=100 Psychological tricks that really work

​In this article you will learn the following

-100+ Psychological tricks-hacks-techniques that really work

-9 most powerful NLP techniques - you need to learn to make your life happier

-21 cons you need to Learn to recognize manipulation through dangerous dark psychology

-27 dark psychological traps used by megalomaniac autocratic Politicians, religious- zealots, autocratic-leaders and evil-powerful officials

Cool Psychological techniques to make your quality of life better

All of us need to feel confident - all of us get unnerved in certain situations - all of us dread dealing with few people - all of us need to gain self-control in few situation.

I have listed few cool, easy and practical psychological tips that have worked with me in various tough, challenging and difficult situations - You can add your own developed techniques you have used to come out of tricky situations.

The tips given in this article - although - are simple YET needs solid regular practice - like anything of significance.

But once you have mastered these - they will make your life easier, less stressed and full of confidence.

If you start practicing these tips - then you would be able to recall these and use unconsciously when you get stuck.

Many of the tips - given here - have 900+ detailed do-it-yourself articles, blogs and 3000+ answers in my two websites as well in my Quora page.

100+ Psychological tricks-hacks-techniques that really work

• 1.If you are supposed to make an important presentation - practice it in front of someone [it could be your kid or pet - in case you can't have a group]
• 2.To create great impression and persuade others - learn and create the supporting arguments for diametrically opposite views and then show why what you are suggesting is superior
• 3.When presenting your view-points - use as much verifiable and impressing data as possible
• 4.Mix your speech with technical jargon as well as explanations in laymen's terms
• 5.Learn to drop name - strategically and subtly
• 6.Chew gum before any important event to stop worrying
• 7.Look between the eyes or forehead - to give others the feeling that you are looking eye to eye and also to establish credibility
• 8.If you are talking with a group or in front of large audience - rotate your head slowly by stopping for fraction of seconds - to make almost everyone feel that you are engaging them exclusively
• 9.For fast reading with retention - read a chunk of words and not word by word
• 10.For remembering - trust your gut - be totally without pressure and after the lecture/speech over note down the most important points
• 11.Use body language and expression to ask someone for help without using words
• 12.Learn effective body-language to create good impression
• 13.If you are going to be making a presentation or speech or even going for interview - try to be the first or the last - for maximum recall from your audience
• 14.When you want to convey your dissent or displeasure - silently stare at them without blinking and showing zero emotion
• 15.If you want people to listen to you better - lower your tone to almost a whisper - when giving your punchline
• 16.If someone is agitated - look at them and make your breathing the same when you are fully calm - to slowly bring their agitation down
• 17.If you want people to respond - after asking question - give a pause of 15 seconds
• 18.Learn to ask powerful questions - that make people introspect and to get in touch with their insecurities
• 19.After you have given your offer - to challenge them - sit comfortably - look into their eyes and smile
• 20.If you want to make them little unsure - after they have given a large presentation - ask them to explain again
• 21.To understand or to buy-time to create your response - ask others to elaborate further by asking could you please explain what you mean or could you repeat that, please
• 22.When you don't know anything about a topic - listen and then ask a question - to participate and to become part of a group
• 23.Learn to ask deeper questions subtly about others - to make them feel that you are their well-wisher
• 24.Make very unreasonable demand then scale down to little above what you need to make others grant you this favor
• 25.Use the technique of - if you can't convince them - confuse them - in insignificant relationships and issues
• 26.Do not get dragged into arguments - when argument starts - let others win and you walk away
• 27.Ask for favor by making it seem bigger than it is - to appeal to their sense of feeling great helping you
• 28.Learn to appreciate - by giving specific reasons
• 29.Praise others for their accomplishments - learn to be happy from others' success and happiness - to get the same in your life
• 30.Learn to communicate using we to enroll their agreement and participation
• 31.Don't try to correct others - when you are 100% sure that they are - it is not worth embarrassing anyone
• 32.Ask questions in such a way that people think that it is their idea
• 33.Give people choice - to make them think that they have made the decision
• 34.If you must lie -use 20% lies along with 80% truth
• 35.Look into someone's eyes when you get a dissatisfactory answer
• 36.Learn to remember and use names if you want to be popular
• 37.When you find it difficult to take decision - break the task into small-small steps and decide on them
• 38.Practice and use right posture to boost your confidence
• 39.Make people feel needed when you ask for help
• 40.Rub your hands to warm before you shake hands with others
• 41.Help people - just like that - do something first to create a feeling of indebt-ness
• 42.Ask for something much harder and outrageous than what you really want
• 43.Create a feeling of scarcity - sometimes when you want people to agree with something
• 44.Admit little things to build trust
• 45.Know which color and which style among your dresses makes you feel confident and powerful - wear them when you are going for important events
• 46.Think the worst and create the most negative assumptions - then find ways to overcome them
• 47.Put a large mirror behind you - if deal with many angry customers face to face
• 48.Ignore-avoid-eliminate - toxic and difficult people or learn how to deal with them
• 49.Improve your critical and analytical thinking - because if you know how to analyze a person's behavior and actions towards you - you will be able to easily spot genuine as well as manipulators
• 50.Use over the ear headphones to stop people from talking with you
• 51.Ask an innocent question that traps into the interest of others - to distract them
• 52.Ignore excuses, tantrums and dramas of others - and instead ask them about what is important
• 53.Ask others to give you with figures and numbers
• 54.Sandwich your request with the word Because - by creating a big cause
• 55.To build trust and bonding and to remove guard share a small secret to make them be more open with you
• 56.Learn to joke and create humor
• 57.Be comfortable in showing your vulnerable side with confidence
• 58.Make them to think about the future
• 59.Try something new together
• 60.Maintain grooming - be a well-dressed person
• 61.Stop chasing people - create compelling reasons for them to become interested in you
• 62.Polish and sharpen your communication skills
• 63.Make your manners respectable
• 64.Stand out - don't be part of crowd
• 65.Create personal magnetism and charm
• 66.Choose the right seat at dinner - there are few power-seats - claiming your space -rest your arms on the armrests
• 67.Stop being boring, nagging and weighing
• 68.Learn to be the center of attention
• 69.Be objective and open-minded -do not let your emotions and past experiences influence your impressions and opinions
• 70.Master and use small talk - then lead it to meaningful conversations
• 71.Ask direct questions to get a straight answer
• 72.Pay attention to your flashes of insight
• 73.Become a good observer - practice watching people - recognize hot buttons and triggers
• 74.Learn to use EFT - the emotional freedom technique - to overcome fear and pain
• 75.Trust your gut-feelings - if for no reason you feel scared - check and create ways feel secure and make yourself safe
• 76.If you feel someone is stalking/watching you - don't ignore your feeling - ensure that you take adequate deterrent steps
• 77.Even if you are not clear about something - explain/teach it to someone
• 78.9 most powerful NLP techniques - you need to learn to make your life happier
• I.Visualization - to create solutions and to clarify
• II.Anchoring positives - to trigger positive and confident feelings in an instant
• III.Future-pacing - for making you focused on success
• IV.Eye-assessing cues - to verify if someone is lying or making up stories
• V.Recognizing generalization, distortion and
• VI.Learning hypnotic words that impress and gets you the outcome you are looking for
• VII.Mirroring technique to create rapport and goodwill - even with strangers
• VIII.Breath observing techniques to know the inner feelings of others
• IX.Getting rid of unhealthy habits-mindsets-attitude by substituting them with powerful ones
• 79.21 cons you need to Learn to recognize manipulation through dangerous dark psychology so that - narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths, leaders, politicians, attorneys, and influencers etc. use - so that you can put a stop to it assertively by highlighting their deceit and lies - these people have mastered all these tactics and tricks - they also know how to seen as charming, intelligent, and cool and trustable
• I.You are getting excessive attention and admiration - the main goal of the manipulator is to make you dependent on them emotionally
• II.They give you choices which satisfies their ulterior agendas
• III.After showing excessive interest in you - they ghost you - to make you miss the and do anything
• IV.Person goes cold on you without any explanation or clear reason
• V.But the most dangerous trick is gas-lighting - where after using all above tricks - they make you feel responsible for everything bad to make you question even your sanity - by using your insecurities
• VI.When people get advantage in negotiation - say by match-fixing behind the scene
• VII.When others make you feel guilty, ashamed or responsible - for what is their fault
• VIII.Taking advantage of you while telling you to be strong and independent
• IX.Having sex without commitment
• X.Telling Lies about future plans
• XI.Takes advantage of soft-corner - financially, professionally and socially as well as physically
• XII.Presents a different personality than what he/she is really
• XIII.Position themselves as the prize-catch
• XIV.Make others chase him/her by being unavailable
• XV.Control others through sex
• XVI.Making their partner attached through physical and emotional abuse
• XVII.Traumatic bonding using a cycle of fights and then loving
• XVIII.Using dark sex to satisfy and keep the victim hooked
• XIX.Creating fear of abandonment to make the partner submit
• XX.Using superior inferior devaluation
• XXI.Using punishment and reward cycle giving positive and negative emotional strokes
• 80.27 dark psychological traps used by megalomaniac autocratic Politicians, religious- zealots, autocratic-leaders and evil-powerful officials
• I.Make opposition look stupid, crazy, incapable
• II.Make the earlier or current people look criminal
• III.Make opposition as enemy of the state themselves as the only savior
• IV.Create an enemy - create a tragedy - create a catastrophe
• V.Take credit all good - even not done anything
• VI.Blame the opposition for all wrong
• VII.Break and fix and use and manipulate through all types - bureaucratic, judicial,executive, media, all regulators and institutions
• VIII.Focusing on useless topics and foster ideals of nationalism
• IX.Using religion
• X.Ridicule, disempower and suppress discording voices using all the law-order machinery
• XI.Make up a big, huge enemy that can only be fought as a group
• XII.Fusing the group with the leader
• XIII.Creating and atmosphere of terror to win without conflict
• XIV.Creating and usingnoise as psychological warfare
• XV.Frame oneself as god- opposition as evil
• XVI.Hide the truth facts, statistics, studies
• XVII.Imprisons all those who oppose them
• XVIII.Fix court judgements
• XIX.Reward all criminals
• XX.Hide the cost of their experiments
• XXI.Creates lies, lies and more lies to cover the truth
• XXII.Associates with people who have questionable background and educations
• XXIII.Encourages vigilantes
• XXIV.Creates imaginary personalities to promote their lies
• XXV.Create imaginary enemies
• XXVI.Keep pot of hatred boiling
• XXVII.Gain trust of most gullible and in general most stupid/illiterate/poor yet the largest chunks by giving them small inducements