Show me a person who has not faced any adversity in life & I will Show you The God.
Even the God when they were in Human Forms –too had to undergo various hardships – check any religion.
Take any person who is phenomenally successful – and you will find a person who has failed[but has bounced back each time] – many times more than the average – Like Michael Jordan/Winfrey Oprah.
Take any relationship – which is very strong & you will find they too had to weather many storms => But they did their 100%, had faith in each other, did not give up on the other, kept doing the right things of relationship etc etc.
Then there are people whose life is – life long of sufferings BUT they are The Light for Human being – like say Dr. Stephan Hawkins, Maybe Helen Keller, Lance Armstrong.
Then there are businesses which were created by people – who,when they faced a dire situation managed to create an empire Like KFC.
The fact is each time there is a major crisis in our life – it is a signal from the nature/our creator that change/transform/shift to newer paradigm of Mindset/Attitude/Beliefs/Dreams/pursuits.
We had a poultry farm – which actually failed miserably, because we did not do the basics right. But I learned something which actually signifies why such a large number of population is not achieving what they can & maybe desire. We used to get few hours old chicks transported for 12-15 hours without food & water.
When they arrived, we put them under bright light with food & water. These chicks run continuously, eat & drink. But sometimes one of the chick will slip & fall – you would see other chick would run over this chick But this one will lie without struggling & give up completely& ultimately die.
You will find that whenever you have not got the result that you wanted – this chick phenomenon would be at work – be it academic, be it business, be it relationships, be it health, be it happiness, be it finances, be it anything.
Like Michael Jordan says "I can take failings in my stride BUT can not take not trying again & again –after I have failed"
The Good news is that – every time you are struggling with the situation/ circumstances/failures/inner turmoils – this is the time to redecorate, revamp, redo, rethink your beliefs, thoughts & actions => As this could be the biggest opportunity knocking at your door – the bigger the adversity – the greater the opportunity.
The Bad News – If you don't change – then you may get bulldozed out of even existence & the world would pass you by.
Here is What & How to do1.Understand the situation by looking at it in purely an objective way – to get a fair idea of why this is troubling you, is this totally beyond you or you have some role to play for this situation in life
12. Remember the Turtle – who only moves when he sticks his neck out. Meaning that you have to get out/break your comfort zone. You also have to take risk – risk of failure/risk of rejection/risk of ridicule => But if you take actions – then it will only make your life Grand in every respect.