Creating Habits Of Mind To Develop Champion Mind-Set+ Winners Attitude & Great Leaders Quality
All Of Us React, Act & Responds In Different Ways – What We Do, How We Think Can - Be Totally Different In Different Situations & With Different People.
Some-Times We Act As Per Our Habit Patterns.
Sometimes It Is Because Of Our Attitude. Sometimes We Just React In An Unexplained Manner Totally Surprising To Ourselves.
All Our Visible Actions, Reaction & Responses Either Give Us Positive Outcomes Or Negative Results – Be It In Relationship, Our Career, Our Success, Our Happiness, Our State Of Mind Whether Positive Or Stressed.
If We Can Understand How Our Mind Works & Its Habits – And Then Practice It To Train It To Work For Our Advantage – At Least More Often – Then We Definitely Will Have A Much More Fulfilling Life.
Our Mind Performs –Following Functions – Almost Automatically & Totally Sub-Consciously On An Auto-Pilot Mode:-
- In An Unknown Scenario => Scanning The Atmosphere & Analyzes Whether It Is Harmful Or Beneficial & Then Choose Our Course Of Action => It Does Everything Through Asking /Sending Signals To Tap Sub-Consciously Buried Experiences & Knowledge + Visualizing
- Creates Curiosity, Wonder & Awe When It Judges Something To Be Beneficial
- Looks For The Best Solution – When-Ever We Face A Problem
- Generalize An Experience To Fit The Entire Category - It To Give Us A Future Thought-Path
- Warns Us Of Dangers, Threats
- Constructs & Distorts What We See, Experience, Feel, Hear Or Observe Consciously – As Per Our Perceptions
- Tells Us What Feeling To Have => Pleasant, Painful, Happy, Sad, Interesting
- Tells Us Whether Anything Is Possible, Impossible, Difficult
- Thinks Critically To Identify & Explore Options, Choices & Alternatives – By Using The Inherent Creativity
- Makes Us Laugh & Creates Wittiness
- Creates Discipline To Make Us Follow Methodically & To Persists In Our Efforts
- Makes Us Take Risk – By Weighing Pros & Cons – Makes Us Experiment & Explore
- Decides Our Values
- Makes Us Seek & Cooperate With People
- Does Introspection/Reflection
- Makes Immune System Respond – Both Physical, Emotional & Mental
- Stores, Files, Sorts => Whatever Experience/Information Our 6 Senses Takes In/Are Exposed To – & Supplies Information On Demand
- Deletes & Erases Whatever It Perceives As Very Painful Or Useless Information
- Makes Us Communicate – Listen/Hear, One Way/Two Way Conversing, Makes Us Respond Or React To People/Situations => Verbally, Through Body Language, Expressions – In Both External & Internal Way
How We Can Use These Functions Of Mind To Inculcate Qualities Of Great People =>
- Learning The Art Of Asking Penetrating Questions From Others – Especially If They Are Powerful & You Have Learn Or Clarify
Practicing The Art Of Asking Questions Internally.
A.What I Am Missing/Have I Overlooked Anything Significant
B. Did I Understand Correctly Or I Have Got Distorted View.
C.What Is The Real Situation/Issue/Problem.
D.What Are All The Available Options/Possibilities/Alternatives
E.Is My Ego Coming In The Way Of My Seeing From Other's PerspectiveF.Am I Able To View This Situation From All Possible Angle
G.Can There Be A Better Option
H.Why Can't I Do It
I.What Is The Advantage/Learning – In My This Mistake/Failure
J.Is The Action Chosen By Me Is Helpful In Short Term Or Long Term
K.How Can I Learn From This
L.What Are My Resources - What Resources Do I Have Available Or Need To Generate
M.How Can I Draw On My Past Successes With Problems Like This - What Do I Already Know About The Problem
N.How Can I Approach This Problem Flexibly - How Can I Look At This Problem From A Fresh Perspective
O.Do I Need To Check Out My Data Sources
P.How Might I Break This Problem Down Into Its Component Parts
Q.What Do I Not Know
R. What Questions Do I Need To Ask
S.What Strategies Are In My Mind Now
T.Am I Aware Of In Terms Of My Own Beliefs, Values, And Goals With This Problem
U.What Feelings Or Emotions Am I Aware Of That Might Be Blocking Or Enhancing My Progress
V.How Does This Problem Affect Others
W. How Can We Solve It Together
X.What Can I Learn From Others That Would Help Me Become A Better Problem Solver
3. Practicing The Art Of Taking Calculated Risks – By Continuously Stretching Your Capabilities
A.Of Say No
B.Asking For Favors
C.Challenging The Experts
D.To Accept Your Mistakes Publicly
E.Identifying ,Understanding & AcceptingWhat Are Your Areas Of Development/Weakness & Working On It
F.Identifying The Future Skills & Learning Them In ADisciplined Way