Creating Triumph from Your Adversity


Show me a person who has not faced any adversity in life & I will Show you The God.

Even the God when they were in Human Forms –too had to undergo various hardships – check any religion.

Take any person who is phenomenally successful – and you will find a person who has failed[but has bounced back each time] – many times more than the average – Like Michael Jordan/Winfrey Oprah.

Take any relationship – which is very strong & you will find they too had to weather many storms => But they did their 100%, had faith in each other, did not give up on the other, kept doing the right things of relationship etc etc.

Then there are people whose life is – life long of sufferings BUT they are The Light for Human being – like say Dr. Stephan Hawkins, Maybe Helen Keller, Lance Armstrong.

Then there are businesses which were created by people – who,when they faced a dire situation managed to create an empire Like KFC.

The fact is each time there is a major crisis in our life – it is a signal from the nature/our creator that change/transform/shift to newer paradigm of Mindset/Attitude/Beliefs/Dreams/pursuits.

We had a poultry farm – which actually failed miserably, because we did not do the basics right. But I learned something which actually signifies why such a large number of population is not achieving what they can & maybe desire. We used to get few hours old chicks transported for 12-15 hours without food & water.

When they arrived, we put them under bright light with food & water. These chicks run continuously, eat & drink. But sometimes one of the chick will slip & fall – you would see other chick would run over this chick But this one will lie without struggling & give up completely& ultimately die.

You will find that whenever you have not got the result that you wanted – this chick phenomenon would be at work – be it academic, be it business, be it relationships, be it health, be it happiness, be it finances, be it anything.

Like Michael Jordan says "I can take failings in my stride BUT can not take not trying again & again –after I have failed"

The Good news is that – every time you are struggling with the situation/ circumstances/failures/inner turmoils – this is the time to redecorate, revamp, redo, rethink your beliefs, thoughts & actions => As this could be the biggest opportunity knocking at your door – the bigger the adversity – the greater the opportunity.

The Bad News – If you don't change – then you may get bulldozed out of even existence & the world would pass you by.

Here is What & How to do

1.Understand the situation by looking at it in purely an objective way – to get a fair idea of why this is troubling you, is this totally beyond you or you have some role to play for this situation in life
2.Ask yourself – what qualities/competence/emotions you need to handle/overcome this sate of affair effectively
3.Identify what action you need to take for acquiring these qualities
4.Find out whom can you enroll in your support group to help you in your & connect with these people & seek their support & help.
5.Many of us feel the frog in the well syndrome & can not see the light out of tunnel & we become slave to our own dogma of hopelessness/ there is no way out syndrome.
6.Please understand the bigger the challenge you are facing – the larger change you have to create within you & the longer time it is going to take. You have to faith in yourself.
7.Even though you should be doing it already – but if not – on the face of any great situation – you need to find the Best Practices of the people who faced similar or bigger hardship than yourself & how they managed to succeed in spite of that. You have to cultivate the habits of Reading & Listening to these People.
8.The trick is involving yourself into the action implementation, reviewing, improvisation of Action & continuously upgrading yourself – in a cyclic mode – this step will take care of your anxieties
9.Take accountability for all your actions & results. Failures do not make you failure but only shows that your method is wrong so change it & move on – let go of the failures by taking futuristic actions
10.You have to be completely honest & truthful to yourself for taking ownership & you have to have very strong set of positive core values
11.You have to create these strong beliefs through affirmations, your results & by learning from the world that
A. All The Problems are Opportunities
B.You can temporary avoid the problems but by avoiding they would create even more dangerous situation for you. Like if you do not complete the TB medicines then it make come back in a life threatening for
C.There is no short to success/happiness/peace/relationships. They are the consequence of your taking the correct path/steps & actions all the time 100%.
D.All Problems are your – so all the action has to be taken by yourself – you can not blame. Of course you can blame but it will never give you any result
E.All new results desired by you need all new you. You can not outsource the qualities needed by you to any body else.
F.You are going to survive & thrive because of this crisis in your life – just keep focusing on how can you turn this problem into advantage & what actions you need to take

12. Remember the Turtle – who only moves when he sticks his neck out. Meaning that you have to get out/break your comfort zone. You also have to take risk – risk of failure/risk of rejection/risk of ridicule => But if you take actions – then it will only make your life Grand in every respect.

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