In this article you will learn the following
-60+ tips on how to be the greatest version of yourself
-7 Advantages of knowing the negative side of yourself - your awareness about your true-self will make you conscious about the following and hence will help you grow
How to be the greatest version of yourself - Becoming superhuman and a superhero.
Becoming the greatest version of yourself means- living your life - being genuinely-authentically-most naturally - yourself.
This sounds so-easy - but to identify and know your real-self - can be one of the most bravest, courageous and difficult things to do.
Simply because - that means being brutally honest with yourself - to see in the eyes - all those false self-beliefs and perceptions and self-image you have imbibed in your psyche.
You also need to know and accept and be comfortable with all these - your flaws-weaknesses-lacunas-your insecurities-your fears.
7 Advantages of knowing the negative side of yourself - your awareness about your true-self will make you conscious about the following and hence will help you grow
- 1.When you are following someone else's goals
- 2.When you are trying to be someone else
- 3.When you are trying to run-way or avoid some people or situations
- 4.When you are trying to project - what is not true for you
- 5.When you try to seek approval-validation-recognition-appreciation from others
- 6.When your fears and insecurities and your anxieties - which make you withdraw into your shell
- 7.When you try to escape facing the facts-reality-truth - of whatever it is
To be the greatest version of yourself - you must uncover your core - your values, your interests your passions, your dreams and your true calling - your very you-ness that makes you the only person of its type in the entire universe.
This journey of discovering yourself is very-very scary - because it uncovers our inadequacies.
Although the truth is that each of us is fully complete just the way we are - but you can only realize this basic-truth - only when you have gotten in touch with yourself and accepted and love yourself unconditionally.
When you are progressing towards becoming your greatest version - you will find yourself doing what you love- and you will experience an existence of bliss and becoming an overall happier person.
You will find it difficult to believe - but the most powerful obstacle in knowing and understanding yourself - is you - yourself.
Yes- we can be our own worst enemy - in many situations - especially If you are happy with living an average mediocre life - then don't even think of having superlatives in your life.
When you become the bestest, the greatest and the most authentic version of yourself - you also start to have and enjoy - meaningful relationships and success.
60+ tips on how to be the greatest version of yourself - given randomly - all the single word or line suggestions have separate do-it-yourself articles in both of our websites
- 1.Become a great problem solver - when we think of problem solvers,- we may imagine an expert who knows everything but the fact is-most good problem solving happens through trial and error and through the actions taken in the realm of uncertain, unknown, unprecedented and formula-less
- 2.Be comfortable with changes, disruptions, ambiguity and uncertainties
- 3.Even if you accomplish big and become an expert — stay humble, polite and respectful and keen observer and learner
- 4.Take an eagle's-eye 360degrees view of all the situations and problems
- 5.Crowdsource to get the benefit of multiple brains and perceptions and points of view and expertize
- 6.Understand and accept that - no matter how good, talented or exceptional or indispensable [you think] you are - you can always be replaced
- 7.Focus on taking action and then improving your process
- 8.If you want to be happy but you believe that it only takes money to make you happy - your search for happiness will never end - as beyond a level of comfort-needs [especially if it is to be in assets that you would never need] - money is only a number and the number never ends.
- 9.Look at your fears, anxieties, inhibitions, shame, guilt, embarrassments, regrets, failures and mistakes - to identify what you can learn and do differently to become the greatest version of yourself
- 10. Be so busy living your dream that you don't have time for negativities
- 11. Just take action - just do it - whatever your heart is telling you to do - even if you have never done something - start - take that first step - whatever it may be - you may not succeed or see the entire path after 1st step - but you will have one step less to take
- 12. Don't be scared to start from the beginning - if end up failing big
- 13. Don't talk - act
- 14. Don't talk - show
- 15. Don't promise - prove
- 16. Understand and recognize your worth - never undersell yourself
- 17. Stop giving your time, support, help, effort, suggestions etc. - to those who underestimate or can't recognize or find value or appreciate sincerely
- 18. Take massive actions consisting of many-many small steps towards your goal
- 19. Stop wasting your time, energy, efforts, opportunities and money - trying to live up to what somebody else wants you to be.
- 20. Understand that there is no magic about becoming the greatest vision of yourself - there are no short-cut or magic-wands
- 21. Build relationships, network with powerful people, develop meaningful connections
- 22. Learn when you know - you don't know but must
- 23. Crowd source through writing on Medium, Quora, Youtube
- 24. Accept help from other people - don't make your EGO make you suffer when you can enjoy success
- 25. Appreciate your efforts and how far you have come - celebrate the small wins
- 26. Accept what you don't now - not knowing is not shameful - but knowing that you don't know what is essential and not learning is criminal
- 27. Making mistakes and failure - will happen every time you stretch yourself to go for goals larger than your capabilities - it is perfectly alright
- 28. Exercise, meditate, spend time with yourself
- 29. Create a pet project - do something productive outside of work that makes you happy helps you become a better version of yourself
- 30. Get the toxicity and toxic people out of your life - now
- 31. Understand the power of habits - develop empowering and inspiring habits of mind and rituals
- 32. Every day - do the analysis - prioritize and identify your most high-pay-off activities for the day
- 33. Take actions on those - which will create the largest impact on your goals
- 34. Learn one new thing a day
- 35. Try, experiment and fail - Take a chance - become a risk-taker
- 36. Amplify your strengths - use them in crucial moments - when you need massive push
- 37. Stop doing these
- I.Stop taking failure as something to avoid - but take it as part of your growth, success and happiness
- II.Stop being a people pleaser - know that your own needs comes first
- III.Stop judging others
- IV.Stop comparing yourself with others
- 38. Understand the lie that we have been sold - that for great success you only need to work hard - hard work doesn't always pay off - in fact you would need each of these in different proportion - strong purpose, courage to take action, restarting from scratch, persistence, lots of luck plus hard work
- 39. If you are achieving whatever goals you have set - 100% - only means they are too easy
- 40. Focus on creating excellence - avoid getting trapped in the perfectionistic-mode
- 41. Choose to competition to make your inspirations - very powerfully supportive
- 42. Ensure that whatever you do - you create a benchmark that you are proud of
- 43. Learn to ask better questions - tough questions
- 44. Create habit of not giving-up till you find solution to whatever is your challenge
- 45. Take responsibility for your life - of the decisions, of the actions and of the consequences
- 46. Create opportunities to learn
- 47. Make self-care your priority and create balance and pay attention to your mental-emotional-physical-financial-relationship health
- 48. Don't overcommit - instead commit less deliver more
- 49. Never compromise with quality, discipline and safety
- 50. Help others becoming best version:
- 51. Sharpen life skills
- 52. Develop love for challenges
- 53. Create an environment to help you thrive
- 54. Accept help from other people
- 55. Lead from within - work on yourself
- 56. Remember to take the time relax, to have fun and to enjoy
- 57. Create memories - find joy in the little moments
- 58. Schedule your sleeping and wake up time:
- 59. Get feedbacks - make small changes in your behaviors
- 60. Learn to handle rejections
- 61. Learn to take criticism
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