48. Put your efforts into what you feel is meaningful - prioritize and avoid what does not have value and are insignificant
- 49. Create a compelling vision and learn to communicate it powerfully to make others involved, engaged and inspired
- 50. Celebrate the small wins and all your sustainable progress and growth
- 51. Nurture an environment of trust and support other people become the best version of themselves
- 52. Expect discouragement - from everyone AND let this discouragement increase your drive for success
- 53. Always focus on possibilities, options and solutions - of the problems, challenges and obstacles
- 54. Focus on turning your failures, setbacks and mistakes into opportunities
- 55. Be yourself - be original - Focus to be different and better than your role-models
- 56. Make learning - unlearning and relearning - your biggest priority
- 57. Challenge and inspire everyone you meet and make them want to do great things too
- 58. Stop criticizing, complaining and whining to others
- 59. When you are feeling passionate - keep going on with full throttle
- 60. Focus on being the greatest version you
- 61. Identify your non-negotiable values in life - live by them
- 62. Define your core beliefs - and reframe and recalibrate - those which are not adding values
- 63. Be More Afraid Of Not Trying than - trying and failing
- 64. Carefully Manage Your Time as well as your energy
- 65. Choose to be among people who thrive on achievements
- 66. Take breaks to rejuvenate
- 67. Learn to create and add Massive Amounts Of Value to yourself and to others - especially to your loved ones
- 68. Avoid wasting time on gossip and similar - negative and unproductive and negative inducing things
- 69. Find Ways To Help Others become their best
- 70. Get sick of status quo
- 71. Failed big-time - ask - What could you have done differently
- 72. Learn to become and anticipating criticism - because if criticism is fully guaranteed - and it can come from even your well-meaning family, friends, and colleagues who want to protect you from disappointment
- 73. Watch-out and guard against the most damaging criticism - which is self-criticism - make the power of your purpose strong enough to come out of this trap
- 74. Create abundance of faith - by start believing in - our abilities to reach the path we set for ourselvesand to visualize ourselves as the person we aspire to be, see ourselves taking action towards achieving our desired goals
- 75. Be grateful for all that you have
- 76. Focus on the good - Stay positive
- 77. Understand that every big Success starts with a trickle.
- 78. When people tell you that you can't do it - make it motivate you to make even bigger efforts
- 79. Face your fears - by taking action in those areas that makes you scared YET are vital to your success
- 80. Never ever compare yourself with others
- 81. Success is a number-game meaning - whoever tries more accomplishes more - so if you fail more - while trying newer ways to solve, experimenting in the area of unknown and uncertain
- 82. Get inspired by the stories of great people - Write down your dreams - Make a battle plan - the go and execute and implement
- 83. Anticipate challenges and create solutions for the worst case scenarios
- 84. Never try to do your job like a job - then you will always remain the average
- 85. Focus on excellence and quality only
- 86. Ask Questions and Actively Seek Feedback and suggestions from others for improvement - but learn the art of discerning - between great and useless to harmful advice and feedback
- 87. Become a great observer with the single to focus to learn from everything and everyone
- 88. Be curious - ask questions to clarify
- 89. Ask questions of experts
- 90. Appreciate those insights which never occurred to you BUT can be a valuable help
- 91. Share your insights that you hadn't thought of that you could help you towards the accomplishment of your big dream.
- 92. Learn about and from - other successful people's mistakes, failures, experiences and success.
- 93. Use the Power of compounding - by taking Incremental actions - consistently
- 94. Create the Characteristics of Big Dreamers and great achievers
- 95. Learn About How successful and great people became what they are and how did they arrived at this success level
- 96. Practice Big Picture Thinking - The ability to see both the whole and the parts at all times and how they are interrelated and interconnected is critical
- 97. Strategic tipping Point is a turning point after which a dramatic change, with either positive or negative results happens
- 98. Strategic tipping the scale Point could be that point in your life where you come across a square and you have multiple options and whatever decision you make has major consequences.
- 99. Allow Flexibility and pivot asap to figure out another route or course-correct - as none of the big projects go as planned
- 100.Be in the company of Big Dreamers - to create mutual-mentors, inspirations, encouragement and cheering partners
- 101.Make all Criticisms and Rejections - becomes the catalyst and instill high motivational-energy and enthusiasm to put in even more efforts to Succeed
- 102.Have a Mind-set of - that as long as I keep working - whatever I am working for will happen eventually
- 103.Stop Waiting for the Perfect Time to start acting - do it now
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