<p><span>In this article you will learn the following</span><br></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">27 questions to find your most genuine well-wishers - ask yourself do you have these type of people in your life </b></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">18 questions to identify people who pull you down - these type of people you will have plenty and won't have to look for - but you must learn to deal with them effectively</b></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">57 tips on how to bring out the best in yourself - both do's and don'ts - given randomly - all the one sentences tips have 900+ blogs in out both the websites - in simple do-it-yourself ways</b></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">27 tips on how to deal with people you find difficult, distasteful or downright obnoxious</b></p><p>-<b data-redactor-tag="b">45 tips on how to bring out the best in others </b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">If you want to be extraordinarily successful, happy and fulfilled - you need to master the art of bringing-out the best in others.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">This is basic psychology as well as common-sense - if you want to accomplish incredibly significant, powerful, meaningful and massive feats</b> - other people have to support and help you.</p><p>But to bring out the best in others - <b data-redactor-tag="b">you need to first become the bestest-version of yourself</b>.</p><p>Unless <b data-redactor-tag="b">you become an excellent parent [or son/daughter or sibling], a great professional, a wonderful human being</b> - who helps others grow - <b data-redactor-tag="b">you can't help anyone</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">27 questions to find the most supportive well-wishers people in your life - ask yourself do you have these type of people in your life </b></p> <ul><li>1.Who support of your dreams, ambitions and goals </li> <li>2.Who themselves have big dreams </li> <li>3.Who are working on themselves and their goals</li> <li>4.Who understand that in order to grow they need to help others grow </li> <li>5.Who are ambitious, energetic and enthusiastic </li> <li>6.Who [subconsciously] challenge you to perform at your highest levels</li> <li>7.Who inspire you and motivate you to do greater things for yourself</li> <li>8.Who are upbeat to theirs as well as your future</li> <li>9.Who are responsible and respectful</li> <li>10.Who are themselves disciplined in their habits</li> <li>11.Who tell you what you must do and help you do that</li> <li>12.Who are doers besides being dreamers</li> <li>13.Who are positive and constructive thinkers</li> <li>14.Who sees the qualities and possibilities in you</li> <li>15.Who make efforts to know you better</li> <li>16.Who shares things about themselves beyond superficial small talks</li> <li>17.Who give you their full attention when you are with them</li> <li>18.Who makes you feel good about yourself when you are with them</li> <li>19.With whom you have positive and invigorating conversation</li> <li>20.Who makes you feel calm - when around you</li> <li>21.Who makes you feel uninhibited </li> <li>22.Who makes you see the clarity </li> <li>23.Who makes you feel beautiful and sexier and empowered around him</li> <li>24.Who makes you see things in different perspectives</li> <li>25.Who makes you feel come alive</li> <li>26.Who challenges you to reinvent </li> <li>27.Who help you better yourself</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">18 questions to identify people who pull you down - these type of people you will have plenty and won't have to look for - but you must learn to deal with them effectively</b></p> <ul><li>1.Who are jealous and envious of you and your success and happiness [which you have got after lot of struggle]</li> <li>2.Who try to bring you and others down</li> <li>3.Who don't respect others</li> <li>4.Who show as if they are your well-wishers but actually feel threatened [although their success is no way related with yours]</li> <li>5.Who believe that in order to grow - they must step-on others to rise</li> <li>6.Who believe that others have to be miserly and must fail for them to feel good </li> <li>7.Who only criticize and talk about your weaknesses</li> <li>8.Who talk behind your back</li> <li>9.Who mock at your dreams</li> <li>10.Who ridicule and make fun of your weakness</li> <li>11.Who suck the energy, the enthusiasm and the hopes - when you are with them </li> <li>12.Who makes you feel stressed and frustrated</li> <li>13.Who makes you lose your self-identity </li> <li>14.Who makes your self-confident fade</li> <li>15.Who manages to create self-doubt within you </li> <li>16.Who makes you feel insecure, anxious and neurotic</li> <li>17.Who brings out the worst behavior in you</li> <li>18.Who makes you see the negativities and makes you a complaining champion </li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">57 tips on how to bring out the best in yourself - both do's and don'ts - given randomly - all the one sentences tips have 900+ blogs in out both the websites - in simple do-it-yourself ways</b></p> <ul><li>1.If realize that you are being pulled down by your guilt, your shame, the mistakes you made in your life, your failures and regrets - then become committed and make a conscious determined effort to change your future by changing the actions you take in your present</li> <li>2.Create your talent inventory - by asking people who are close to you to share what it is that they think you are good at doing - and what makes you unique and special</li> <li>3.Go back to your life - identify what makes you happy what you love doing</li> <li>4.Before you leave bed each morning - allocate 30 minutes dreaming and planning</li> <li>5.Start taking risks to do and become what you want to be</li> <li>6.Stop trying to prove that you are the smartest or most capable person </li> <li>7.Ways to connect with the right people - to have your relationships can bring out the best in you</li> <li>8.Identify, connect and surround yourself with people who will never let you settle for less than you can be</li> <li>9.Accept that your quality life - up-to great extent gets shaped by the type of people you have in your life</li> <li>10.Finding and connecting with people who can lift you up is downright impossible - if you don't actively recognize and cultivate them as mentor. </li> <li>11.And to find them - you have to work on growing yourself - you have to model, mirror and imbibe their admirable traits.</li> <li>12.Share your goals and make them partner</li> <li>13.Start with the process of self-reflection - ask for feedback </li> <li>14.Broaden your network - to expose you to new ideas, activities, and opportunities</li> <li>15.Hang out with people who are better, smarter, more intelligent, more qualified, more experienced, more successful - than you</li> <li>16.Acknowledge their compliments and admirations and appreciations with simple thank you </li> <li>17.Find and recognize their qualities and express your sincere admiration and appreciation</li> <li>18.If you misunderstand- don't presume - don't assume just ask to clarify</li> <li>19.Learn how they want to be treated and treat them like that</li> <li>20.Acknowledge their contributions - by simple gestures</li> <li>21.Create a safe space with support from people who care about us</li> <li>22.Be grateful -the act of being thankful can increase your confidence give you the motivation to move towards your goals</li> <li>23.Appreciate what you have - sometimes you may have it so regularly you forget that not everyone does it</li> <li>24.Stop taking life so seriously add humor</li> <li>25.Find reasons to laugh</li> <li>26.Raise your standards to change your life, your business and your relationship</li> <li>27.Join professional groups, forums and clubs</li> <li>28.Stop tolerating mediocrity in yourself and what you do</li> <li>29.Raise your standards - then keep raising the bar</li> <li>30.Accept others for who they are - people who have different religious beliefs, political views or skin color than you</li> <li>31.Be yourself - accept who you are - celebrate your being unique and different from others - carve out your own identity </li> <li>32.Be the person - who want to attract in your personal, professional, business, social and romantic life</li> <li>33.Stop paying attention to what other people say or think about you</li> <li>34.Do what you love - go for your dream</li> <li>35.Try different things</li> <li>36.Fail by attempting larger than life goal</li> <li>37.Create hobbies that makes you stretch beyond your safe-zones, your comfort-zones to the realm of fear and awe</li> <li>38.Pick yourself up and try again - after you have fail trying</li> <li>39.Stop underselling yourself - recognize your worth</li> <li>40.Be honest with yourself - if you are not happy, then admit it and make changes to improve your well-being. If your relationship is going downhill, man up and admit it so that you can change it. Trust yourself to tell the truth, not just to yourself, but to others. </li> <li>41.Face the truth and accept the fact</li> <li>42.Accept if you have made the mistake and apologize</li> <li>43.Be kind and generous - with yourself and with others</li> <li>44.Find happiness in every moment - enjoy the little things, the very simple things</li> <li>45.Identify and get rid of all toxic people</li> <li>46.Learn to deal with your negative feelings and emotions</li> <li>47.Find and practice - the right stress, anger, frustration, irritation handling techniques</li> <li>48.Learn learn learn - upgrade your skills, knowledge and competencies</li> <li>49.Learn the skills that will keep you in demand in future- make yourself future-proof</li> <li>50.Set your goals and stick to them</li> <li>51.World salutes the winners - so be one </li> <li>52.Create disciplined habits of mind</li> <li>53.Fine-tune your psyche with success</li> <li>54.Volunteer for social causes</li> <li>55.Take a class or join a club to meet people with common interests</li> <li>56.Connect with your alumni association</li> <li>57.Attend art gallery openings, book readings, lectures, music recitals</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">27 tips on how to deal with people you find difficult, distasteful or downright obnoxious</b></p> <ul><li>1.Ask yourself - which of your friends bring out the best or and which person manages to make your crazy-worst behaviors come out.</li> <li>2.Learn to recognize the signs of a healthy relationship - don't continue to be with someone who makes you unhappy</li> <li>3.Accept that - whatever you might feel about someone - others may feel the same about you</li> <li>4.And also know that - you will be able to avoid some people but can't get few out of your life</li> <li>5.And that all of us have to work with people we dislike</li> <li>6.Accept that you can't like everyone - but this is true for others when it comes to you</li> <li>7.Identify your triggers - which people can press and make you lose your self-control</li> <li>8.Create methods to deal with your triggers effectively - when pressed by others</li> <li>9.Learn to manage your emotions and moods better</li> <li>10.Identify what makes you frustrated and irritated frequently - lean to manage them better</li> <li>11.Learn to become dissociate with toxic people's behaviors if you can't get rid of them</li> <li>12.Learn to create a non-reactive poker face </li> <li>13.Treat all people with civility and politeness - if even you don't agree with them</li> <li>14.Maintain your level of dignity and decorum with these</li> <li>15.Be firm on the issue</li> <li>16.Be assertive</li> <li>17.Learn to stop taking everything personally - it may not be you or your fault</li> <li>18.Proactively think of multiple ways of responding calmly instead of reacting impulsively</li> <li>19.If feeling frustrated - ensure that don't make them powerful by stooping down - this is exactly what these people are looking for</li> <li>20.Assertively and calmly express your feelings</li> <li>21.Not everyone nor all things are worth your attention - pick your battles wisely</li> <li>22.Create healthy emotional boundaries</li> <li>23.Disconnect from them emotionally</li> <li>24.Physically separate yourself from situations - where others are able to press your triggers</li> <li>25.Take help of others who support you - if you can - to deal with them - don't go into battle alone</li> <li>26.Learn how to disarm a difficult person - learn to ask questions by putting spotlight on them - by asking open-ended probing questions</li> <li>27.If they are being disrespectful or bullying, call them on it - let them know assertively that you deserve and expect to be treated respectfully</li></ul> <p><b data-redactor-tag="b">45 tips on how to bring out the best in others </b></p> <ul><li>1.Bringing out the best in others would need changing and practicing a set of behaviors-mindset-actions-habits - within you</li> <li>2.Become a coach - build them up by helping them maximize their strengths and managing their weaknesses</li> <li>3.Be an army drill sergeant - who pushes, challenges and transforms an individual to prepare them to succeed. </li> <li>4.Be an encourager - who supports, empathizes and listens </li> <li>5.Be a leader - who inspires people to pursue a greater purpose </li> <li>6.Be the friend that you would like to have</li> <li>7.Focus on others, not yourself - pay attention -switch off your smartphone, avoid other distractions, and make an effort to truly listen to the other person.</li> <li>8.Give your friend space - when they need it</li> <li>9.Don't set too many rules and expectations</li> <li>10.Apologize when you screw up.</li> <li>11.Model the way. Even the most successful people expect their leaders to provide an example. </li> <li>12.Believe in them - their dreams and their success</li> <li>13.Empower them by giving them responsibility</li> <li>14.Lead from within - it should make you feel full of energy</li> <li>15.Build confidence in them - recognize and appreciate their good work</li> <li>16.Offer constructive and practical feedback</li> <li>17.Help them see and encash opportunities</li> <li>18.Make them feel good about themselves</li> <li>19.Support them when things go wrong</li> <li>20.Create meaningful moments where either of can - propose a new idea or ask for help or personal favors</li> <li>21.Use storytelling to spread awareness of meaningful moments of vulnerability and examples of how to manage them successfully.</li> <li>22.Identify your core-values - what you think is the right thing to do, your ethics, that's important.</li> <li>23.Be dependable - be trustable -be honorable</li> <li>24.Take genuine interest in them</li> <li>25.Show your belief in their abilities</li> <li>26.Let others get inspired by what you expect from them</li> <li>27.Once you have built rapport-trust-credibility with them - provide honest feedback regularly.</li> <li>28.Get to know them on deeper levels</li> <li>29.Show them what makes them unique</li> <li>30.Make them identify the strengths they don't recognize in themselves</li> <li>31.Let them take the call and make decision - never make them dependent on - what they should be doing</li> <li>32.Be generous - give your time and energy to make positive difference</li> <li>33.Be open to helping people totally different than you who think differently, act differently, and talk differently</li> <li>34.Go beyond your own biases to spot talent in others - and then nurture and foster talent in others</li> <li>35.Know that at times you will get discouraged, frustrated and distracted - also the same will happen to others</li> <li>36.Understand that discovering talents and strengths - is not easy - it will take time patience and persistence</li> <li>37.Accept that you have to invest your time effort energy in others -and they need do the same</li> <li>38.Draw the line - when you would stop helping</li> <li>39.Make people feel comfortable around you</li> <li>40.Be easy to approach and deal with</li> <li>41.Keep an open mind and learn to recognize people's potential.</li> <li>42.Be slow to judge and give people the benefit of the doubt.</li> <li>43.Remember that people change when your attitude toward them changes.</li> <li>44.Learn how to make people laugh</li> <li>45.Be thorough gentleman or lady and a professional </li></ul><div><br></div><p>#bringoutbestinyourself, #bringoutbestinothers, #howtobeyourbestself, #howtomakeothergrow, #howtoidentifypeoplewholiftyouup, #signsofpeoplewhopullyoudown, #questionstoasktoknowwhoareyourwellwishers, #howtodealwith<b data-redactor-tag="b">obnoxiouspeople, #howtomakeothersfeelgreat, #howtoattractgreatpeople, #whoareyourrealwellwishers, #yourgenuinewellwishers, #waystobringoutbestinyouandothers</b></p>