130+ Signs of Loser Mindset & 70 Proven Tips to Beat Failure Mentality & Be a Winner

Psychological And Behavioral Aspects of Success and Failure AND Winners and Losers - It Is All About Mindset

In this article you will learn the following –

-Who are the winners and who are the Losers

-Why even capable and intelligent people can have loser mindsets and failure mentality

-130 + Signs & Traits of People with Loser Mindset & Failure Mentality

-70 Tips on How to stop being a loser – getting rid of failure mindset

-16 Tips for Dealing Effectively - When You Feel Like a Loser in Life and Are Making a Mess of Your Life

When you think about a loser in life – you also get a comparative image of the profile of a winner or champion.

What differentiates winners from losers – it is certainly not about what they have achieved - BUT – the differentiation happens because of – the mindset, the attitude, and the dominant emotional-mental-physical disposition.

Winners are enthusiastic - have long-term big goals – and are action-oriented people - who are focused on finding solutions and improving every aspect of life.

Winners like everyone else – face numerous challenges, crises, disruptions, setbacks, failures, and mistakes - but their self-belief is of such an empowering nature that – they almost immediately start looking at ways how to bounce back from whatever is holding them back.

Winners never actively try to make other people losers.

In fact- almost all the champions and winners' mindset people - help others win and grow to their potential and feel happy at other's success and accomplishments.

Winners expect to do well and if they do not do well - they take steps to get the necessary help to succeed next time.

The psychology a LOSER

A LOSER may not necessarily be a low intelligence or low ability person – they can have all the qualities BUT have a disempowering thought pattern and as a result manage to lose their advantage unnecessarily.

Losers develop a negative self-image and an inferiority complex and have negative expectations from self and from others and from their future.

Losers usually refuse to change their viewpoints even when presented with hard evidence showing that they are wrong.

Most of the losers have a mindset of - I am right and as a result never learn from their mistakes.

Losers blame other people and the external factors plus their LUCK – for their failures.

This stops losers from taking personal responsibility and being accountable - for their mistakes and failures.

Losers also lack self-control, self-discipline, resilience and perseverance.

Losers tend to boast and brag a lot– only to impress other people – without any solid basis.

Losers may develop a mindset of winning at any cost using any means - as they feel winning makes them good in the eyes of others.

Sore losers are never happy for their loses AND other's wins – and when they lose, they start planning ways to make the winners lose.

Losers develop a negative mindset characterized by self-sabotaging behaviors.

The loser mindset gets triggered due to -Deep rooted emotional insecurity and when they Experience massive failures, setbacks, or life altering and life-threatening event to hit rock bottom.

Here the differences between losers and winners become more profound – as the loser may give up mentally and emotionally and choose to do nothing.

The setbacks and disrupting and emotionally significant events happen to almost all of us – but losers – lose their will to fight back to bounce by allowing their circumstances to define their future.

Losers may not see and recognize the positives in their life and lack empathy to have gratitude and appreciation.

130 + Signs & Traits of People with Loser Mindset & Failure Mentality

1. They might look tired, deflated, sick, overweight
2. They laugh at people who are less fortunate
3. They don't want anyone to succeed
4. If they get chance to sabotage anyone's success – they will – even though other's success might not have anything to do with their success or happiness
5. They might also be limited by their Fear of success
6. They might be getting pulled by the Toxic & negative people in their life
7. They have Negative self-talk majority of time
8. They may become a People pleaser
9. They might have Given up on their life
10. They might have a Callous approach about physical, mental and emotional health
11. They may Watch TV most of the time
12. They may Play games on mobile many hours almost every day
13. They may Post selfies on social-media frequently sometime multiple times a day
14. They may be Updating status on their profile on mobile, WhatsApp, email, social-media – regularly everyday
15. They may Forward useless messages to people
16. They may not have any long-term goals for their future
17. They may lack passion and hobbies
18. They Engage in unhealthy habits
19. They are Closed-minded
20. They resist change
21. You may find them Waiting for miracle and magic to happen in their life – without putting any efforts
22. They also go to Godmen-Godwomen-Baba's – expecting instant rid of their problems – and get cheated hence
23. They may Not take active interest in learning and self-development
24. They may Blame luck and others for their poor state of life
25. They have excuses for their lack of success
26. They are into religion and religious activities in big ways
27. They Day-Dream a lot about having all the riches and luxuries -WITHOUT putting any efforts
28. They do Not try to stretch beyond their comfort zones
29. They might get into get rich quick schemes – and get cheated
30. They May get into criminal activities or develop criminal intent
31. They may lose out to scammers & fraudsters – because of greed and because of wanting to have all the trappings of rich
32. They may Develop dependence on alcohol, smoking, drugs and narcotics
33. They might become dependent on others for their existence
34. They Gossip behind the back of others – even those who might be their friends
35. They Try to show-off to cover their lacunas
36. They Try to please those in power – even if they are wrong
37. They Try to get attention using any means available to them
38. In the arguments they try to prove that they are right
39. They Get into frequent arguments on minor issues
40. They easily Believe the fake news and fall for propaganda
41. They may Find it difficult to say no
42. They might Have great sense of entitlement without any merit
43. They feel happy by belittling, demeaning and insulting others
44. They Do not accept their mistakes
45. They Avoid taking risk
46. They avoid doing anything which may lead to making mistakes and failures
47. They don't have any inspiring and motivating dream
48. They Live a purposeless life flowing with the time passively
49. They Can be brainwashed easily
50. They Lack self-identity and self-worth
51. They Play victim and have many sob-stories
52. They find it very difficult to identify their - incidents of pride, success and accomplishments
53. They are Very rigid don't want to learn or change
54. They May have many negative habits
55. Their Thinking pattern would be dominantly negative
56. They always feel jealous and envious of other's success of those who have got it after struggle
57. They are generally messy and disorganized
58. They may lack proper hygiene sense
59. They Can be selfish and calculating
60. They have an anger problem - Losers don't have enough self-control to stay calm when they're upset
61. They take their frustrations, irritations, guilt, shame, embarrassment and anger out on others by lashing out at others - When they are upset
62. They put you down over minor disagreements
63. They turn unimportant issues into major fights
64. They throw temper tantrums when they don't get their way -or when they don't get what they want
65. They are lazy and may procrastinate about important issues
66. Very rarely you may find them taking initiatives
67. They may not prepare adequately before an important event – like a job interview or exam etc.
68. They may try to find how to get the exam paper in advance – Indians will be able to identify this loser trait
69. A loser won't prepare ahead of time, and they'll put off important work until the very last minute
70. They are over possessive and suspicious
71. They may feel inferior if their partner is doing much better than them
72. They may be difficult to get rid of – in case they are depending on you for any of their needs – financial or social
73. They may not give you space by leaving you alone
74. They may have acquaintances – who replicate their behaviors
75. They are almost always free – they almost always text you back
76. They may say I Love You even on say 1st date or very prematurely
77. They are likely to be financially irresponsible
78. They may borrow money and get into debt-trap
79. If they have borrowed money – you may find it difficult to get t back
80.They give in to their impulses as they have very poor impulse control
81.They may make silly purchases without really thinking about it
82. They are rude to people who they think are of lower level – say their help staff
83. They care about themselves
84. They may lack empathy, tact, and respect
85. They could be mean and manipulative
86.They have no plan - Losers usually don't have enough ambition to look forward in their life
87.If you ask them about their plans – they might give you crap abut a grandiose scheme and plans – But if you want to know in detail, they may ignore you or give you a roundabout answer
88. They don't honor their promise – they cancel appointment at last moment sometimes they won't even inform you or apologize later
89. They may make you wait – just to feel important
90. They might be poor time manager
91. You need to Pay attention to the reason why they cancelled – usually it will be some vague or something insignificant
92. They may forget important dates
93. They will find it difficult to own their mistakes and apologize
94. When you are with them – you may find that - it's always someone else's fault
95. They may give you ridiculous explanations of how other people have made their life a mess
96. They are emotionally weak and are emotionally unavailable
97. They struggle to be honest with themselves – they find it almost impossible to look in the mirror – to face facts
98. They might not be able to express complex feelings
99. If they talk about their Exes - They talk trash
100. They may keep bringing up the issues of their Ex -when you haven't even asked them
101. You may find – that They are not liked by your friends and family member [who probably can see their toxicity and negativity that you are not able to]
102. They might have missed many golden chances by sheer hesitation because of their low self-esteem and low self-confidence
103. They may lack courage to act – if an opportunity presents itself to them
104. They have a massive Fear of rejection – so they seldom try anything new
105. They often become a recluse because of Self-made restriction and their self-doubt
106. They might have lots of irrational anxieties and fears
107. They might become expert in finding ways to Escape from reality
108. They may Refuse to learn from their mistakes and from the mistakes of others
109.They might not be incapable of learning BUT lack willingness to learn and grow
110. They may have very poor curiosity
111. They feel comfortable in the company of other losers
112. They can have many What Ifs and Less of -Why Not or How can I overcome this or achieve that
113. In case their prediction comes true – they may have a favorite phrase I Told You So - When Things Go Awry
114. They may whine and complain a lot – instead of finding solutions to what stops them
115. They may frequently use these words -cannot, impossible, impracticable, unworkable, unattainable, hopeless
116. They hold deep grudges with people
117. They develop negative Selective Hearing and Thinking -They pick on what they like to hear and think thus frequently blocking out others' viewpoints
118. Most of them are Poor Team Player
119. They are also Poor Decision Maker
120. They are All talk — no action.
121. They can Rationalizing their poor or Under-Performance
122. Their focus is on Problems - Not finding Solutions
123. You may find them totally self-absorbed and empathy-less
124. Because of lack of knowledge and self-awareness they become arrogant
125. They might choose to Be Gambling their life away -instead of investing in putting efforts to bounce back
126. They might have acquired this loser mindset because of experiencing a long phase of tough circumstances AND hit rock bottom
127. They might also become Narrow-minded
128. They may display the trait of Absence of integrity
129. Because they don't respect themselves - Disrespecting others comes naturally to them
130. They may chase material objects
131.Loser can also be the most unkind
132. As a result of all these they acquire a Chronic defeatism

70 Tips on How to stop being a loser – get rid of failure mindset

1. Read my 600+ blogs among the 900+ on my two websites for do-it-yourself tips ON ALL the Advice given below and also for developing empowering mindset of winner and champion AND to get rid of any disempowering mindset like a loser or failure mindset
2. YES, YOU MAY THINK THAT THIS IS TOO MUCH – Please understand that changing an innate disempowering and negative mindset & habits is complex with so many things to work on
3. But believe me almost all the tips you would be able to implement and apply concurrently
4. Start cardio, stretch, aerobic and stretch exercises – everyday
5. Practice multiple breathing exercises – everyday
6. Whenever you feel lost or upset of confused – start moving vigorously, jump, dance
7. All the above actions - will create a strong foundation for creating a discipline and self-control in your life – without having a disciplined mindset - nothing worthwhile can be accomplished by anyone
8. Read my blog on How to be a Disciplined person
9.Identify big picture – by telling yourself – If you acquire all the skills and habit – what would make you feel like a champion or a winner
10. Stop showing-off – let your results talk about you – read my blog on his
11. Identify people who can-not only teach you BUT also can inspire you when you are stuck – build strong relationship with these powerful people
12. Develop your network with people who are highly successful leaders in their domain and create bonds with them
13. Ensure that you never compromise on discipline, safety and quality in your work
14. Focus on delivering excellence in whatever you do
15. Experiment – try new things, non-conventional ways, out of box processes
16. Make mistakes - Accept your mistakes
17. Learn from you mistakes & failures and move on with your life
18. Take full responsibility for all your choices, decisions, and actions as well as their consequences
19.Understand that your problems only you must find ways to solve and take appropriate actions – till you get what you want
20. Be a proactive action taker – don't wait for things to happen
21. Stop playing victim
22. Eat healthy, get help to reduce and ultimately get rid of your substance abuse, smoking and drinking etc.
23. Learn Learn Learn – find what you need to learn to be the best – go and acquire skills, expertise, exposures, experiences and proficiencies as well as needed qualifications – there is no substitute for this MUST DO ELEMENT OF SUCCESS
24. Travel widely – learn a different language and learn about different cultures
25. Learn to identify and learn to Let go of your baggage of shame, guilt, regret and inferiority
26. Know and accept yourself fully – identifies all your faults, weakness, flaws, lacunae, negative habits and mind-blocks etc.
27. Identify your self-worth to create self-pride – by identifying your strengths, your positivity, your past wins and your overcoming serious handicaps
28. Rig the game in your favor -Become competent -Learn to play to your strengths
29. Stop comparing yourself with anyone – you are unique
30. Many times, when we are in a phase nothing works – accept your current bad phase – BUT – keep working on things that are within your control and keep learning
31. Learn how to manage your emotions, feelings, depression, anxieties, fears
32. Learn to manage your feelings of frustrations, inadequacies, anger
33. Audit your people in your inner circle – identify who boost you positively and who pulls you down
34. Learn ways to manage them – if ignoring, avoiding and getting rid of them is not possible
35. Choose to have strongly positive and enthusiastic people in your life and circle – both inner & external
36. Identify toxic people and learn to manage them OR get rid of them
37. Stop watching Indian News Channels
38. Stop believing WhatsApp and other social media fake-toxic news
39. Never try to impress using false means just to boost your EGO
40. Boot out the Troublemakers of your life
41. Dress in the outfit that gives you confidence – makes you feel good
42. Find ways to develop your will-power & self-control
43. Understand thoroughly any problem and challenge that you are facing – then find out all possible options that you have AND then take actions – do not spend too much time on thinking about the problems
44. Always work from your area on control & influence
45. Stop taking chance and gambling away your life - instead find ways you can be an asset for yourself and your loved ones
46. Stop dreaming of get rich-famous-powerful quick – there is no way this happens
47. Don't play the lottery or gamble
48. Learn how to manage your finances
49. Learn how you can save
50. Don't spend money to show-off
51. Spend on those things which adds positive and sustainable value to you
52. Don't expect that praying to GOD to change your luck will create miracle in life
53. Instead pray to give you the right intelligence and ideas – BUT – you must look for creative idea proactively
54. Instead of Chasing material objects/things/goals – create memorable moments and build your muscles in such a way that you will be in demand professional, socially and personally
55. 16 Tips for Dealing Effectively - When You Feel Like a Loser in Life and Are Making a Mess of Your Life
I. Take control of one aspect of your life - Pick one area to gain control in
II. Change happens when you decide to stop being a loser and take ownership of who you are and what you want to become.
III. Get educated, investing in what you know, diversifying your risk and learning from people who are smarter than you
IV. Understand that sustainable and worthwhile Success, fame and money are not achieved overnight
V. Light up the world instead with your own light which will shine brightly when you discover who you are and how you can serve others
VI. Make taking care of yourself a priority – in such a way that – you also accommodate the needs of all those who are depending on you
VII. Shift your focus on what you can do under the current circumstance – AND they take a small step in that direction
VIII. Identify and see a big picture at least far bigger picture – than your current one
IX. Think how you can help and contribute to the people in our lives, and our communities, research shows we feel happier
X. Find meaning in life Ask yourself - What do you really want
XI. Create Self-awareness - Learn to see the problems, mistakes, or issues in your own life
XII. Stop comparing yourself with others
XIII. Find healthy coping mechanisms
XIV. Exercise, diet, and sleep — healthy
XV. Take baby steps toward growth and self-improvement
XVI. Be prepared to fail – when you stretch yourself beyond your comfort zone

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