<p><span>In this article you will learn the following</span><br></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">-20 Reasons people are indecisive and fickle-minded</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">-15 signs of fickle-minded friends</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">-30 ways How to ensure that you are socially fulfilled - when your stress is coming from your few toxic friends and relatives</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">-7 ways How to deal with fickle-minded person or friend</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">-7 Simple ways people who really love and care show that they love you and care for you</b></p><p>Dealing with Fickle minded person </p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Most of us struggle with clarity and motivation time to time - which triggers a short temporary phase of confusion and indecisiveness.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">But if you regularly experience the phenomenon - that you don't have any clue as to what you want to do and be your life and face difficulty in taking decisions in your everyday life</b> - then must seek help to brake this life-destroying phenomenon.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Then if you are surrounded by who won't or can't decide [what they should and can]</b> and you end up taking decisions on their behalf and helping them - <b data-redactor-tag="b">you would have a very stressful life and low productive and fulfilling life.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Why are some people fickle-minded and indecisive</b> - there could be numerous reasons.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Learning to how identify and deal with fickle-minded people - can be a major stress-reducer for you </b>- how to handle your own fickle-mindedness or incisiveness I have discussed in detailed do-it-yourself blog in this website.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Also you might have a category of friend - who helps you in time of your need but is not really happy</b> with your happiness or success or a really well-meaning friend <b data-redactor-tag="b">but who competes with you all the time or the one who helps you through your stressful breakup and ends-up</b> with your Ex [this may sound funny but can be very depressive].</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">These type of friend can impact your mental, emotional and physical well-being and may cause high depression</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">And the worst would be those cases - where among your close relatives - there are people who pretend to be your friend and well-wishers</b> but back-stab and gossip behind your back.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">You need to identify and get rid of these people ASAP - or learn how to avoid and deal with them effectively</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Please understand that having a-few good friends and less number of real well-wishing relatives</b> - <b data-redactor-tag="b">is any day better than </b>having lots of friends and relatives who adds to your stress and tension.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">How does one identify people who might be adding to your miseries - You need to look for certain patterns - because only patterns can tell you</b> - if the fickle-mindedness is temporary phenomenon or a deeper one - <b data-redactor-tag="b">Do they flip-flop - over many things in their life or they struggle in one specific area</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">20 Reasons people are indecisive and fickle-minded</b></p> <ul><li>1.They are genuinely confused</li> <li>2.Not clear about the priorities</li> <li>3.They do not know what they want</li> <li>4.They might be using this as a technique to manipulate or take advantage of you</li> <li>5.This could also be because of certain disorders - like auto-immune disease</li> <li>6.This could also be due to few medications</li> <li>7.This could also be because of the after-affects of any trauma, major setbacks, loss, death etc.</li> <li>8.This could also be because how they have been conditioned habitually</li> <li>9.They also might have extreme insecurities</li> <li>10.They might lack confidence to take decision</li> <li>11.They might not want to take responsibility of certain decision and face the consequences of their actions</li> <li>12.They might have an identity issue and lack self-awareness have low self-esteem</li> <li>13.They might even be perfectionist and want to be seen as knowing everything - they may not want to make the wrong decision</li> <li>14.They may have the tendencies of catastrophizing and imagining the worst-case scenario of their actions - which may trigger their social-withdrawal and make them procrastinate</li> <li>15.The people who would not commit anything - might do because of chronic anxiety</li> <li>16.Fear of failure might also make them avoid committing to a project, event or activity</li> <li>17.They may always feel - that most people are happier, successful, healthier etc. - with unhealthy dose of FOMO</li> <li>18.They might have too much choices - these choices make them utterly confused</li> <li>19.They might have faced Abandonment issues in their life earlier </li> <li>20.They may even convince them into believing that their perfect life-companion or soul-mate I somewhere out there - as a result they might keep rejecting otherwise great matches -as a result they will probably end up miserable and alone because of their rigid and unrealistic standards and expectations</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">15 signs of fickle-minded friends</b></p> <ul><li>1.Indecisiveness -Having to make a decision tortures and horrifies fickle people</li> <li>2.Need endless opinions - experts, super-experts and so on - but their confusion keeps getting bigger</li> <li>3.Avoid committing to anything - for which might be held accountable</li> <li>4.They have fixed criteria to Gauge others </li> <li>5.Have difficult in choosing what to wear, what to eat</li> <li>6.They are not reliable and dependable</li> <li>7.Some of them might display Perfectionism </li> <li>8.Most of them would display Lack of confidence in themselves </li> <li>9.They are Incapable of forming a true and lasting bond with others - as their own relationship themselves is not developed</li> <li>10.They give Selective attention and they have Selective memory</li> <li>11.They may make you feel unloved </li> <li>12.They are Emotionally unstable</li> <li>13.They indulge in all tools of People-pleasing - when they want to come back into your life</li> <li>14.They might have Difficulty setting healthy boundaries</li> <li>15.They might also display difficulty in respecting your healthy boundaries</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">30 ways How to ensure that you are socially fulfilled - when your stress is coming from your few toxic friends and relatives</b></p> <ul><li>1.Increase your social interactions - but ensure that the people you associate -brings out the best in you</li> <li>2.Learn to have adequate sleep and relax</li> <li>3.Read books and write blogs</li> <li>4.Learn to handle various situations with a positive approach</li> <li>5.Learn to control Hyperactive Mind - through Life style changes by identifying unhealthy practices and changing into healthy ones</li> <li>6.Create a balance between junk, healthy and nutritious food</li> <li>7.Challenge your expectations, Desires and goals - create a realistic order</li> <li>8.Fantasize but learn to become aware when you are going overboard</li> <li>9.Learn practical Methods to calm your mind</li> <li>10.Do Physical work and go for Exercise and Physical workouts like jogging, walking, swimming and do Yoga</li> <li>11.Practice breathing exercises like pranayamas as well as right type of Meditation</li> <li>12.If possible create a balance between outdoor-desk-indoor work - which includes you moving time to time</li> <li>13.Take care that you guard against Pollution affecting your health negatively</li> <li>14.Focusing on the positives can help</li> <li>15.Understand and accept and then learn to listen to the Negative things other people say - because these don't matter at all</li> <li>16.Learn to identify things doing that makes you feel good</li> <li>17.Stop Comparing yourself to others </li> <li>18.Surround yourself with people who love you and uplift you</li> <li>19.Keep journal where you make List of the things that YOU love about yourself every day</li> <li>20.Give without expecting anything in return</li> <li>21.Learn to Show appreciation</li> <li>22.Get rid of planning revenge - never aim to hurt others - it harms you very badly</li> <li>23.Do not beg, demand, or coerce to be loved – ask</li> <li>24.Stop looking for love in the wrong places or from the wrong people</li> <li>25.Identify those who love you unconditionally - learn to appreciate those who love you</li> <li>26.Be among people who are spreading love and positivity</li> <li>27.Set and enforce healthy emotional and physical boundaries and enforce them</li> <li>28.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Learn how you can use Cognitive behavioral therapy YOURSELF</b> - to detect and respond to unpleasant thoughts in a positive way instead of automatically reacting to negative thoughts and to rewire your thinking and belief system</li> <li>29.Go for Dynamic interpersonal therapy and Acceptance and commitment therapy</li> <li>30.Work towards building high self esteem</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">7 ways How to deal with fickle-minded person or friend</b></p> <ul><li>1.Be careful of what you say - Fickle friends might make you feel like you are their BFF-bestie and You may share few information that you don' want anyone to know and if it is known it can be used against you</li> <li>2.Never depend on them - nor base your decisions on what they have said and promised</li> <li>3.If these friends leave you suddenly - Don't take it personally - it not about you it is about them only</li> <li>4.Stop reaching out to them - when you need someone - instead create people whom you can depend on</li> <li>5.Don't encourage them - when they try to come back into your life</li> <li>6.And if they are becoming pain - just ignore them</li> <li>7.Get them out of your life - because they are preventing you from making and achieving your plans and goals and drain you physically, emotionally, mentally and even financially to impact your wellbeing and other relationships in your life - negatively</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">7 Simple ways people who really love and care show that they love you and care for you</b></p> <ul><li>1.When they do the little things for you without being asked</li> <li>2.When they give you more of their time, attention and focus</li> <li>3.When they show that they care by listening without judging</li> <li>4.When they go out of their was to help you</li> <li>5.They are available when you need them the most</li> <li>6.Who time and again express that they consider you important</li> <li>7.They Touch you emotionally in such a way to make you feel good about yourself</li></ul><div><br></div><p><a href="#dealingwithficlemindedfriends, #whypeopleareindecisive, #signsofficklemindedpeople, #howtoidentifyindecisivepeople #identifyingtoxicfriends, #howtoknowgenuineloveandcare, #ensuringsocialfulfillment, #minimizingtheimpactoftoxicfriendsandrelatives" title="" class="">#dealingwithficlemindedfriends, #whypeopleareindecisive, #signsofficklemindedpeople, #howtoidentifyindecisivepeople #identifyingtoxicfriends, #howtoknowgenuineloveandcare, #ensuringsocialfulfillment, #minimizingtheimpactoftoxicfriendsandrelatives</a></p>